To be a man, you should follow the cattle.

We can drink all kinds of chicken soup every day, many of which are related to personal growth, and many are to inspire people to move forward.

In the book Looking for Hope in Despair, I saw more kindness and sincerity, hard work and sureness.

From my own growing experience, I realized the essence of life a little bit:

1. Perseverance is more important than talent.

When you are not smart enough, you must exchange time for your intelligence and wisdom. Toughness came out, and suffering became a habit. Yu spent four years reciting words every day, and English words were posted everywhere on the wall.

Ask friends who are stronger than themselves with humility and student mentality. What a real and inspiring case this is. It's worth learning.

When we only know monopoly, we have lost the whole world.

Others need your help, and you need others' help. We can feel warmth because someone is willing to pay, and we are eager for love and care. Therefore, we must first learn to love and give love.

A person's growth needs the care and encouragement of others. Just as the growth of flowers needs the irrigation and pruning of gardeners, sometimes a little concern for others will change their fate. A little care from others can make you different.

No matter how hard you are, there must be someone in this world who is more difficult than you. Others need your help and encouragement. Because of your appearance, their lives will be better.

When I read this, I will be very, very moved. In this world, everyone is indifferent. Everyone wants to be cared for by others, but they are unwilling to give love because they are afraid of being hurt.

But there are always people who share their love and offer their love with such enthusiasm and sunshine. Only in this way can people around you get sunshine and feel love.

Then, you will find that everything will change accordingly, and you will become positive, active, optimistic and fond of laughing. Love learning, all mental outlook keeps pace with the times.

To be a man, you must follow the cow.

Be good at finding role models from life and learn from them sincerely. Even if you can't surpass them, you can get better and better.

I am with a group of young and energetic people now. Even if I am stupid and have no special skills, I will absorb the learning atmosphere of this group of people and learn from them.

As long as you keep working hard, you will become excellent and powerful.

This book attracted me deeply. I feel the most essential truth, the love of ordinary people, and the psychology of wanting to be excellent and solve problems like an ordinary and unintelligent person like me.

Stupid birds can fly first, but you must work harder and persist.