Is being dealt a good card a rejection (indicating that you have been dealt a good card)

I feel a little distressed to find that many brothers have been issued good friend cards recently.

Now many versions have evolved for girls to send good cards, such as:

"You can find something better", "I don't want to keep you" and "I don't deserve your kindness to me".

These are commonly used by women and are euphemistic refusals.

There are countless reasons for refusing, but there is only one real reason: I don't like you.

Therefore, when you are dealt a good card, don't continue to pester you, because no matter how much you say you don't like you, you will also beg and even redouble your efforts to please, which will only make you more humble.

Let me translate the rejection of the good man card first.

"You can find better" actually means that you don't deserve her.

"I don't want to delay you" means I don't want to be delayed by you. Although you are kind to her, you are not her type. You always appear in her life, which makes it impossible for her to find her little brother.

"I don't deserve you to be so kind to me", which is the most lethal. The first two are mainly refusal, but this situation is different. So, you can screen licking dogs.

If this man quits directly, she doesn't feel bad, in case this man tries to "comfort" the girl: no, you are fine, you deserve it.

Hehe, then I'm stuck. I didn't force you. I said it's not worth your kindness. You are still very kind to me. You volunteered. Don't bargain with me with your dedication.

Having said that, are you a little at a loss now?

Then how to deal with it better?

"You can find something better." This is very simple. You should stop frequent contact with her, then live a better life, even socialize more, and take part in some activities that are different for men and women, such as barbecues, friends gatherings and so on.

In short, let her know that, indeed, you don't have to be her, and you have the ability to find something better.

Since she doesn't like you, you will be humble as dust in the end. It's better to turn around smartly.

But women are vain, allowing themselves to push men away, but they can't stand being voluntarily given up by men. What's more, this kind of natural and unrestrained giving up will make her self-doubt about her charm.

If you can enrich your life in the next two months and occasionally share some valuable living conditions, she will definitely test you. If you still miss her, you can keep interacting with her, but don't be too active and supercilious. When you are busy, even when you are playing games, you don't need to call her back for a second. Just treat her as an ordinary friend.

Her temptation, in fact, is to know that if she takes the initiative to provoke you, will you immediately degenerate and turn around her? You just need to behave normally. So her sense of superiority is not satisfied, and naturally she has a desire to conquer.

In the second case, she said she didn't want to keep you, and the same is true.

Since she doesn't want to delay you, don't let her delay, keep her at a distance, have less contact, live a chic life, work hard, keep fit, study, socialize and so on.

Let her see that she really delayed you, and you can live happily without her.

The reason is the same, so that she can't get vanity satisfaction from you.

The hardest part is the last one. I don't deserve you to be so kind to me.

Because many men subconsciously don't think this is a refusal, but a woman's playing hard to get.

This requires a change in thinking. Since you are not her boyfriend, you naturally have no obligation to be meticulous with her.

If handled properly, you can say: indeed, we are just friends.

That's enough.

If you want to be naughty, you can say, "What's the matter with you? You are too heavy. You can't pity me. We're not together yet. I am a little embarrassed. "

Just kick the ball to her, suggesting that you are not a casual person, not her boyfriend, and it is not the time to talk about such a deep topic.

A woman with a heavy heart has a big move. In order to cultivate more spare tires, she obviously sent a valentine's card, but she deliberately left some hope for the other party.

For example, we can still be friends.

This time is actually expressing a meaning: I don't like you, but I hope you will continue to be good to me.

This is similar to what I always mean by treating you as a brother.

It doesn't matter how you reply to her. The important thing is that you don't really give unconditionally, it will really become licking the dog.

She really wants something from you in the future. You should let her do something first.

A few days ago, a brother was inexperienced, and a girl asked her to help write a paper. He really did, and as a result, people ignored her.

The really appropriate way to deal with it is to give her a bunch of tasks and give her some ideas, such as collecting materials, pictures and materials. And then you help her finish it together.

Instead of her saying, you just did all this without her doing anything.

You finished it alone, and when you finished it, it was finished. At most, she said thank you, thought you were a good person, and then disappeared.

If help is done together, feelings can still be cultivated.

This is the difference between a confident and principled warm man and an unprincipled dog licking.

Well, that's all for today, I hope it will inspire you.