25 good habits of how to make your interpersonal communication smooth.

25 good habits of how to make your interpersonal communication smooth.

1, dealing with people, don't open yourself to others. No matter what you say or do, keeping a little mystery will make you more attractive.

2. Constantly add value to yourself. Interpersonal networks are woven by mutually beneficial people. If you want to expand this network, you can easily weave a high-quality personal network as long as you continue to add value to Xiaoji and meet the different needs of more people.

Don't let the salary deposited in the card every month become your only support. If you lose your job, you have no source of income. It is wise, rational and safe to learn to manage money, spread risks and create the second and third income for yourself.

4, you can send text, don't send 60s long voice. Even the closest person will have the impulse to end the chat when he receives your long voice. Especially for tens of seconds of voice, I want to swear across the screen.

5. When visiting other people's homes, especially older elders, it is best to buy some handwritten letters, whether he needs them or not, which is a kind of etiquette.

6. Beware of those whose mantra is "My relative XX, my friend XX". Such people live without self and ability. They have to rub other people's deeds to brush their sense of existence.

"One of my relatives bought a suite with three bedrooms and one living room, which is very spacious." "A friend of mine opened a shop in the city, and many people went to visit commercial thieves."

I came with my mouth open, as if I had bought a suite and opened a shop.

7. Don't tell others that you are better off than them. If you buy a car, you will say that the pressure to repay the loan in installments is high, the cost of parking spaces is too high, and the wallet will shrink as soon as the oil price rises. If you have a great responsibility, you often stay up late to work overtime, and your baldness and hair loss are worrying. In this way, they will feel better and even comfort you in turn.

8. The weapon that can destroy a person most is his crazy praise, all kinds of bottomless rainbow farts and wearing high hats.

After a long time, he drifted away and really thought he was the most powerful person in the universe. But when he realized the truth, he had fallen into the abyss of extreme conceit.

9. Add new friends and take notes. Remember to write down your name and source. The more notes, the better. For example, where are you from, where do you live, your colleagues or customers. It's best to group, so that your contacts will be clear, and you won't be unable to find someone or find the wrong person in the future.

10, don't just listen to the surface.

When you visit someone's home, he doesn't pick you up very much, but keeps reminding you how good the programs on TV are. Deep meaning, I really don't want to chat with you; I said to have dinner together, but I didn't prepare your share. Deep meaning, it's time for dinner. Why don't you go?

1 1, girls don't pick up the suggestive words of boys, but you can pick up the boys by default.

12, if a person always emphasizes how powerful he used to be, remember to give him some warmth, which means that he is not as glorious as he used to be.

The leading group of the company I used to stay in was the first.

= now the performance can't go up.

I have attended many parties and parties before. ...

I'm not invited now.

13, when the other person talks to you, he always looks around and whines, but he just doesn't look straight at you. Most of them are ghosts and lies.

14 An old classmate who hasn't contacted for a long time suddenly sent a WeChat asking how you are doing recently. Hold your breath and see if this month's budget is enough. Nine times out of ten, he can't escape from his next sentence.

15, you think you can see through a person just because of his behavior or state, there are traces of you.

16. It's really cool to brush Tik Tok and play Weibo, but it's a chronic suicide addiction, and precious life is consumed in this way. And if you keep on exercising and reading for an hour every day, you will surpass 90% of your peers in one year.

Self-discipline is actually not difficult. The difficult thing is to give up the first step of short-term pleasure.

17, don't talk to people who have only known each other for an hour. Otherwise, if you say it, it will turn into tears of regret.

18, don't judge a book by its cover. Some people seem to be decent and upright, but in fact they are a scum who has aggressive behavior behind their backs.

Some people seem gentle and considerate and polite, but in fact they quarrel with their partners in private and suffer from mental PUA. They just act.

19, the true love in the bar ballroom is just an illusion caused by the environment stimulating dopamine secretion.

20. I wonder if it has been deleted or blacked out. The correct way to open it is to see if you are prompted to enter a password when transferring money to him. If so, friendship is still there.

2 1, someone will drive you home. If the other person is not single, go to the back row to avoid misunderstanding. If the other person is single, don't dive into the back seat like a full-time driver.

22. People who break up habitually are often just talking. On the contrary, those who endure silently will leave without hesitation if they accumulate enough disappointment.

23. When you go out to eat, your girlfriend tells you to eat whatever you want. You don't really eat casually, but you must choose all kinds of restaurants with good reputation that she will like and the right distance so that she won't make mistakes.

24. Anyone who helps people who are not familiar with things, a few dollars or dozens of dollars, must receive money. Accept others, and you will be comfortable and practical; If you don't accept it, let him invite you next time. No one wants to owe others a favor, especially when they are completely able to repay it.

25. I want to know whether the person who has a secret crush likes you. When everyone is laughing, let's see if ta will turn its attention to you. If eyes meet, a wonderful love is about to blossom and bear fruit.