In the Civil Affairs Bureau, I saw many middle-aged and elderly people divorced. Why did they get married for so long and get divorced when they were old?

Because of the lack of freshness, I want to end the dull life.

When two people are together, no matter how vigorously they fell in love at the beginning, as they live together for a long time, the dull days will lack freshness because of too long. Although the feelings of middle-aged couples have been running in, that is to say, both of them have found out each other's temperament, so they rarely quarrel. At the same time, however, there is no passion in their lives. For some middle-aged men who can't stand this dullness, they are often more eager for passion and freshness, so they want a divorce.

I once read a story about her relationship with her ex-husband. In fact, there are not many emotional entanglements between them. It's just that both of them are close to middle age and feel that married life is too boring. When her husband wanted to end her dull marriage, she didn't object or refuse, but agreed directly and readily. She said:? In fact, we both know each other's pursuit. He doesn't like being overwhelmed by a dull life, and I don't like his overly cheerful personality. Therefore, instead of obsessing, it is better to let go early and start the life we want again while our youth is still warm. ? For such a couple, can only say that their pursuit is too? Passion? Well, a dull married life can't meet their spiritual needs.

At that time in previous years, the two sides married him as long as they met, but they didn't know him yet. After getting married, I found out that the other person was not suitable for me at all. Divorce was a shameful thing, so both sides made do for a lifetime. But with the development of society, the life of the elderly is getting better and better now, and they are slowly catching up with the trend. If it is not suitable, they will still choose to give up. For them, divorce is a relief. Many children don't agree with their parents' divorce, and some partners even refuse to sign it, which makes some old people very upset. Old people of this age are very measured. It will be easy to judge one thing. Once you decide to do it, it is useless to say anything.