Debate speech

(1) The favorable factors for the growth of the only child are: First, more nutrition. In the one-child family, children can enjoy rich economic benefits. Second, edo. The only child is the focus of love between grandparents and parents, and becomes the central figure of the family. Parents have time and energy to devote themselves to their love, care and education, and most of them can get real maternal love, which can promote their normal psychological development. Generally speaking, the only child is lively and cheerful and full of trust in adults. Third, more knowledge. Only children come into contact with adults in their lives, and they can also gain a lot of knowledge while enjoying caress. Parents are willing to study Xin Wei's education by themselves, and their methods are positive and conscious, so that children can watch and listen more consciously, which promotes their intellectual development. Fourth, expect more. The only child will get all kinds of expectations from all the elders in the family, not only more but also higher. They have lived in the expectations of their grandparents and parents since childhood. Some of these expectations are instilled by language and instructions, and some are implied by feelings. The expectations of these adults are gradually internalized into the children's own thoughts. Most of them are confident, eager to learn, have a sense of honor and feel "good" about themselves. The only child lives in a "four-plus" environment. On the whole, the only child has better conditions and possibilities for moral, intellectual and physical development than the non-only child. (2) The weakness of the only child. First, coke. Parents of the only child always have a hidden fear of danger in their hearts, for fear that their children will be broken and damaged. Therefore, they prefer to pay more attention to nutrition and tonic and light physical exercise. Therefore, the number of chubby and bean sprout children has increased, and they often rely on nature, lacking independent ability and strong will. As adults, they will have a clear understanding of childhood pampering after stumbling. Second, willfulness. The parents of the only child have developed the wayward character of the only child because they obey and satisfy their children everywhere. When they go to school, they also want their classmates and teachers to obey their own will. Therefore, mass relations are very bad. Third, independence. The only child is not accompanied by brothers, sisters and peers, and it is easy to form the characteristics of "independence". He is withdrawn, emotionally selfish and indifferent to others, but he takes others' concern for himself for granted. He has no experience of "brotherhood" and always wants to be "among the best" in the group, telling others to let him go his own way, not listening to advice and being indifferent to his parents and other adults. It is difficult to make up a lesson about the socialization of these children. Fourth, lazy. Because parents are too "diligent", the only child lacks the opportunity to do housework. Parents stop everything, and the only child has to be idle. The lazier he is, the dumber he is, and the lazier he is. They don't appreciate the joy of creation and the hardships of labor, so they lack sympathy, the spirit of labor cooperation and care for the fruits of labor. When children get married, the lesson of labor must go through hard training. The above four points mean that the weakness of the only child is easy to form, but it is not inevitable. As long as the education is proper, the advantages of the only child will be brought into full play and these weaknesses can be completely avoided. Non-only-child families will also have these weaknesses if they do not pay attention to educational methods. Therefore, the key lies in the education of parents.