How can I become more mature?

1. Mature standards.

Maturity can be both a physical indicator and a psychological indicator. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are related.

When it comes to psychological maturity, I believe that a mature person has strong independence in thoughts, feelings, actions, and finances, and is less dependent on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have clear goals in life, and take practical actions. Be able to control one's emotions, have the ability to observe and discern things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have considerable tolerance and resistance to setbacks and difficulties. Stop trusting everything and focus on practice.

In short, a mature person means that he has found himself and handled the relationship between himself and the outside world well.

Whether or not you have a self and how you treat yourself are important criteria for measuring a person's maturity. Of course, this is relative, because people are constantly becoming mature. You can compare your present with the past to see if you are maturing. This is a vertical comparison. You can also compare yourself with those around you. This is Balanced comparison.

1. Pay attention to promises: A mature man will never go back on his word. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled. If he can, he will never say anything. , practice what you preach. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trustworthy. A man who talks too much, fires off cannons randomly, and is slow to take action has nothing to do with maturity.

2. Don’t talk too much: A mature man never talks casually. He will maintain appropriate silence and speak clearly but without shouting. Just drink some wine and tell the whole table about your experiences and stories. No speakers are needed and half the room can hear them. This kind of man can make the audience laugh at most, but no one will take your various so-called " "The Road of Struggle" in my heart.

3. Learned and reserved: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their own connotations. But they are not showy, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they will never show off deliberately to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the better it tastes.

4. Broad-minded: Mature men do not care about small things, do not seek small gains, do not care about suffering small losses, and do not complain endlessly about this and that. Their eyes are never caught up in trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family.

5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and respect others. They are good at putting themselves in other people's shoes, considering problems from others' point of view, not forcing others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "what do I do" have a typical little emperor temperament and have not grown up yet.

6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses to shirk the blame.

7. Firm will: Mature men have the psychological quality to remain stable. Once they determine their goal, they work hard towards it. When encountering setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and make timely corrections. direction, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set off with confidence.

8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They wear the hairstyle that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don’t have long fingernails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they should be neat and elegant, and not wrinkled like a courier. They would never wear black shoes with white socks or a suit to travel.

9. Respect the old and love the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to disaster-stricken areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood voluntarily... They may not do all of these things, but they will never do nothing.

10. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work. They know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves and have both work and leisure, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are less likely to become bad.

2. Expression of Maturity

Only a man who has been tempered will become mature

1. Expression of Maturity - Honesty

Honesty is here Interpreted as ------ face everything bravely and honestly. It sounds as easy as eating normally, but it is more difficult than imagined. It is not as difficult as climbing Mount Everest. I remember that Taiwanese writer Bo Yang wrote a book "The Ugly Chinese". I remember there was a passage in the book: One of the ugliest aspects of the Chinese is "When a person makes a mistake, he will use ten or even twenty mistakes to correct the situation." Cover up the first mistake”. It sounds a bit verbose, but if you look closely, it seems to be as ubiquitous in our lives as the air. To put it simply, it is when someone lies for the sake of a wrong action. Most men will falsely claim to another woman that they are single outside, and their intentions and purposes are obvious. After achieving their goal, they will take the initiative to confess to one party because they are forced to live a painful life like a splint on both sides. At present, the society advocates clear consumption. Consumers have the right to get detailed information about the product from the merchant before consumption. However, here, it is difficult for consumers (women) to get the possibility of clear consumption. By the way, for this kind of It is difficult to complain to the Consumers Association about counterfeit goods.

Honestly, you might as well give it a try? !

2. Maturity Performance 2: Desire

A man must have desire, and if he has a strong desire, there will be a movement process to realize the desire. What makes a girl most tempted and makes her proud and excited is the pleasure of watching her beloved man achieve and reach the peak of his career step by step. Looking back again, isn't the entire process of desire movement the growth process of a mature man? I have always heard a saying: As a man, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, but you must have "talent". I believe this sentence expresses this meaning! It can also be seen from this sentence that every qualified woman wants to participate in the growth process of a mature man. If there are no conditions, she at least wants to watch the process of him realizing his desires. That would be anything a woman would pay for it. That will also be a proud moment for a mature man. Girls have a process of expectation for boys, and once the expectation becomes realized, it will be the greatest wealth in life.

3. Maturity performance three: Tolerance

Tolerance mentioned here refers to a kind of tolerance unique to mature men. This kind of tolerance and tolerance is reflected in the behavior of treating things and treating others. Tolerance is a virtue in itself, and tolerance is extended from tolerance and is tailor-made for men. It's like a men's cologne. It can also be compared to gentlemanly behavior. If a man shows his tolerance when encountering problems, it reflects his familiarity with things and also reflects his personal charm to varying degrees. If a man shows his magnanimity when meeting others, he will be recognized and respected by others.

Combining the above three points, let’s summarize.

A mature man is the dream of all women. If a mature man is compared to a diamond ring that women yearn for:

Tolerance------The size of the platinum diamond ring, It means whether his tolerance and tolerance can be accepted by her;

Desire------The carat of the diamond ring means that his career is directly proportional to the carat of the diamond;

Honesty------The inner refracted light of diamond means that it is the inner shining point of a man.

Adult men are not necessarily mature. However, every adult man does not want to be an immature character in the eyes of his female companion.

1. A mature man should have a financial foundation. Since people use gold to describe harvest, women naturally use money to judge a man's maturity.

2. A mature man should have a career foundation. Maybe not every man can make a fortune, but if you feel like you have accomplished nothing, how can you stand up in the eyes of women?

3. Mature men know what they want, rather than wanting everything. Know how to persist and how to give up.

4. A mature man has the courage to take responsibility, although some faults are not all his fault.

5. Mature men are tolerant, and caring too much is the most unforgivable mistake of a man.

6. Mature men have great wisdom rather than little cleverness.

7. A mature man can teach a woman a lot from his words and deeds, while a young man can only let a woman teach him.

8. A mature man knows how to cherish and take care of women. When going out for an outing, he will definitely not be the first person to take care of himself.

9. Mature men will not quarrel with women on the street.

10. A mature man will not force a woman to wear clothes that he likes but she doesn’t like.

11. Mature men will not make vulgar jokes with women casually.

12. A mature man lets a woman know that she is wrong, but will not make her lose face.

13. Mature men make women relax without making them nervous.

14. A mature man will train his son to become a real man.

Method: In fact, maturity is ultimately about doing things and being a person. There are no shortcuts.

If you insist on finding a method, do more and quickly summarize and improve;

< p>Read more books and be good at thinking and application

Listen to more experience and skills from experienced people (experts).

The above is some information and personal summary I selected, I hope it can help you