Tu Lei's Six Advice to Women

1. Women would rather believe in ghosts than men's mouths! This sentence is a bit extreme. I feel that men all over the world are unreliable, but there is a truth. What it really means is to tell women not to believe sweet words, but to swear to heaven. The man who really loves you is always clumsy, but he will do a lot for you. You know-what you do is true love, all talk and no action, hypocrite. How many women, don't be hit by sugar-coated shells, think it's true love for life, so they hold hands with someone happily. Later, when I felt that love was in full swing, I was kicked away, and it was women who suffered. Love is a lifelong action, which proves that men are willing to pay for women, and women are willing to be a strong career backing for men. People who really love each other are often clumsy and can't say it, but they always try their best to change the relationship between two people and give women a practical feeling. 2, women, either fall in love and get married, or be proud and single, don't use your youth to train other people's husbands in the future, still so serious. A woman, don't treat love as a game. When she is in love, be serious, don't fool anyone, and don't feel better. I feel that it is true love, and I feel that she has never seen a man in her life. A woman, if she doesn't meet a tempted man, might as well live alone. Although single, she gave more opportunities to excellent men. Above all, don't use your youth to be a minor. You know, someone else's husband loves your youth and beauty, but the person who doesn't love you is Lao Huang. You please, and finally bring shame on yourself. How many facts have proved this. 3. A woman should never be a third party. When a man can betray his wife and stay with you, he will betray you because of other women, and your situation will be worse than his wife's. A woman is either married well or single. Don't be a third party, you feel humiliated, your relatives and friends feel humiliated, and your man often can't get rid of it and can't walk hand in hand everywhere. You have to think about it, a man, for you, gave up his family, it must be a lack of responsibility, and then? He loves you for a while, and if a more beautiful woman comes, he will give you up. That's what people do. With the first time, there will be a second time and a third time. Don't expect a man to cheat you occasionally. When the man you take away leaves you, it is even worse, because the first divorce, the man has assets, the second time he loses assets, the third time and the fourth time, the assets are pitiful. What did you give? What did you get? 4, women, especially girls, should pay attention to the man who is tightly entangled, remember that following you every day is not love you, but he has a strong selfish psychology. The men you hang out with every day are deliberately annoying your men. Men who are with you regardless of their ideals look sweet, but these people are often malicious. Men have the desire to possess. Many men have the desire to possess because they have the responsibility of family and love and know how to control themselves. The man who pesters you loses his sense of responsibility, just tries his best to get you, then quietly alienates you and leaves you unconsciously. It seems that everything is planned. People can play tricks, you know? 5, woman, remember that a man who loves you will never think you are ugly, and a man who praises your beauty may not love you! Although we are all visual animals, we only look at your man with our eyes and just want to get your body. As long as we understand your man with our heart, we are willing to spend our lives with you! A man knows who he is in love with. Love is with the heart, not with the eyes and nose. I love you, and I think you are beautiful. Also, love me, love my dog, even if you have a mole on your face, the man who loves you thinks it is a perfect coincidence. Also, those who know what brand of perfume you are using by smell are all playboys, unless they are in the perfume business! You ask, has he smelled a lot of women? 6. Women rely on intuition and sense of smell, while men always think they are unconscious. Now that women are so determined, men will always regret why they found out later. In fact, women are smart, their minds are delicate and their sixth sense is different. Men will feel whether they love or not. It's just that many women are fascinated by love and become numb. Therefore, women should stay awake, no matter how much they love a person, they should remain rational, learn to observe and know how to distinguish true love from disguised love. A person, love or not, is to show the clues. Therefore, men will not treat women as fools. Women are stupid because they love you. When a woman becomes wise in front of men and thinks about problems everywhere, it is that there is something wrong with love and she is wary of men everywhere. This kind of love has become dull. 7. A man who never mentions other women in front of you may also be a devil wears Prada; And a handsome man who can openly praise other women in front of you may really have no second thoughts. Because a man loves you, he tells you the truth, and then talks to you about everything and chats anytime, anywhere. So if he comes into contact with anyone, including women, he will tell you the truth. If you think that a man said something to another woman, you will be angry, or lead to a quarrel, then this man will also become reserved, and if he doesn't tell the truth, he will become two strangers over time. Love has lost trust. Those who always say that there are no women around them are actually playing tricks. It should be noted that they may really change their minds and have someone else in their hearts. 8. When a person falls, his mind becomes smaller. This is not pleasing to the eye, and that is not the way. A daughter-in-law dressed up beautifully is a precursor to cheating. If a daughter-in-law wants to earn more, it must be crooked ways. Men, too, have good faces. They have money, so they have atmosphere. Otherwise, they are afraid to go out without money. Therefore, women should know that when a man is poor, he should understand, not criticize each other. Men also have their own difficulties and need women's careful care. Especially for men, women are also the strength to rely on. Do not be a real woman. Support to go back to Sohu to see more of Tu Lei's six suggestions for women. 2 1. The heart is not forgiving, and the mouth is not forgiving. A good-hearted person can be outspoken, while a sweet-mouthed person will hide it. It's better to be a herdsman than a sweet-mouthed thief! Advice when least heeded is good for action, and those who dare to say that you have shortcomings love you. Flattering up every day is just a smiling tiger, knowing people's faces but not knowing their hearts. If a woman believes it, it will be bad. "Hiding the knife in the smile", those sweet words are often sugar-coated shells, and they will be happy for a while and sad for a lifetime. The man who loves you is not talking with his mouth, but doing it with practical actions. It is no use just doing it. A person who says you are wrong is helping you and helping you find a better way. Only a man who really loves you can be so dumb. Even if you are unhappy, you still say it. Only a dumb person has a truer heart. Never listen to any love tragedy told by a married man. It's ridiculous that children can't talk about love when they are born. A woman, if she wants to love someone, must be generous enough to love a single man. If she meets a man with a family, no matter how much you love him, please think about it, think twice, think three times, then weigh your weight and walk away rationally. Don't be a mistress, it's a sad beginning of your life. Don't trust men who keep saying that they are unhappy in marriage. At the beginning, if it weren't for love, I wouldn't get married and start a family, and I wouldn't say that I loved the wrong person. If a man really loves you, let him divorce you, not let him drag down your youth, make love impossible, give up impossible and fall into a dilemma. Women would rather live alone than be mistresses. Facts tell you that when you fall in love with a family, most of them bear the burden of humiliation and finally have to let go with tears. 3, men are talented, of course, it is glorious. But talent can only be appreciated, not loved! Some women love men because of their talents, but they ignore that what a man really deserves is his sense of responsibility for you! Otherwise, the more talented you are, the more likely your talent will become a bargaining chip for betraying you in the future! What does a man who doesn't love you have to do with his talent? Men are talented, yes, many women like them. But talented people are more persistent in their careers than in their love. If a man doesn't love you, don't love him no matter how good he is. Love means that two people support each other, encourage each other and work together for the family. It is not that one person enjoys life by the love of another. Responsibility is a man's necessity. Without responsibility, can you say love or not? In a family, it is always good for men to struggle. If women live outside, men are pampered at home, and women are forced to become "female men", which is also a kind of sadness. Always remember that the economic foundation comes first. Chinese medicine says: the heart governs fire and the lung governs gold. As for men, money loves whoever you love. No money, no sincerity Empty talk, nonsense, romance, fooling fools. Woman, you know, love costs money, not talking about feelings every day. A man really loves you and is always willing to spend money for you. A miser, let alone love, because where is the happiness of love? A man is willing to spend money for the person he loves. Although economy is not the decisive factor of love, it is also a part of romance. At least, it is ok to buy you a small gift on a holiday. Don't love those who always promise to buy you things, but never give them to you. Take the initiative to pay, not what women ask men to do every day. 5, don't think that men and women of the same age will love each other forever, and women will never find a little man. Women, don't look for little men. Although now is the era of free love, it is not surprising that women hold the golden brick. But young men, relatively speaking, don't know much about love, just think that women are "maternal love". Find a mature man, at least mentally more mature than you, so as to be more practical and care more about people. To tell the truth, it is better to find an uncle than a villain. After all, life is solid, with a little economic foundation, and home is warm. Women don't feel left out. Tu Lei's six pieces of advice to women 3 1, women, I will give you what should be given to you, and wait for what is not given to you. Waiting is a science. Women should learn to wait, and don't think that if they are older, they will become leftover women and will live for a lifetime. Love is better than being alive, even if you are single, you have transcendental freedom! Of course, on the way to waiting for love, don't wait. You know, waiting is a science. When the right person appears, take the initiative to attack; When you feel that your quality is not high enough, read books, learn to dress yourself up, be a woman with temperament, and men will naturally approach you. As a woman, you should either fall in love and get married, or be arrogant and single. Don't take your beautiful youth to train other people's future husbands, and you are still so serious. This is very important. A woman is either married to the right person or single. If it is high, it will not be low. Later, most of them were divorced, and some people suffered. Also, woman, don't be a mistress. You know, a man betrayed his wife and fell in love with you, and in the future, a man will betray you and fall in love with another mistress. Your ending is very sad, because his property was given to his ex-wife and his love was given to his new lover. People with small three and small four are only occupied by men again and again. It feels like love, but it's promiscuity. 3, girls do not believe that there are honest people in this world, only men who have no chance to become bad for the time being. Women, never trust a man's promise, that thing is like the weather in February and August, there is no fixed number. Men are honest when they are poor because they have no money, no proud capital and no chance to get close to many women. When a person is rich, he is dishonest. Even if he is honest, he has a dishonest heart. Only some men know the responsibility and pressure, and will not abandon the people around them casually. Men, when they are poor, don't do bad things, stick to you, and then fight with you, but with money, they are different and change their minds. I once loved you, and I had 10,000 reasons to love you. Later, I broke up, and there were 10,000 reasons not to love you. Love you, find advantages for you, don't love you, find shortcomings for you. Men's promises are unreliable. Many people swear that they will betray love when it thunders, but later, men have no thunder, only women complain, and God has no eyes! 4. What do you think is the responsibility? You think the responsibility is to be together all your life and throw some money at home. The real responsibility is to care about the feelings of the people you love every minute. Woman, you should know that a responsible man does not leave a few stinking money at home, but tries to accompany his family, walk hand in hand with you, care about everything and your feelings. True love comes from the heart, not from the surface, not from pretending to love you. It's not about eating and drinking, it's about your mood. Woman, cherish the man whose heart is with you, because he has you in his heart, revolves around you, cares about you and cares about you. Women should understand that improving themselves is the only way to lock a man's heart. Instead of being a vase woman, being an ideal woman can help men. At the critical moment, a man is an independent woman even if he leaves. You know, in this world, whoever goes is just like the earth. Women, cherish themselves, don't be easily possessed, love is a man's action, not rhetoric! Love is a lifelong love, not a temporary passion!