Chatting with girls, why is it so slow to reply to your message?

As a girl, let me talk about the reasons for my slow reply to the information and provide some reference for the subject.

Busy with work, I don't have time to reply in time, but I feel guilty if I don't reply. In order to take care of both sides, I am slow to reply to the message.

The nature of my work determines that I usually need to concentrate on my work, and my working hours need strong consistency, so the time for reading materials is interval. Generally, I will divide my work into several large pieces. When I finish one piece, I will pick up my mobile phone to see if there is any information, and then reply in a unified way.

There are also people who choose to reply. I have to reply to things at work, and people who are very important to me, such as my husband, will also reply, but I may choose to ignore less important information.

So when she reads messages to reply to you every once in a while, you will feel that she replies slowly, but from her point of view, she can reply patiently and has no choice to ignore your messages in her busy schedule, which also shows that you still have a very important position in her mind.

I don't like this person in my heart, but because I am polite and embarrassed to express my emotions, I chose to reply to the message in a perfunctory way.

Shortly after I changed my job, I suddenly received news from my former colleagues, which seemed familiar and made me be caring and attentive. In fact, when I was in that company, I only came into contact with him several times because of my work, but I didn't intersect with him in just a few short words. The point is, he asked me to be his girlfriend when he had a family, and he clearly told me that he didn't care about his marriage and that I had a boyfriend, just kept an affair. I especially want to wait on him with a big mask, but I can't do it through the screen. My upbringing told me that it was wrong to hit people, so I chose to reject him sternly.

Then he changed his tactics and began to complain to me about how unfortunate the marriage was, and his wife didn't understand her, otherwise he wouldn't want to complain to his confidante, but he also had the responsibility not to divorce, which was immoral. I hope I can understand. I was young and ignorant at that time, and I really believed his story. Also out of the friendship of colleagues. If you comfort him one by one, you will feel that since he is so pitiful, you can't ignore him, so he is more depressed. The chat that day really made me feel bad, because I couldn't bear to part with it, so I returned slowly and perfunctory. After chatting with him for a few days, I feel that the dialogue is wrong again. He asked me to be his girlfriend again. It dawned on me that he couldn't achieve his goal directly, so he began to follow my curve, so I hacked him and deleted him without hesitation.

If you think that the girl replies to your message slowly, and the content of the reply is perfunctory and there is no dry goods, then she probably doesn't want to talk to you, just because she is polite and embarrassed to give you face. At this time, it is better to end the conversation as soon as possible, so as not to make her impression of you more violent.

I think there are other reasons, such as not knowing what to say or not being interested, but they can all be attributed to not being interested in the person you are chatting with. If you have nothing to say in front of the person you like, it's too late to catch up. Being so indifferent doesn't mean missing true love.

The above is my analysis of the questions raised by the subject, hoping to help the subject.