I'm 30 years old and I haven't been in love yet. I'm looking for a love course.

I am 32 years old and have never been in love or held hands.

But last month, I talked about a virtual love on the Internet, which ended in pain. But I can't say that I can't talk about it, mainly because I am too demanding and met someone with higher requirements.

First of all, people like us, in love, must first determine their own goals and find their own advantages. Furthermore, we should be thick-skinned and formulate policies according to our goals. It's best to find someone who can meet frequently, so that you can have a more comprehensive understanding and as little trust as possible on the Internet. Of course, it is no problem as a chat exercise. The first is the goal. Since you are 30 years old, you must talk about this relationship with the goal of getting married. Even if there is the possibility of failure, talking about this love with such a definition will determine your own direction. Moreover, it is really easy to find someone you like, and it is all over the street, but the pursuit is not like this. First of all, be bold and dare to chase. You must also have a good temper, be willing to spend time grinding, and have some spare money. Try not to be too stingy. In addition, women had better not find fault with them. The more they find fault, the more ghosts there are. Even if they choose yours, just have fun, do what you can, and do what you can't. It is an unchangeable rule that women love to hear good things, so try to say good things and say bad things as much as possible. In fact, they can understand what you say, but they won't tell the truth, because they are willing to listen like this, so don't give the worst advice, most of them are bad things. In addition, many women's views on material reality really deserve our rational discussion. In fact, it reflects a very important problem from another side, that is, many women are actually very insecure, because they don't know how many times they have failed, and they are very defensive. Without a little material balance, they cannot justify themselves. Therefore, it is necessary to be stingy, but it is not enough to prevent cheating or money worship. So at the beginning, you should also explain your general situation. If the conditions are average and the other party is still trying to get you to spend money, it is beyond your ability. You can try to tell some white lies to each other and say that you have no money on WeChat Alipay. Or just borrowed some money from friends, and have no money for the time being. Be sure to leave room for yourself in money, so that you can turn over at any time and give each other a little surprise. But you can't spend too much. Otherwise, you are so used to spending money that you will be sincere when you suddenly have no money. And test your survival rate. So try to find someone who doesn't worship money.

In addition, if you have a good impression with a woman, you should kiss and touch her. Although it's against tradition, you won't go there. In case someone else has a spare tire or something and gets hit first, you basically have no chance. At least the place you occupy will leave a mark on each other's hearts. Others want to suppress her, she will instinctively think of you and resist those unnecessary noises, except for a few women, of course, easy virtue. Besides, I can't do any housework and I don't want to do it. Don't do it unless you are extremely rich. Otherwise, even if we catch up, it will be absolutely difficult in the future. Don't expect to cook, wash clothes, take children to do housework and earn money to support your family. Ordinary people are basically impossible. Typing exceeds words. You find a target first. Sincerity is indispensable.