Type 9 personality 9: peacemaker

The motivation of peacemakers is the need to maintain peace, integrate with others and avoid conflicts. From gentle to independent and strong, the peacemaker's personality changes a lot, especially when he shows the other eight types of characteristics.

A peacemaker's conversation is usually pleasant to listen to, and trying to please the listener usually has little to do with the peacemaker's own interests. He often tries to listen and understand everyone's desires, but forgets to listen to his own inner needs. In the story, a typical peacemaker will do whatever it takes to avoid conflict. If there is a dramatic event or conflict about to happen, they will use all their energy and try their best to calm everyone down in the crisis and deny the seriousness of the situation. This character will "do whatever it takes for peace", and sometimes the cost is heavy, such as sacrificing his own goals.

There is a novel in which the protagonist is a reformer who is bent on revenge. Someone killed her daughter, and she was possessed to bring the murderer to justice. The author knows that she needs a peacemaker as her husband, so as to maximize the conflict she faces. If she marries the leader, he will accomplish the goal with her, and may even stab that guy to death in a dark alley one night. Or if she marries an achiever, he may achieve this goal strategically and bring the murderer to justice. In the nine types of personality, these two types of characters are likely to reach an understanding with the reformers' heroes, but the peacemakers will not. He just wants the whole thing to go away. He has no interest in having a lasting fight with anyone, even in court. He will only bury his grief in his heart and become desperate, but he will not fight. This drives the protagonist crazy, and as the story progresses, it causes many verbal conflicts between her and her husband.

A typical conversation between two people goes something like this:

Dan can't cope with the aggressive reformer wife. He felt helpless and at a loss, and her growling would only put pressure on him to solve a problem that could never be solved. Peacemakers like to take action to solve problems, but once they can't do anything, their enthusiasm will turn into despair.