33 very realistic love quotes

1. Love until there is no sound is the end. No matter how beautiful the story is, it will also end one day. There are just differences in the degrees.

2. Many stories often start with beauty and happiness and end with sadness. Yes, every hasty scratch in life will become an unforgettable memory for us.

3. God allows us to meet a few wrong people first on the road of love, and then we find the right person, maybe because he wants us to be grateful to them.

4. We have passed but left traces, and we have been hurt, but we are helpless. Life is just a passing process.

5. Since two small stars with different orbits have different orbits, it is inevitable that they will return to their respective places. Everyone has his own ambitions. Maybe saying goodbye to yesterday is a prelude to success. Maybe after passing by, there is still a beautiful scenery of his own on his own track.

6. Even if one day we are separated, it will be short-lived. One day we can still be together. When we get together again, we will never be separated and we will be eternal partners together, so in In the days before that, before we got together, we had to protect ourselves for each other.

7. Everything in the world has its weaknesses, but only true love is eternally invincible. It is a taste that everyone will taste and the feeling that remains the same after tasting it.

8. Learn to give up and only cherish regrets.

9. Meteors are destined to disappear in a flash; duckweeds are always drifting with the tide; white clouds can only drift in the sky. The real world is not a gentle fairy tale. Perhaps these past events will turn into the most beautiful cloud, parked in memory, and gain and loss will echo from the same source.

10. In this world, a person can have joy and happiness at the same time, what else is there to be dissatisfied about?

11. I don’t blame myself, nor do I resent life. I don’t even want to try to forget you, because many of the sorrows in the world are not mine alone. When there are too many disappointments, you can't stay, you can only move forward boldly with hope.

12. Maybe we have loved before, but our love took the wrong train and we passed each other at that moment.

13. Acquaintance has its own destiny, knowing each other has its own intention. Leave the years to history and cherish the affinity between each other. The road in life is still very long

14. Life is a kind of fate. What you deliberately pursue may not be available in your life, but you have not. The brilliance of expectation will come unexpectedly in your indifference and calmness.

15. It would be ridiculous for a story to have no beginning, but things in the world may be like this, and everything is doomed in just one moment. I don’t know if the story that started out will definitely have an outcome, but a life with dreams is exciting enough.

16. Like is different from love. Like is the feeling of being able to enjoy yourself on a swing without the need for response from others; love is the seesaw that requires someone to sit across from you, interact with you, and be close to your inner feeling. Are you willing to sit opposite me all the time?

17. The reason why we pass each other is not because we are not destined, but because there are two words missing in our lives: "touch". Indeed, our hearts are no longer sensitive as a result, and we no longer carefully collect the slightest touches around us. Only when we miss it and look back, do we realize that we have really lost a lot.

18. Sometimes, we always tend to ignore the people around us who are most familiar and suitable for us. In fact, that is our best choice. Fantasy in hope is a very beautiful thing, and sometimes fate will fall from the sky.

19. Love knows no boundaries. Even if we are far away, the distance between our hearts will not be too far.

20. Love needs some sadness and a little dramatic ending, so that it becomes more hazy and precious.

21. When we know happiness, it is because we know how to cherish.

22. Gaining and losing are both accidental and inevitable. Maybe only we don’t understand.

23. Don’t worry too much about what you get, but ask yourself more about what you paid. Waiting itself is love and does not require any results.

24. When love fades away, it is like a car speeding on the highway. It cannot stop even if it wants to.

25. There are no unfinished stories in this world, only undead hearts.

26. We think we don’t need others. We think the other person loves us more. Once we lose them, we realize: I can be alone, but I don’t want to.

27. Only with pursuit and desire can there be happiness, but also frustration and disappointment. After frustration and disappointment, we learn to cherish. If you were not loved by someone before, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future.

28. We often only realize how beautiful something we once owned is when we lose it; however, the same truth is: only when we can own something can we understand what we have lost before. .

29. The love and longing in my heart are just memories of what I once had. I think some things can be forgotten, some things can be commemorated, some things can be done willingly, and some things have always been powerless. If loving you is my disaster, I start to yearn for moths and fly toward the flames.

30. When you love someone, you need to understand and forgive; you need to apologize and thank; you need to be considerate and considerate; you need to accept but not endure; you need to support but not dominate; you need to tolerate but not condone. ;It is condolences rather than questioning; it is talk rather than accusation; it is unforgettable rather than forgotten

31. When we break up, I will not bless you because no one likes you more than me; I also I won’t hate you because love transcends hate. Most of our love can withstand the wind and rain, but cannot withstand the ordinary. Don't take each other's vows too seriously, it's just a coat of love; don't take passion too seriously, it's just a prelude to love; don't take ***'s overcoming difficulties too seriously, it's just a fragment of love.

32. Love is the most beautiful flower in the world. Only with careful care and watering can it overflow with fragrance and keep blooming undefeated. Love requires giving and grasping. If you don't know how to give and grasp, then some people will no longer be there once you miss them, and some things and scenes will never come back once you miss them.

33. In the world of mortals, true love may not be romantic, but it must be beautiful. It may not be smooth sailing, but it must be long-lasting. There is no doubt that the beginning of love comes from fate, and the preservation of love comes from cherishing it. People come and go in life, and if you don't know how to cherish them, troubles and conflicts will emerge one after another, sadness and tears will follow, the curtain of love will be forced to fall, love will end early, and those who are dependent on each other will eventually end up together. The separation of labor and swallows may also be the end of overwhelming water. The sentences about beautiful love mood are very realistic

1. Really good love is effortless. There is no need to deliberately please or work hard, the two of them are comfortable just letting things take their own course. If a relationship or a person requires you to spend a lot of energy to please, it is destined to not be the fate that will accompany you until the end. The person who loves you most will not let you work so hard.

2. The four happiest things in life: someone believes in you, someone loves you, someone waits for you, and someone understands you. No matter how early or late we meet, only sincerity can accompany us; no matter how far away friends are, only understanding can bring warmth. What is vigorous may not be sincere; what is silent may not be unintentional. Leave everything to time and there will always be an answer.

3. The highest state of love is not that one party makes endless efforts for the other in exchange for rewards, but that you enrich my life and I enrich your life. We were two people before we met. After meeting, we become not one, but one and a half. I keep half of it for myself, so that I can love you more clearly.

4. What should the so-called love look like: vigorous and desperate, does it count as love; holding hands with each other until old age, does it count as love; plain as water, respectful as a guest, does it count as love. True love should be two people who understand each other, respect each other, do not entangle, tie or possess each other, and then accompany each other through a long journey.

5. When others are pointing out inspiring words, sit down silently and read a beloved book; when others are indulging in feasting, singing and dancing, close the door and listen to a soft piano music, so that they can The harmonious melody caresses gently from the heart; only when you have been drunk can you know the strength of wine, and only after you have loved can you know the importance of it.

When it comes to relationships, you don't know how to cherish them when you have them, but you know how precious they are after you lose them.

6. Because I love you, I love you. Love requires no reason and no reason. Looking back at the past life five hundred times makes this life pass by. The film of time clearly bears your shadow; the lens of time freezes on the ancient ferry. You were my lover in my previous life, see you again in this life. A happy photo album filled with memories of past and present lives.

7. Because of the wind and rain, and because of the ends of the earth, I did not hold onto your love. Love comes quietly and disappears quietly in her story. I couldn't let her sow seeds in the soil of love, take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit; I couldn't let my thoughts of you be covered with a red wedding dress. It’s just that I still miss the time we spent together, and I still keep you in the depths of my memory forever.

8. Love is not about loving because of being loved. Love is the most passionate thing, and it should be love for the sake of love. When a person truly knows how to care for others, is grateful for everything he encounters in life, and is always moved and blessed, we say he has understood the true meaning of love. In a word, love means taking the happiness of others as one's own happiness.

9. How many people are saying that I will wait for you, waiting for the day you change your mind; I will wait for you, waiting for the day you are willing to be with me; I will wait for you, waiting for you to leave that The day when someone comes to me; I will wait for you. However, do people know that few love in the world can really withstand the waiting!

10. People who like you want yours. Now. Those who love you want your future. True love is not love at first sight, but love over time; true fate is not God's arrangement, but your initiative; true concern is not asking her to change if you think it is good, but her change. The first thing to discover is that the real contradiction is not that she doesn't understand you, but that you won't tolerate her.

11. No matter how dark the night is, there is always dawn; no matter how difficult the hurdle is, you can always get through it. Don't laugh at people, everyone has silent pain and sad tears; don't despise people, you will always turn around when you are alive, and you will always make a difference even if you are not dead. Only when you are lonely can you see clearly who is showing enthusiasm; only when you are helpless can you understand who is pouring cold water on. Be kind to those who love you, and cherish the heart that loves you. There is no turning back in life, and relationships cannot be restarted or rekindled.

12. If I were a fish and you were water, how great would it be? Water always knows what the fish is thinking, because the fish is in the heart of the water. But I am not a fish, and you are not water. You will never know my love, because I may not be in your heart at all! If I are a fish and you are water, can I swim into your heart?

13. When love is no longer around, please say your best wishes to him. After all, you have loved him before. When it's over, don't tell him I hate you. Love is a matter of two people, if they miss it, everyone is responsible. What comes to mind after leaving will definitely be the picture of loneliness, please forget it. A person always has a new beginning, don't let the past tie you to the palace of sorrow.

14. In the past, when I was broken up in love, I would hate him and why he was so heartless and unjust. When I heard bad news about him, I would secretly enjoy myself. But I can’t do that now. Even if I lose him now , I will also wish him well and sincerely hope he will live well. I would be sad if he wasn't doing well. This is also the difference between liking and loving.

15. I believe that encounters and separations are destined to happen. People who are thoughtful will always remember each other no matter how far away they are. An unintentional person is as close as you are and as far away as you are. All love will expire, the key is where it stays. If it stays in the past, then it only belongs to this point in time; if it stays in your heart, then it will become eternal, even beyond your life.

16. Two people who love each other can be together without each other, without a house, a car, or money, but they cannot lose trust. Two loving hearts rely on each other and walk together. They lost their trust in each other, so they lost their balance, each returned to their own track, and there was no reason to love each other.

17. Looking up, the moon in the sky is as clear and translucent as your affectionate eyes. Missing you, just like this, on countless nights, slowly developed a habit. I can't forget your hands like catkins and your skin like gelatin; I can't forget your beautiful eyes and your affectionate gaze; I can't forget your charming smile that captures the soul.

18. My eyes are crying, but my heart is holding an umbrella for you. Your happiness is the greatest happiness in my life. I love you not because I want to have you, but because I hope you will be happier than me. . Crazy love, crazy love. Leave me, I respect your choice. On the windy and rainy road, I will spread my wings and fly high, leaving your world. I can't give you the life you want, and you can't give me the understanding I want.

19. Let nature take its course, if it is destined, it will definitely happen. How many people's memories record those unbridled youth. When he left you, at the very beginning, you had missed him, felt lost, and even felt melancholy and pain. Romance does not have to be a matter of two people, nor does romance necessarily exist only in love.

20. The flowing water is the shadow of the white clouds, the moon is the shadow of the sun, the night is the shadow of the day, the pain is the shadow of love, I don’t ask you to be my shadow, I am willing to be your shadow, fate is ruthless , pushed you and me to the extremes. A hundred years of tears can only flow into my heart slowly. I took the wrong train in this life, and I am destined not to be able to depend on you. I heard a dream within a dream, my you, chasing you forever. Speak in a very mature and realistic sentence

1. When you can't let go, think more about how the other person let you go.

2. Maturity means that if you ignore me, I won't say much. If you ridicule me, I will laugh it off. If you love me, I will love you more.

3. We often look up to and envy the happiness of others, but when we look back we find that our own happiness is being looked up to and envied by others. In fact, each of us is happy, but your happiness is in the eyes of others.

4. Growth is the process of muting your cries.

5． Sugar cane is not as sweet at both ends. If you choose an outgoing woman, you have to accept her slutty ways. If you choose a pure woman, you have to accept her naivety. If you choose a rational woman, you have to accept her calculations. If you choose a shy woman, you have to accept her inferiority complex. You chose a brave woman, and you have to accept her stubbornness. You chose a beautiful woman, and you have to accept her past. There is a perfect woman, but she is in a dream.

6. Don't always linger in the memories of the past. Yesterday's sun cannot dry today's clothes.

7. In fact, we are all the same. We want to look back but are afraid of making the same mistakes again.

8. The most incompetent thing a man can say is: If you think so, I can't help it.

9. What to bring back to school: 1. A packet of unwritten homework; 2. A brave heart; 3. A body that can withstand abuse; 4. A fearless face; 5. Two ears that can withstand criticism ; 6. A pair of empty eyes.

10． Other dormitories have good discipline, good grades, and good hygiene, but we just have to be happy in our dormitory.

11. In the past, if there was only one Taiyang in QQ level, I felt awesome. But now I know that the more people there are, the older I am.

12. Don't let a girl cry too many times. The tears are all water in her head. When the water runs out, it will be difficult to lie to her.

13. I have never seen anything that promotes the breakup of couples than connecting to QQ.

14. You have no right to look down on yourself, you have no right to be aloof and decadent, you have no right to be influenced by other people’s opinions, you have no right to feel inferior and cowardly, you have to know who you are, you have no way out, you can only let yourself live. Be better than anyone else, become stronger than anyone else, and reach a height that makes all those who look down on you look up to you until their necks feel sore. This is revenge worth your life, and this is a loud enough slap in the face.

15. When you have a girlfriend, don't be merciful and don't live like a bus.

16. I know that I am not kind, gentle, and beautiful, but you are uneducated, do you know that?

17. If you are not sure about something, don’t have hope, otherwise you won’t be disappointed.

18． Suddenly I discovered a secret, my crush never likes me, and I don’t feel anything about anyone who likes me. The options that seem to be correct in the exam are wrong every time, and almost always are correct if I am confused. Essays that are written particularly carefully are bound to get low marks, while essays that are made up randomly often get better results than others. The content I have memorized so hard is almost never tested, and the overlooked details often give me a fatal blow. I don’t follow someone very much anymore, and he suddenly comes to see me; I follow someone every day, and he doesn’t even know.

Life is always playing tricks on you.

19. I just want to keep looking forward. After all, it takes too much courage to look back. All I can do is to stride forward, ignore some people and things that are not worthy of attention, and only focus on the scenery that belongs to me.

20. People who are quarreling one second and making you laugh the next must be cherished.

21. There will always be people who fall in love with the imaginary you, then see your true colors, and finally spurn you, saying that you are this kind of person, but in fact you have always been the same, and you have become infamous even though you have done nothing.

22. It is said that one forgiveness will lead to two betrayals.

23. We all meet the people we most want to commit to when we are least able to make promises to others, and we also meet the people we most want to keep when we have to move forward for our ideals.

24. When people follow their hearts, they become discouraged.

25. You always say that her circle is so big that she doesn't need you, but do you know how many people she has lost along the way, and how many people now treat her sincerely? Very realistic love quotes for women

1. Calm down and think about it, you may not really like him. Everyone has inertia. For example, if someone calls you at 9 o'clock every day and stops calling you after 2 weeks, you will definitely feel uncomfortable. This is a very normal psychological effect. So, when you are used to him being around you every day, and suddenly he is far away from you, you are not willing to give in and start to miss him. Don't believe that you really like him that much, it's just an inertial effect. Don't think too much about him, just do what you need to do. After a few days you get used to it and everything will be fine again. Then what should I do if he becomes enthusiastic again? If you haven't seen through it yet and you want to fall into the trap, there's nothing I can do about it.

2. Don’t be sentimental. Remember: if he is flirting with you, he just doesn't like you enough. If a man really likes someone, it can be seen from his eyes. He wants to be tied to you. How can he be hot and cold, advance and retreat? Yes, he must like you, and he will always have an affair with you if he likes you. Therefore, you must not be sentimental towards a man who is ambiguous with you, even if he often drags you out and sends you text messages, phone calls, and QQ every day. Even if she has been hugged or kissed, it still does not mean anything, nothing. Don't believe the good things this man says.

3. If you really like him. To put it bluntly, even if you really like him and miss him all the time, you still have to keep it in your heart and never let him know. If you feel overwhelmed, you can tell a good friend or write online to vent, but don’t tell him. Why? Because your posture must be beautiful. Even if you lose, only you will know, and he will have no chance to look down on you.

4. Want to be ambiguous with others? No, never, there will be retribution for this kind of thing. It's so good to love someone well! Don't do such immoral things.

5. Don’t waste your time on men. Men are nothing more than that. I can only say that now is not the time. Do what you should do, love yourself and women, see through everything, and strive to be a perfect woman. Talent is the most important.

6. Wear quality clothes and find a quality boyfriend. He doesn't have to be beautiful, but he must make you feel safe and happy.

7. Never circle around the man you like endlessly. Even if you like him to the point of death, you still have to learn to give him space, otherwise, you will Be careful if you wrap it too tightly it will strangle him.

8. Women must remember that if you reconcile a man who has betrayed you, he will continue to betray you, because he has not paid any price for betraying you.

9. If you forgive a man who has beaten you, he will continue to beat you, because he has not paid any price for beating you.

10. When you are a woman, you should be like a painting. Don’t be a piece of clothing. Men try it on over and over again, but no one buys it. It is worn out after trying it, and it is still difficult to sell it at 50% off. .

11. Don’t be moved by romance. Staying up all night because of who gives you a box of chocolates or a bouquet of flowers will only make men think you are mediocre and easy to deal with.

12. If your figure allows, you can dress up appropriately, but don’t lose your dignity. Overly revealing clothes will only make women jealous and men have evil thoughts. Appropriate display will make the same sex respect and the opposite sex respect themselves.

13. Try to stay away from bars and discos, where apart from ecstasy and one-night stands, they have nothing to do with a firm love or the happiness you can rely on.

14. Marry a rich man or a poor man? Marry a man who is willing to spend money for you!

15. A man who says he is not worthy of you from the beginning will always be in the future. Not worthy of you.

16. A good man has requirements for himself but no requirements for women.

17. A man who is tight on himself and his girlfriend is not interesting.

18. Don’t let a man hit you. If you are beaten once, you must break up with him. Don't want a man who is a playboy and has a lot of troubles. You must break up with him once you find him. As the old saying goes, if you continue to break things, you will suffer chaos.

19. Girls must have their own bottom line in love. You must never give up your dignity, insult your parents, or abandon your job just because you love him. A good relationship and marriage must be a win-win situation, not a one-sided sacrifice and fulfillment.

20. Say something clearly. If you have any ideas, speak them out. Don't let men guess. If you can communicate, your life will be happier. Failure to communicate means that your happiness is not guaranteed.

21. Don’t act virtuous in front of a man from the beginning. If he feels at ease with your efforts but doesn't know how to repay you, he is suspected of being a chauvinist. If you relax over time and don't do as well as before, he will be very hurt and feel that you lied to him or that you don't love him anymore.

22. Cherish a man who truly loves you and treats you well. A good man will treat you in a way that is truly beneficial to you, not to pamper you or to restrain you in the name of loving you. There are very few men like this. If you meet them, you must cherish them. Young men tend to love their girlfriends in an innocent way. He may be immature, but his love is real. Don't give up lightly. Only when you have more experience in society will you know how precious a sincere heart is.

23. Don’t give your heart to a man’s initial pursuit. Both good men and bad men will care about you at the beginning of their pursuit of you, pick you up and drop you off, send you text messages, and take care of you when you are sick. Don't fall in love as soon as someone treats you well. Think about it, look at it more, and then make a decision. Generally, four months is enough contact for you to understand him. Online communication does not count, no matter how long-term online contact is, real life is meaningful. You have to eat, go shopping, and do things with him to understand him. You know whether you live a happy life or not. Many times, it is not men who are deceiving us, but ourselves who are deceiving ourselves.

24. If you love him, accept him as he is now, and don’t imagine how he will change. If he can change it, of course it would be best. Otherwise, just think about whether you can accept it. Every shortcoming before marriage will be magnified after marriage. If he smokes and you love him, try to accept it. There are too few men who quit smoking after marriage. The same goes for other disadvantages.

25. Never be a third party. When this man can betray his wife and be with you, he will definitely betray you for other women, and your situation will be worse than his wife's. miserable.

26. Never listen to the love tragedy told by any married man. It is ridiculous to talk about the lack of love even after the children are born. Marriage and family are love when there are no children. Having children is responsibility, no. Responsible people are not worthy of love.

27. Never fall in love with a poor boy. A poor boy should not fall in love. He must fight first. When a good woman falls in love with a poor boy and helps him work hard to make progress, this woman should not expect Will be rewarded by Ren Xiang. When a poor boy succeeds, the first person to betray is his lover who sincerely helps him. There have been countless examples of this.

28. Girls should not believe that there are honest men in this world, only bad guys who have no chance to do evil for the time being.

29. Girls should pay attention to men who swear easily. They are never good. If they swear lightly, they will be betrayed.

30. Girls should pay more attention to men who are close to you. Remember that following you every day is not love for you, but that he has a strong selfish mentality. I must get what I want. No matter how hard I get, I don’t want it. , this kind of mentality is also a psychological manifestation of this kind of man's incompetence. If he has a legitimate career, a clear ambition to make progress, and is too busy to work, will he still have time to entangle girls?

31. Many men say that women are realistic and vain. They would rather cry on a BMW than laugh on a bicycle. . . In fact, most women are not like this! If you are really good to her and really love her, she will be willing to accompany you through the ups and downs of starting from scratch! Many times, the reason why she leaves is that you ride a broken bicycle and let her ride every day. Cry!

32. Men always say, if I have no money, no car, no house, no diamond ring, but I have a heart that loves you, will you marry me? I want to say: If I have no figure I have no appearance, no job, no height, and cannot have children, but I have a heart that loves you. Will you marry me? Come on, don’t always say that women are realistic, men are the same! Don’t envy other people’s daughters-in-law who can save money and live a good life. Can the cost of raising a goose be the same as that of a swan?

33. A girl doesn’t care whether you have money or not. What she cares about is whether you will work hard to change the status quo; a girl doesn’t care about being with you. Life will encounter difficulties, and what she cares about is whether you will rise to them; a girl doesn't care how romantic you are, what she cares about is whether she can feel your love from every detail of life; a girl doesn't care about you. No matter what your current situation is, what she cares about is whether you can let her see your future.

34. A man has no talent, no matter how handsome he is, his IQ is so low that he cannot fall in love and can only be used as bedding, and his sex postures are all the same and uncreative. This is for liberal arts students. Common problem.

35. When a man is helpless, he no longer considers virginity when marrying a wife. Why do women have higher demands on men? Are you well-educated? Are you anti-aging? Can you support a family? Or can you do housework and cook? You can’t do anything, you can’t do what you want, and your skills in bed are still second-hand. . Where did you get the confidence to ask a man not to marry if he doesn't have a house? If you don't marry if you don't have a house, it's like someone is rushing to marry you. There are also those who claim to get married after 30. If you have the ability, don't get married. I'll see if you'll be in tears after you turn 30.

36. If your boyfriend likes you and wants to marry you, that’s because he loves you, not because he deserves you. You want a house and a car, so you go and be a mistress. After you sell your youth, go there by yourself with the car and the house. Don't get kicked away and then kneel on the ground and shout to the sky, where has all the true love gone? Why doesn't anyone really love me? Let me tell you that true love has been eaten by yourselves! In this chaotic era, how overflowing are our emotions? Men can't refuse new loves, women can't forget old loves, they have squandered overflowing youth, overflowing emotions, and left behind. What?

37. When a man accuses his woman of being strong, he must first see if he is strong enough. Women are animals that are always weak when faced with love, and strong when faced with weakness. The reason why a woman is strong is because she does not receive the protection and care she deserves. A woman who has received sufficient love and security does not need to prepare for war and confront the world. Only then will she become emotional and soft.

38. Today’s women, when they are teenagers, their hair is not fully grown yet, they are exposed. By the time they are in their twenties, they don’t know how many men have been fucked by them. How many people have I called their husbands, and they kept shouting that there are no good men in this world, and there is no true love anymore. To such a woman, I just want to say that your true love has been aborted long ago, and your children have been washed into the smelly water. There are many good men, but are you worthy?

39. A young man said that his girlfriend left him because he had no money and could only play games and sleep at home on weekends. I said, she I left you not because you had no money, but because you only played games and slept at home. When you had no money, would you take her hiking on weekends, would you DIY hot pot at home, would you quietly watch Korean dramas with her without doing anything? Well, you think everything is bought with money, but you don’t know that a man’s decadence is more disgusting than having no money.

40. If a girl can quietly accompany a man to start a business before he has money, power and influence, the man will be very grateful to you, or grateful, and he will admit that you are with him. own equals.

If you approach a man only after he has successfully started his own business, the man will have to wonder whether you value the man's money or the man. If you value the man's money, then it is a transaction. If you say You are interested in men. So, let me ask you, where were you when men were working hard in society, lonely like a lone wolf every night, licking their wounds in their own dens late at night?