What is your advice to adolescent girls?

1. When interacting with boys, girls should know more about self-esteem and self-love. When interacting, you should be neither arrogant nor arrogant, with a stable and generous attitude, so that boys will respect you and not dare to be rude; when it comes to clothing, you should pay attention to the beauty that is suitable for fashion, but should not be too flashy. Your speech and behavior should not be frivolous or pretentious, and you should avoid being coquettish or teasing the opposite sex. We should take the indecent behavior of the opposite sex seriously, and we should also pay attention to our own discourtesy or other inappropriate behavior.

2. When interacting with boys, you should pay attention to cultivating self-control. In fact, little girls are more likely to be emotional than boys. Therefore, self-control is not only the ability to control one's own psychology, but also the ability to consciously obey social norms. In the process of cultivating self-control, you should consciously control your words and deeds when in contact with the opposite sex, be calm and collected, and avoid talking nonsense. In terms of behavior, you should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, and do not take the initiative to approach or touch the body of the opposite sex; when talking to the opposite sex, you should use a measured tone and address, and do not make outrageous jokes or talk about sexual issues, etc.

3. When interacting with boys, you must draw a clear line between friendship and love. Girls should grasp the essential difference between the two, consciously abide by the ethics of friendship and love, and never confuse friendship and love. Friendship is the most trustworthy relationship between friends and should not contain sexual content; love is a special social relationship between men and women that is exclusive and lasting for the purpose of maintaining marriage and family. You can have many friends of the opposite sex at the same time, but you can only have one lover.