Monthly exam summary and future plans

Time flies so fast, and in the blink of an eye, the first monthly exam of school has ended.

However, the time left to me is irreversible; facing these excellent but not sharp and "stumbling block"-like scores, I can't help but fall into deep thought; look at each one that should not be When the wrong question was marked with a big cross, I felt infinite self-blame in my heart... When I calmed down and carefully browsed the test paper one more time, I realized how careless and impatient I was. As soon as I get the question, I start writing immediately. If I encounter a question that I don’t understand, I start to panic and don’t know where to start. As a result, I completely lost points for a 9-point math question, which makes me very sad now. Also, although I always say: "The teacher never mentioned these topics at all..." In fact, when I think about it now, I feel how ridiculous and ignorant I am! "If I have done review and preview in my daily life, then what does it matter if the teacher mentions it or not? Now the responsibility can only be pushed back to myself. Preview has always been an important requirement for students' learning. If If we don’t preview before class, our learning will be greatly compromised. Knowledge is accumulated over time, and it is impossible for people to instill a large amount of learning content into the brain in a very short period of time. "Three days of fishing and two days of drying the net" will only get twice the result with half the effort. Therefore, we must study regularly and quantitatively. From this monthly exam, I have summarized many learning principles and methods. When we fail in exams, if we just blindly look for reasons or blame others for our mistakes, we will always cover up the mistakes and continue to make mistakes. If we do not complete the study tasks that should be completed every day, we will like to concentrate. Review, rush before the exam, and it will be more difficult to achieve good results if you are behind on what you should study and memorize every day. To achieve this, you must accumulate knowledge every day, review every day, and concentrate on learning. Learning depends on accumulation. Learning depends on hard work; you only have one chance, so don’t miss any test!

Bowen Middle School Grade 1: Hu Xincheng

Summary of the first monthly exam

I have never done so badly in an exam. I carefully analyzed the reasons why I did not do well in the exam:

1. Losing confidence

“I don’t know what happened. The class felt boring, but I felt that I should listen carefully, so I was a little scared. I feel very irritable in math class, and my efficiency in class has been halved. ”

“For many times, my math test scores have been very unsatisfactory, and I have lost confidence in math. I even started to be afraid of mathematics, and sometimes I had an inexplicable fear of teachers. "Composition

2. Not working hard, not serious

"I didn't spend forty minutes in class, didn't review well after class, did my homework carelessly, and had more extracurricular tutoring books. I haven't done it seriously, it's just a matter of coping. "Composition

3. The knowledge points are not sorted out enough

"Although I have learned, I have not done enough to think, and I have never even thought. ”

“I finally discovered that ideas and thinking are more important than solving problems. "

4. Not enough time

"When I decided to ask the teacher a question at noon, unfortunately, the English teacher came! Moreover, there was no time to complete the self-study homework for three whole semesters, let alone solve the problems? ”

5. Can’t or won’t ask questions

“It’s still the same as before. I didn’t ask the teacher if I had questions because I was afraid that the questions I asked were too simple. Maybe because of this thinking, My difficulties accumulated more and more, but I just didn't dare to ask. I have the heart but not the courage. "

6. "Mistakes" are constant

"I am very nervous every time I take the exam. It is also a very simple question or formula that I have read many times. For example, 12 + 36 = 48, I have to calculate it twice for fear of making a mistake. ”

It’s been a long time, but fortunately I got it back this time at the end of the semester, yeah! I want to be neither arrogant when I win nor discouraged when I lose!!! Come on, Meng Dejun!!!!

Summary after the monthly exam

Last week, my class teacher took leave due to illness. Since then, the order in the class has been worse than before.

First of all, The small group of people who are usually not very peaceful make troubles repeatedly during class time, making the teachers always come in full of enthusiasm and leave in anger.

Of course, this is only a small number of people.

Unexpectedly, after a few days, everyone became a little "crazy". Talking in class and joking after class. I simply don’t take the teacher seriously. Usually, we who are already relatively unorganized took advantage of the absence of the head teacher to push our laziness and other shortcomings to the extreme. A few days ago, almost every girl had a novel in hand. In the past few days, everyone has a comic book in their hands, reading it with gusto while sitting in their seats, and they don’t even want to move after class.

Under such a big trend, I am not exempt from vulgarity. However, because I promised my English teacher not to read novels. SO, I only read one masterpiece by Maupassant. Comics have always been my best friend. In this social background, it is even closer to me, such as "Ah Shai", "Doraemon", and "Mao Xiaomeng". Other characters also reappeared, which fascinated me so much that I couldn't tell the difference between black and white. Composition

Even though we are so crazy, BUT also carefully avoids one topic---scores

After the monthly exam, my first feeling was: "I am dead this time!" ! "I draw the cross on my chest every day when I have nothing to do. I pray that the illusory "God" can "bless" me with good grades. Composition

Laoban once said: "Everything depends on human effort, cherish it!!!" It seems that I really have to listen to her words.

Monthly exams

There will be another monthly exam tomorrow. Although it cannot determine your fate, the grade ranking, class ranking and position, comments from teachers of each subject, and furious comments from parents Indiscriminate bombing... is enough for us. We either accept the lesson with sincerity, admit our shortcomings duplicitously, or feel nothing at all. No matter what, we still have to sharpen our guns in battle! The night train has to start quickly!

The next day, I walked into the examination room mechanically, sat upright in my seat and waited for the invigilator. At this time, my mind went blank. When I took the paper, my heart was beating wildly, my scalp was swollen, and the words on the paper in front of me were also beating fast. I closed my eyes and shook my head, remembering that the teacher had told me to stay calm and read the simple questions first. So I opened my eyes and read the questions with full concentration, and then did a few small questions. At this time, my mind stabilized and I answered questions faster. After finishing the questions that you can do, pick some questions that you seem to be able to do but are not able to answer accurately. At the same time, mobilize all your energy to recall how the teacher has taught similar questions and how they are explained in the textbook, rake this way and this broom, and write as much as possible. Then "face" the problem carefully, find a breakthrough, and strive to solve it. You need to be patient at this time, but at this time your heartbeat speeds up and your mind is not very flexible. There is nothing I can do. But I was not willing to fail, so I picked myself up and reviewed the question again. After a while, I really answered a question, and I felt extremely happy in an instant. It's so beautiful. And things can't always be perfect, and for some questions I racked my brain to no avail. It really makes me frustrated and frustrated. 80 minutes flew by. My eyes are searching on the flying "bean sprouts", trying to find any mistakes, even a little bit. At this time, it felt like a pepper was stuck in my throat, and I felt extremely uncomfortable. After walking out of the examination room, we intensely discussed answers and scores, and our desire to know the experience of success and the lessons of failure increased with each passing second. The heart is hung up. After listening to the various discussions, I felt upset again. Until the results were announced, at that moment some families were happy and some were sad.

Exam, exam, that taste, is it sweet? Is it sour? Is it bitter? Is it spicy? Sigh...

Renming Road Primary School No. 4

Summary of the second monthly exam

The monthly exam has passed, and my grades have been going backwards. I am disappointed with my teachers and parents. When I walked to the score sheet, I saw that my classmates were all moving forward, which made me feel very inferior.

In fact, during the exam, I finished it very early, but I didn’t check it carefully. I can only blame myself.

I did not get an A in the Chinese language test, which made the Chinese teacher disappointed with me for the first time. I did not dare to face the teacher. Mainly because there are too many deductions for basic and extracurricular subjects, but the composition is just okay.

Mathematics was not ideal either. It was only 2.5 points short of an A. The teacher only shook his head when he saw it. There were too many mistakes that shouldn't have been made. Composition

My English is so-so. The teacher forgave me this time. I also missed a little bit because I was sick, but I have to work hard in the final exam so that the teacher can take good care of me.

Politics is okay, I have an A and am ranked 10th in my year. But you have to work hard, otherwise others will catch up. Composition

Biology is just one point away from getting an A. It’s all my fault that I don’t memorize it, and everyone else is 100 or 99.

Geography is not good at all, I am only B, and I haven’t recited it myself.

This time the history exam was a closed-book exam, and it didn’t even reach the passing mark. I really shouldn’t have watched the deputy squad leader and the others play! You should memorize your own books well.

Although you didn’t do well in the exam this time, don’t be discouraged or feel inferior. Read and memorize it well, and don’t do it temporarily. Then you will definitely do well in the exam. Work hard and let the teacher know you again.

Believe that "Nothing is difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to climb!" Remember it.

You should also remember what the teacher said. If you use the learning method taught by the teacher, you are definitely right. Try your best to do well in the exam so that you can give a satisfactory explanation.

Attention, thinking, transformation, improvement? November 10, 2005

Thank you all for taking time out of your busy schedule to attend this parent-teacher meeting. This is the first time since the formation of my class This is the first parent-teacher meeting. Today I would like to communicate with you in a pragmatic and efficient manner. I hope you all will have a worthwhile trip. The theme I want to talk about today is "Attention, Thinking, Transformation, Improvement". I will express my opinions on relevant education issues and discuss them with you. If you have any individual questions, I think we will have a free exchange later. Time for everyone. I would like to ask our English teacher and math teacher to talk to you first. In the future, primary school English will be in line with junior high school English. That is to say, the English learned in primary school will no longer be taught repeatedly in junior high school. I think its importance can be You know it.

There was once a survey of the world's richest CEOs, asking them what they regretted most or what they most wanted to do. Can you guess what most people are thinking? More than 80% of people answered that they were with their families and children. They felt that they owed their families and children too much. After they accumulated hundreds of millions of wealth, they discovered that they had lost the most precious wealth, which is the love of their relatives and the love of their children. This cannot be compensated with money because time is irreversible. I think: Now while our children are still young, give them more care, give them more exercise, and spend more time with them, so as not to leave any regrets or blank spaces. Many of our parents (including me) always feel that their children’s education is a headache, or even helpless, or they are lazy or neglectful in education. These are naturally incorrect. I want to say: loving children is painful, but it is not If you love your children, you will regret it.

First let us pay attention to our children. I want to ask everyone: have you paid attention? How did you pay attention? What do you focus on? Let me first talk about my understanding of each child. I think every child is cute and they have their own advantages. Here I will first select one or two points about each child to talk about.

Let’s go on by student ID (student IDs are arranged according to phonetic order): Chen Shaoqing: good at thinking and learning, ***15 articles have been published so far; Chen Yuefei: calm and elegant, running for the university in front of all teachers and students in the school. The captain was calm and calm, faced with a smile, and was elected in one fell swoop; Ge Xinglu: quick-thinking, well-informed, unique insights, and enthusiastic to speak; He Zhao: smart and cute, with a flexible mind; Hu Huijun: good at observing and experiencing, caring about the collective, and caring for others; Jiang Shiyi: has expertise in calligraphy and painting, and is serious about class work; Jin Kaida: speaks actively, has flexible thinking, and has a certain ability to think; Kong Lingshuo: is serious and well-behaved, quiet and elegant; Lu Jiafeng: has a strong sense of responsibility, is serious and rigorous in everything, and has a learning attitude Good; Meng Yifan: good at thinking, civilized and disciplined, and diligent in studying; Miao Chengkai: lively and witty, striving for progress; Qi Wei: funny and cute, active in thinking; Qi Ying: cooperative spirit, able to keep working hard; Qian Jiayan: strict in self-discipline , listen attentively in class, and fulfill the teacher's requirements meticulously; Qiu Tangtian: enthusiastic, lively and cheerful, serious in study, and proactive in all aspects; Shan Huagang: good at learning and thinking, correct in study, serious and responsible in class work; Shen Wei: caring about the collective , helpful, cheerful personality, positive in learning; Sheng Jiaying: dedicated to her work, teacher satisfied; Sheng Lulu: loves to read extracurricular books, unique thinking, and smart articles; Su Hang: consciously diligent in learning, excellent performance, thinking Strong ability; Tan Hong: active and conscientious in learning, hardworking; Tang Jiacheng: good at calligraphy, active and self-conscious in learning; Tang Jingxiu: cooperate with the teacher, complete class work conscientiously, study diligently and observe discipline; Tang Yanbiao: especially loves to read extracurricular books, rich in knowledge, and has Opinion; Wan Jieying: Diligent and pragmatic, with literary and artistic expertise, able to play and sing; Wang Jiawei: Flexible and witty, good at expressing his own opinions; Wang Ruicheng: Smart and eager to learn, positive thinking; Wei Chenyang: Positive in speaking, and loves to use his brain; Wu Tao: Follow the rules Disciplined and down-to-earth in study; Xu Tianyu: thoughtful in thinking, beautiful and fluent writing, rich in expression, and proactive in learning; Xu Yifang: diligent in study, and proactive; Yan Tingting: good at reciting and hosting, with outstanding academic performance; Ye Yuting: serious and responsible in work , solid and hard-working in all aspects, very positive; Ying Chen Kai: rich in knowledge, quick thinking, able to draw inferences from one instance, self-aware and excellent in learning; Zhao Yi: enthusiastic and cheerful, caring for others; Zhou Shangqi: strong work ability, management ability, hardworking in all aspects Progress, there are 10 articles online; Zhou Zhi?: down-to-earth, down-to-earth, serious and outstanding in class work; Zhu Shaowei: has his own opinions, good at thinking and learning, good at expressing, has published 12 articles; Zhu Yeqing: serious and down-to-earth , meticulous. The above are some of my personal views on these children. I think everyone has advantages and cuteness, but they also have room for improvement. This is what we have to think about today and then help children change.

I think what everyone is most concerned about is the performance of their children. This is a characteristic of Chinese education, but it is also unavoidable. So what is the result? I said: Habits determine performance. What kind of habits you have, what kind of results you have. Next, all the books I mentioned should appear on our child's desk. If not, there are two situations. One is that he lost it, and the other is that he dare not put it here. Although we check every day, there are some children who always find ways to escape or miss. I sent a letter to parents nearly a month into the school year, in which I elaborated on some of the class's systems and routines. Here I will focus on several aspects. My evaluation of students is comprehensive, my assessment of students is also all-round, and my requirements for them are also detailed, and they are basically implemented on an individual basis. From the assessment of daily completion of homework, one star will be deducted for every delay, failure to do or failure to bring it. From the assessment of daily order and discipline and hygiene, one star will be deducted for every violation. One of them is called a notepad, which is required every day. The homework, things to be prepared, work to be completed, and matters to be paid attention to are all recorded in this notepad. Parents have to sign it every day after it is completed. For students who live in the school, the teacher on duty signs it, and those who do not sign One point will be deducted each time. It is worth noting that some students often change their notebooks, which shows that he has a habit of forgetting things, or he changes his notebooks because he has not taken notes in order to cope with the inspection.

Please pay attention to the notes on their notepads. First, is his note complete? Is he only scrawling one or two words? That is unsatisfactory; secondly, does it have the signature of the parent, or did he sign it himself? What's the reason if you didn't sign? We have eight stars every week, if not deducted, it will be at least eight stars, and some students can also add stars. For example, if the composition is posted online, two stars can be added to each article. If the writing is passable, as long as it is posted online, Usually I publish it for them and give them comments and encouragement. During the morning chat time, if people other than two classmates can speak every day, they can also add stars if they speak well. This is a good practice. Speaking opportunities. There are many places where you can get extra points, and I have told the students about them. Composition

Let’s take a look at the textbooks and homework books on their desks. This semester we have to study the Jingshan textbooks in volumes 8 and 9. The teaching tasks are heavy. Our classes have selected half of the texts as required texts. At this stage, the interns’ coursework has a certain impact on the classroom. Some texts All supplementary lessons will be given later. In addition to the required texts, I require students to self-study and complete corresponding exercises for other texts, which is equivalent to doing extracurricular reading to improve students' reading ability. The specific requirement is to solve problems independently on the basis of preview. Preview is also very important for Chinese language learning. The methods are as follows: 1. Reading (read silently once, read aloud once); 2. Mark (number of sections, pinyin of new and difficult words); 3. Circle (mark new and difficult words [difficult to read, difficult to read, Difficult to write, difficult to understand] circle and read; 4. Underline (words to be understood listed after class, words to read, write and write and words that are difficult to understand during the reading process); 5. Write (draft Write in the notebook new words that you don’t know and that are easy to make mistakes); 6. Look up (the meaning of the word is embedded in the text, and the relevant information of the article is written in the class notes); 7. Ask (read the text again to generate a pair of sentences) If you have questions, write them down in books or notes); 8. Thinking (after-class homework, questions, and try to answer them with a pencil) (Note: Everyone must prepare Xinhua dictionary, modern Chinese dictionary, idiom dictionary, must-memorize ancient poems and other books ). The importance of previewing can be imagined. The end of each new lesson is also the beginning of previewing for the next lesson. This part of the task must be completed carefully at home. Unfortunately, many people’s previews have failed during my inspection. During the process, I always find that I have been hasty and have not even read the text. I do not know or understand the words at all. When I enter the classroom in this state, no matter how good the teacher is, I will not be able to teach. I will not be able to find a teacher at all. Where is the content in the textbook, so how can I learn the Chinese class knowledge? How can I improve my Chinese scores? Please look at the two Chinese books on the table and look at the texts we have learned. How is his preview and self-study going? Looking through his class notebook again, I checked the Chinese class notes three times in the whole class. At the beginning of the semester, most students did not have the habit of taking class notes, so I asked to record the teacher’s notes. After writing on the blackboard and the key points of the lecture, some students still didn't remember it. During the inspection, I asked every student who didn't remember or missed the note to complete it again. However, during the second and third inspections, there were still some students who had lost their notebooks. , or they didn’t remember it again. Some students even threw the test papers and materials issued by the teacher into the trash can. So I said that habits determine the performance.

A very important aspect of habits is responsibility. Completing homework with high quality and quantity is a sign of responsibility. Look at all the homework books on the table. I am not afraid of exposing problems. If there are problems, we can work together to find ways to improve them. It is sad that everyone does not see the problem. See if the child has put all the books on the table: two large exercise books in volumes 8 and 9, a notebook, and a middle and high school composition book. Because the intern is in class, he only writes the big composition. Twice, a copy book of new words and phrases, an excerpt book, and a book "Reading Dark Horse". Now the requirements have reached the 22nd lesson. The articles in this book are very good. I have always wanted to talk about it, but always I don’t have time to talk about it, so I ask students to proofread it by themselves and ask me if they don’t understand anything. I also use a dictation book, a dictation book, and a dictation book for ancient poems outside class. To ensure students' extracurricular reading, I think we should ensure that children have at least half an hour of extracurricular reading time every day. Extracurricular books can be borrowed from classmates or in the library, so that they can read one or two books every week. Students who live on campus must be able to There are enough extracurricular books to read in school. Extracurricular reading must be strengthened. It is a good habit to love reading, but we also hope that some students will not read when the teacher is talking or in class.

Composition

This semester I spent a lot of time correcting students’ bad habits. In the past, Luwai did not have various assessments of health disciplines and order. Some of the students’ behaviors could not meet the needs of learning. For example, there were three or four students In class, they always sit sideways, or cross their legs, or even put their feet up. For example, some people never raise their hands when talking and just say what they want. For example, some people often say swear words, and some people are very inattentive in class. The format of the assignment was something I couldn’t do even after repeatedly stressing it several times. Now these bad phenomena in the whole class have basically changed.

Regarding composition, I suggest that you support students in writing compositions and cultivate their interest in composition. Write more and practice more, so that you can read more and read more. There is strong interaction in our class. Students The composition enthusiasm of students is greatly stimulated. If they can publish dozens or even hundreds of articles online, then composition or Chinese language is just a piece of cake for such students. Of course, the premise is to provide students with an online environment. , there should be computers with Internet access at home, so that they can type articles, publish and communicate by themselves. This is an indispensable thing for modern education. I think parents should support their children's learning requirements. But at the same time, parents must pay attention to network security and do a good job in supervising the Internet. I am firmly opposed to online games and access to bad websites. People, you can take a look at the test papers on the table. From this test and the previous exercise as well as ancient poems and idioms Analysis of the practice situation shows that students' extracurricular knowledge is lacking and needs a lot of supplements. I am also working hard to build a class network and plan to upload corresponding various materials, exercises, pictures, etc. for students to learn. Some students have ambiguous knowledge in the class and do not have a solid memory. They only focus on one and ignore the other. They think they understand, but it is incorrect. As a result, they cannot fill in the information accurately or completely. Of course, some of it is due to lack of review or study attitude. , bad habits and no mastery.

As for writing, the school has also focused on it as a teaching focus this semester. Each class must carry out corresponding writing teaching education, but I think extracurricular exercises are still quite necessary. Here I Everyone is asked to buy a fountain pen copybook for their child. It should be a regular script copybook that suits his own writing characteristics and his favorite font. For example, different calligraphers have different writing characteristics. I will ask everyone to practice calligraphy during their free time at noon every day.

Concerning labor, children’s awareness of labor needs to be strengthened. “Everyone can’t just sweep the snow in front of the door and ignore the frost on other people’s tiles.” Some children are used to being lazy or have no sense of labor and use the tips of two fingers to I picked up a rag and after wiping it, even my other fingers were not wet. There are also people who don’t know how to work and only regard labor as a kind of play, which is inefficient. I think labor can cultivate children's filial piety, love, and diligence. I suggest that parents give them more labor at home, do more housework, and do more work within their capabilities. Don't worry about them getting tired. I ask that there be some housework for him to do every day. Parents can guide but do not replace them. Don't forget to cultivate their hard-working spirit.

The work of the school and class cannot be separated from everyone's cooperation and support. For example, when we made promotional slogans at the last school sports meeting, classmate Wan Jieying brought an eye-catching banner, which became a beautiful scenery at our school sports meeting. , adding brilliance to my class. I also hope to get more understanding and support from everyone in my future work.

The healthy growth of children is the result of the comprehensive efforts of schools, families, and society. I want us to work together to promote it. There is also a parent testimonial in our place. Do you have any thoughts or opinions? , Suggestions, you can now write them down and give them to me, and we will study and solve them together. Attachment: Basic Principles and Arts of Family Education Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation. If we want to build our country into one of the developed countries in the world and rank among world civilizations, we need to improve the quality of the entire nation and create a large number of outstanding talents. Cultivating such talents depends not only on schools, but also on every family. In order to fulfill the lofty mission entrusted to us by history and cultivate high-quality talents for the new century, we must further improve our understanding and master correct educational principles and scientific educational methods. 1. Misunderstandings about family education Since ancient times, our people have attached great importance to family education. "Meng Meng's mother moved three times" and "Mother-in-law's tattoo" are popular tutoring stories. Since the founding of the People's Republic of China, parents have closely cooperated with schools, conscientiously implemented the Party's education policy, and cultivated a large number of builders and successors of the socialist cause with "ideal, moral, cultural, and disciplined" moral, intellectual, physical, and aesthetic development. Made outstanding contributions on all fronts.

However, due to various reasons, there are still various misunderstandings in family education to varying degrees.

One of the misunderstandings: attaching importance to intellectual education and neglecting moral education. As knowledge, science and technology play a greater role in modern production and life, some parents mistakenly believe that as long as their children study well, ideological and moral character is irrelevant. According to a survey in Shanghai, 92% of parents look at their children's intelligence, while only 8% pay attention to their children's moral development. Jiangsu Sheyang Middle School organized the "Road of Hope" summer camp in order to allow children to undergo hard training, and all the students were happy. However, not far from the start of the mission, some parents were afraid that their children would suffer, so they mobilized one after another. Some even used cars to block the road and forcibly pick up their children, causing morale in the military and the road to hope had to be suspended.

Myth 2: Expectations are too high.

According to a survey of primary schools, 90% of parents require their children to go to college, forcing their children to struggle hard on the single-plank bridge of the college entrance examination. Especially parents who were born in the late 1950s and early 1960s. They lived in difficult times and grew up during the turbulent period of the Cultural Revolution. The hardships of life and neglect of study since childhood have developed their unique characters. They hope to promote their own The ideal is compensated in the child. They have very high demands on their children. Some children wrote in their compositions: "When I go home, it feels like I am in prison. My parents are guards. I am under house arrest in the study room all day long and have very little time to relax."

Misunderstanding No. 3: Just nurture, not discipline.

Some parents think: trees are naturally straight. Children don’t need to be taught since childhood, and it’s not too late to teach them when they grow up. When some parents send their children to school, they say to the teacher: "I'll leave the child to you, please. You can scold or beat me as you please." Some parents are busy working all day and have no time to educate their children. Some are busy doing business and making money and don't care about their children. Some parents only care about their own leisure after get off work. There is a street in "Fighting Landlords" and "Zhufangcheng" with more than 20 tables of mahjong every night. Some parents do not let their children read behind them when they are playing cards, because "books" "" is homophonic with "lose", which is unlucky.

Myth No. 4: Excessive pampering

Since most of today’s children are only children, parents have an “eggshell mentality.” For the child, "I hold it in my mouth for fear of melting, and hold it on my head for fear of falling." For fear of something going wrong, I overprotect and pamper the child too much. Some parents think that living standards have improved now, and they can afford to give their children whatever they want. Although some families are not doing well financially, they still have a herd mentality and think that it doesn't matter if they suffer a little, so that their children don't have to suffer. This kind of pampering creates "coquettishness" and "arrogance" in children, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children and is even counterproductive.

Misunderstanding 5: Pay attention to physical health and ignore mental health. When it comes to health, many parents will naturally think of whether their children are recovering from illnesses. In fact, this understanding is not comprehensive. Health in the modern sense includes both physical and mental aspects. A healthy child must have a healthy body and a healthy mind. Some people compare it to the word "人", one stroke and one stroke, both of which are indispensable. Some children are in good health and have excellent morals and academics, but their psychology is quite fragile and they cannot withstand the "stimulation" of the outside world. A student cadre and Sanhaosheng student in a junior high school committed suicide because he sang out of tune at a party, causing his classmates to burst into laughter. Students' mental health is not unique. According to a survey in a certain city, about 13% of primary school students, 17% of junior high school students, and 19% of high school students have psychological behavioral disorders. In the fierce competition in the market economy, failure and setbacks are inevitable. We must pay attention to children's mental health. Otherwise, it will not be able to meet the needs of future society.