The characteristics of excellent people

In today's society, there are more and more young Buddhists. Speaking of anxiety, many young people say that it doesn't matter to me. They feel at ease to be a qualified Buddhist youth, and they just want to be quiet, happy and live their own lives.

this attitude and way of life is of course reasonable, but what about the fact?

Human society is the survival of the fittest. If you are Buddhist, then you will be eliminated and you can only watch others move up step by step. Often, Buddhism is also a sign of cowardice, because you don't even dare to think about it, so you can only take Buddhism as a self-mockery to escape.

"ambition" represents fearlessness, great struggle and great future. Those who have "ambition" have succeeded half way; People without "ambition" are doomed to mediocrity all their lives. "Ambition" is the eternal specific medicine and the germination point of miracles. How big is your "ambition", how big is your stage; You can go as far as your ambition is.

Barang is a young media tycoon, who started as a salesman of decorative portraits and quickly became one of the 5 richest people in France in less than ten years. Before he died, he gave 1 million francs as a bonus to those who uncovered the mystery of poverty.

On the anniversary of Barang's death, lawyers and agents opened the safe under the supervision of the notary department according to Barang's account before his death. In 48,561 letters, a little girl named Tiller guessed Barang's secret correctly. Both Tiller and Barang believe that what the poor lack most is ambition, that is, the ambition to become rich.

Ambition means that you are in a lower position but have higher pursuit. A person who has no pursuit can hardly achieve great achievements in his career. Doing things in a perfunctory way can be attributed to the low professional quality and the lack of "ambition" for his future.

excellent people often like performance and are very motivated. And they all have plans and know what they want. Don't be afraid of competitors, dare to face difficulties, and lose and fight again and again.

If you are ambitious and not willing to be mediocre, you still have higher requirements for yourself and the desire to go up, which makes you more likely to succeed than others.

2. Self-discipline, diligence, and strong willpower

People who are ambitious in their chests are often very self-disciplined.

during the Chongqing negotiations, Chiang Kai-shek once said to his secretary Chen Bulei, "Mao Zedong should not be underestimated. He is a heavy smoker, but after he knew that I don't smoke, he never smoked one during the conversation with me. His determination and spirit should not be underestimated! "

As Teddy Roosevelt said, "With self-discipline, there is nothing you can't do."

How many people envy other people's figure and appearance, their success and brilliance. However, when I realized the hardships behind it and the almost cruel self-management, I quickly backed out. In the days of drifting and drifting, it is meaningless to continue to consume life.

when a person lacks self-discipline, what he does is always influenced by habit and timely temptation, or disturbed by other people's ideas, and it is almost impossible to do what he really desires.

You will find that those who are self-disciplined to the extreme have a life of openness.

Self-discipline also means diligence, hard work, persistence and not being afraid of hardship.

We are not afraid of those who are lazy, but those who are smarter and work harder than us.

Some people say, "If you expect real life, then don't go to distant places, look for wealth and honor, beg from others, give in to life, and don't bow to hardships and difficulties. Happiness and success depend only on ourselves, our wisdom and our diligence. This kind of happiness and success is the favor of diligence and the reward of fate."

at all times and in all countries, the flowers in the hands of every successful person are watered by their hard work. Every step of life comes from one's own diligence.

As the saying goes, diligence and hard work are the only true meaning, whether it is the accumulation of knowledge or the realization of dreams.

However, in the eyes of excellent people, these diligence is not suffering and sacrifice, but a part of a happy life.

3. High emotional intelligence and strong social skills

As for emotional intelligence, writer XII said: "Emotional intelligence is essentially a good thinking, and on the basis of good thinking, more effective connections are generated."

In other words, people with high emotional intelligence are willing to start their own thinking and make themselves and each other feel comfortable communication experience in their daily life.

Being objective and calm in dealing with people, being able to grasp one's emotions, emotions are invisible. This kind of person usually has many friends, because others get along with him easily.

Praise is also a kind of encouragement. They will praise others without stint. Being good at discovering the beauty of others is also a kind, which is a kind of cultivation and a realm.

don't speak ill of others in public: in public, only say good things, only say what others like to hear, and keep bad things in private, so as to give the other person face in public.

whenever you make any decision, you should first demand yourself, set yourself as a benchmark, and then set an example to influence others, instead of saying one thing and doing another.

Good at communication, good at communication, honest, sincere and polite, with efficient social skills. Be able to expand the circle of strangers, get in touch with more resources, and even form a circle and become a leader.

4. Strong execution and no delay

There are two monks in Shu, one is poor and the other is rich. The poor speak to the rich: "What about the South China Sea I want?" The rich man said, "Why should I go?" The poor man said, "I have a bottle and a bowl." The rich man said, "I've been trying to buy a boat for years, but I haven't been able to." Why do you want to go! " The next year, the poor will return from the South China Sea to tell the rich. The rich have shame.

In fact, many people are not without great ambitions, dreams, plans for the future, or even good plans. However, suffering from poor execution, it always stays in the stage of making a determined effort and planning, and has not put it into practice.

Because of this, no matter how big the ambition is, it becomes a joke. No matter how good the plan is, it is just a moon in the water and a flower in the mirror.