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I broke up with my girlfriend for half a year. I still love her in my heart and can't let her go. She was proud of me and ignored me. What should I do?

Break up. When he doesn't love you, please don't disturb him when he is unhappy or confused or when he is in trouble. His place is definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will comfort you lightly when he receives your call and say that he sincerely wishes you happiness, but that's all. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will be much cheaper. It is human nature that you have disadvantages. Maybe you want more and say, "Let's meet. Can we have dinner together? " If you think that a meal and a meeting can save lost love, you are wrong and you are stupid. He must be very sad. He would say, "I'm busy now, waiting for an opportunity." You can call me later, or I can call you. "And don't take it seriously at this moment, he just found a less clever reason to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself, and there is no need to be sad. His busyness will not stop because of your waiting. Many things in life are very important to him, and the most indifferent thing to him is the lost love. When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him your trifles, and don't have nothing to say. These are the most stupid and meaningless. Maybe at this moment, you are kind and infatuated, but you just want to know each other better, and don't feel too strange at once. In fact, you just can't get through yourself for a while, but he has no time or interest to know you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses. What does this have to do with him? Even if he knows, he will soon forget, just as he forgot what he once said to you. Without love, you are doomed not to squeeze into his life. Even if, even if you only want a small corner. In his eyes, all the advantages you once had became a burden and no longer attracted him. When he no longer loves you, don't always send him short messages and ask him, "How's it going? "If he is under great pressure at work, your message will only bring him irritability, but it won't help him get rid of the pressure. If he is really good, it is good that you know it in your heart. Learn to care and bless him silently! When he doesn't love you, please don't be sad in front of him, let alone shed tears, because tears can't bring back love, but will make him look down on you even more. Don't tell him you are sad when you are sick, but learn to take care of yourself. He really doesn't have much energy to give you care and concern, or even just sympathy. Please be proud of you, don't give up your pride. Too many people are lost in love, and they don't even have the courage to stand up again. How can they be proud? However, always remember that only those who are willing and able to give true love are the ones who really cherish you, not the sympathy and pity of onlookers. Don't say to him, "I am happy if you are happy." This sentence is quite sincere when he loves you. Once separated, even if it comes from your heart, it will make him feel that you are putting pressure on him. Why force someone you once loved? Happiness depends on yourself, don't pin it on anyone, understand? When he doesn't love you, your love is his burden. Please don't calculate what you have paid, don't expect anything in return, and don't reveal your nostalgia and reluctance to him intentionally or unintentionally, because everything has become the past. If you love someone who doesn't love yourself, there is nothing in return. You can't care about right and wrong, so you will be happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You have a heart, but he doesn't. However, don't blame him, because maybe he once really loved you and wanted to do better. Don't be so cold to you, and he doesn't want such an ending. Just loving a person and being kind to a person is an ability. I'm sorry, he may have this ability, but your love is a mistake with no ending. His ability can't be wasted on you. Try to forgive him. Of course, don't be too pessimistic to think that his once love is not true, his once promise is false, and it is not easy for people to live, let alone choose love or not. There should be more understanding between people, not to mention the one who once loved. When he no longer loves you, dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. But because many things are already doomed, just like the Buddha said that you looked back 500 times to get a short acquaintance, but the fate was not enough, so you can only give you a hundred days of love. Don't deceive yourself with fantasy and hope that we can be together in the next life, because everyone knows that this life is real, so we should all live well, cherish everything around us and don't leave any regrets. Fan Zhongyan in the Northern Song Dynasty knew that "we don't rejoice in things, we don't grieve for ourselves", not to mention us? If you know that the person you once loved can be happy, then everything is enough, even if he no longer loves you, what does it matter? You should be happy for him. When he doesn't love you, don't speak ill of him in front of others, especially your friends, because he still has the right to continue to love others and needs his social circle. Keep an open mind. After all, he is the person you once loved. When he doesn't love you, you must bless him and be sincere, regardless of gains and losses. When you can help him, be as generous as before, don't be stingy. With love, there should be no hate. Love is beautiful, but hate is cruel. Why let the best thing in life turn into harm? And don't feel unfair. About separation and forgetting, it is unfair between you. What he gave up and lost was a girl who loved him so much, and you just lost someone who couldn't love you anymore, but you got a chance to be reborn. Comparatively speaking, aren't you happier, K.