How to deal with someone confessing your love?

When someone I don’t like expresses my feelings to them, I will find a suitable time and place to express my attitude to them. First of all, learning to refuse is a required course, especially in relationships between men and women. We cannot control others' liking for us, and when faced with the confession of someone we don't like, we cannot force ourselves to accept it, although rejection is inevitably a kind of hurt. , but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two parties become deadlocked. So if you are confessed by someone you don't like, there are mainly the following ways to refuse:

1. Be firm and refuse bluntly

As the saying goes: "If you keep breaking off friendship, you will be rejected by him." Confused. "When the other person expresses your love for you, if you don't like the other person, you should give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance. You have to refuse directly, and never contact him again after rejection, and never ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity to the other party and refuse efficiently

Many people do not dare to refuse other people’s confessions because they are always afraid of hurting their own self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a long-time friend caught them off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of friend's confession, you have to know how to be tactful. Just give him some hints and tell him the type you like and the future you imagine yourself to have. Tell him to back off. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity and minimizes the damage.

3. Don’t refuse in person

If the other person confesses to you in person, you are afraid that refusing in person will hurt the other person, and you don’t know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

Therefore, rejecting others should be expressed tactfully, so that the relationship between two people can be better handled.