What should I do for those ungrateful people who bite the hand that feeds them?

Zhou Hao was my classmate in technical secondary school. After graduation, we were assigned to work in the same unit. Although we don't work in the same department, after all, there are not many students who can meet often in recent years. We take care of each other and have a good relationship.

Ten years later, I became his direct leader, and I trusted his work ability. In a large-scale project bidding, Zhou Hao was removed from the company for accepting the pre-tender estimate of Party B's property. As his immediate boss, I was implicated and was not reused by the company for many years.

People engaged in the construction industry are most afraid of this kind of behavior. Therefore, it is difficult for Zhou Hao to find a job in the industry, and the major of construction engineering can't get on. He knew that my little brother was doing well in Dongguan and went to my house with gifts many times, expressing his intention to go south to my little brother.

At this time, Zhou Hao's family collapsed due to the return of property, and the life of the family gradually became poor. Looking at his pathetic appearance, I can't help feeling pity. I wrote a personal letter to my little brother without thinking, and at the same time called my little brother to ask him to help me. Zhou Hao prepared at home for a few days, and took this letter 198 to board the train going south.

In fact, my little uncle is only three years older than me. When I was a child, as long as someone bullied me, he would definitely pick up a stick and settle accounts with that person, making me so lawless in the village. My request means nothing to him. He personally drove to the station to meet Zhou Hao, settled Zhou Hao in the best staff dormitory, and familiarized him with the business of his factory. A few years later, he even handed over the most critical customer to Zhou Hao for maintenance.

My brother's mold factory is very famous in Chang 'an Town, Dongguan. Zhou Hao is intelligent, studious, especially good at dealing with interpersonal relationships, and won his trust. In those years, he was busy in other fields in Shenzhen and Guangzhou, and his factory was basically left to Zhou Hao. By the end of 1990s, Zhou Hao's annual income exceeded 300,000 pounds. Not only did he buy a new house at home, but Zhou Hao gave his wife a car that many people couldn't dream of. I was jealous of my former colleagues, saying that every dark cloud in Zhou Xiao has a silver lining, which made his wife happy from ear to ear, but I never mentioned my kindness to their family. Occasionally, a friend who knows the root of the matter asks me, but my heart is actually a hundred unhappy. On the surface, I have to pretend that the atmosphere has a pattern and tell people that this is the wealth of others based on this matter.

In 200 1 year, Zhou Hao came back from Dongguan to celebrate the New Year, and brought his wife to my house to celebrate the New Year. This is his second trip to Guangdong in seven years. I haven't seen Zhou Hao for five or six years. He brought some cigarettes and wine to my husband and gave the girl a red envelope. I can't help feeling guilty Zhou Hao is still a well digger who never forgets to dig wells. He secretly feels ashamed of his petty nature.

At dinner, Zhou Hao raised his glass to propose a toast to my husband. He said that he was doing well in Dongguan and planned to take over his wife, but his son was preparing for the senior high school entrance examination at home, so he planned to invest in his wife to open a wedding photo studio. He has contacted a brand wedding dress in the south. He took a fancy to a facade, which is an office building under construction by my husband's company. When the whole first floor is completed, he will rent it out. My husband is the logistics director of the company.

Obviously, Zhou Hao came here to ask my husband for help, but someone paid a deposit for these facades a year ago, and it is still difficult for him to move out of some of them. However, because Chou Hao was too stubborn, I also felt that people had to help in the end, and whoever rented it was the same price, so I forced my husband to find a way and finally rented it to four fronts in Zhou Hao. The contract is signed once every four years, and it is clearly stipulated that it cannot be transferred without permission. If they don't pay the rent when it is due, they will have to do so.

On May Day, a wife of Zhou Hao joined this wedding photo studio and opened it. Wedding photography was very popular 20 years ago. Friends who know should know the market at that time. As long as the location is good, they can get rich with their eyes closed.

There is little contact between us in the future. I moved to a new community for several years, and Zhou Hao and his wife didn't even know where our family lived.

In 2007, my little brother's son got married, and I came from the mainland to congratulate him. They all settled in Guangzhou. After that, I told my little brother that I was going to visit my friend Zhou Hao in Dongguan.

The little brother looked at me coldly and said, "Is this kind of person still your friend? I don't blame you, because it's not your fault. My fault is that I misjudged a person and raised a baiwenhang. " Next, my little brother's words made me dumbfounded.

It turns out that in addition to operating the mold industry, my little brother also set foot in hotels and restaurants a few years ago. Mold processing has been on the right track for many years, forming a relatively stable market and customer resources. Since Zhou Hao came, my little brother thinks that the person I introduced must have a degree and a good personality. He cultivated Zhou Hao as his most effective confidant, and later handed over all the core secrets of the enterprise to Zhou Hao. When my little brother was away, Zhou Hao completely controlled the production and operation of the enterprise.

It is true that wolves travel thousands of miles to eat meat and dogs travel thousands of miles to eat shit. In the face of huge interests, Zhou Hao's old habit has been broken again. He is no longer satisfied with holding 300 thousand annual salary under my little brother. He privately colluded with some of the best technicians in the factory, opened another mold factory in Xiagang, Dongguan, and then gradually introduced the customer resources of the old factory into his factory. The most hateful thing is that this product was always installed before my little brother found it. By the time my little brother found that his business had plummeted, it was too late. My little brother always values face more than life. We often talk on the phone, but he didn't say a word. If I hadn't mentioned that I was going to see Zhou Hao today, he might have rotted in his stomach.

My heart is bleeding. Looking at my little uncle in a daze, I can't speak, as disgusting as eating a fly. I can't think of any way to help my little brother vent his anger at the moment. Yes, Zhou Hao stepped on the giant's shoulder and entered the peak of his life.

The global financial crisis in 2008 had a far-reaching impact on Dongguan's manufacturing industry. My little brother has transformed into the catering and entertainment industry, and the business in Zhou Hao is not good. According to a teacher who told my little brother for more than 20 years, he got into the bad habit of gambling two years ago and owed a lot of debts. How could he withstand this financial wave and simply run back to his hometown as soon as he closed the factory?

The wedding photo studio at home has been going downhill in recent years. In May 2009, we saw that the rent for next year would be paid soon. If we continue to do this, we will have to sign a new contract. Not to mention paying next year's rent in advance, whether we can support these dozen employees is a problem. The best solution is to transfer the store. According to the market situation in this lot, there should be no problem with the decoration fee and transfer fee of more than 40W, because two rooms have been transferred not long ago.

It's a mountain turning into water. After I got the news the first time, I went directly to my husband's office to find him before he got off work. Needless to say, I only ask him to simply carry out the contract. He and his little uncle are as tight as brothers. Zhou Hao and his wife are exhausted in the office. My husband didn't let go.

The most fatal blow is that I personally went out to find the next boss who took over the facade and told the boss, "You don't have to think of any alternative ways with Zhou Hao privately. The facade expires on May 30. As long as Zhou Hao doesn't take money to renew the contract, you can sign a lease contract with Party A without spending a penny on the transfer fee. " My words made the boss of this casual clothing brand very happy. As a businessman, this kind of good thing is rare, and he is willing to cooperate.

Finally, I return to the main question: what should I do for those ungrateful people who bite the hand that feeds them? First, please forgive me. I am not a noble person who can tolerate people who bite the hand that feeds them. In addition to the above experience, the following are my views on this issue:

1, ingratitude is a sign of ignorance and selfishness. Good people help their friends, and they never intend to ask for anything in return. I can tolerate ungrateful people, but I hate people who bite the hand that feeds them.

2, the wicked are used to being cowards, and those who bite the hand that feeds them will pay back blows with blows whenever they have the chance. This kind of behavior is to promote justice and positive energy.

3. Stay away from ungrateful people. People who bite the hand that feeds them should not only hit people when they are down, but also put a lid on them if possible!

Seeing my friends here, do you think I'm going a little too far? Please share your opinion in the comments section, thank you!

My friend sponsored a girl from a poor area to go to school for seven years, but after she graduated and worked for half a year, she suddenly cut off all contact with my friend and blacked her out.

My friend started a business with her husband after graduating from college and started a small company. Later, the business was doing well and the scale was getting bigger and bigger. At this time, her husband joined a local blue sky rescue team. She said that after her husband joined the rescue team, she watched what her husband did and she wanted to do something.

Because this friend's hometown is in a poor mountainous area, his family was particularly poor when he was a child, and because he could not afford to pay tuition fees, he relied on others to help him, so now he has the idea of helping poor students go to school. She said that although it is far from contributing to society, it can at least satisfy the sense of accomplishment brought by helping others.

Later, with the help of friends around her, she found a girl from her hometown. Her parents died young and she has been living with her elderly grandmother. Now she is in high school. However, due to the limited economic conditions at home, I can't afford the tuition. My friend started subsidizing this girl from the next semester of the first year of high school, giving her 700 yuan every month and giving her a birthday present every year.

The girls got good grades and studied hard to be admitted to a 985 college. Considering that the expenses of girls entering this period will definitely increase, and the expenses of universities are relatively higher, my friend increased the monthly living expenses of girls to 1000 yuan until they graduated from universities for four years.

I usually have a lot of contact with this friend. She took me with her as soon as she bought clothes. Several times, I found that she would buy clothes for this girl and send them there. At this time, friends will always say that girls are born to love beauty, and they will definitely lack clothes when changing seasons, and these clothes will not cost much. It is no exaggeration to say that my friend will give her several clothes every time the season changes.

The sponsored girls are also quite sensible. She feels like a grateful child. When she is free, she will report her study to this friend. If she has any achievements in her studies, she will share the good news with my friends, and she will call to say hello every holiday and my friend's birthday.

The girl made a boyfriend in her senior year. After they confirmed their relationship, she shared the news with my friends at the first time and sent us their photos. My friend said that girls will definitely date often when they are in love, so she gave the girl two unnecessary bags. (All brands)

In the year when the girl graduated, her grandmother died, and her friends learned about it from the girl's circle of friends. She said that she felt that she had been treating this girl as her own child for years, so she was even sad after the girl's only relative died. She not only called the girl to comfort her, but also transferred her 2000 yuan.

Later, the girl began to look for a job. At first she heard that the major was wrong. She didn't want to force herself to wait for two months, and finally found a job that matched her major. She shared the good news with my friends at the first time. My friend said that it was not easy for this girl for so many years, and now she can finally take part in the work. In order to celebrate her success in work, friends bought him various daily necessities and sent him a red envelope from 500 yuan to congratulate her.

After the girl received her salary in the first month of work, she took a photo of inviting her colleagues to dinner in a circle of friends and wrote: "Thank you for your help in my work and life." After seeing this circle of friends sent by her, my friend commented to her below: "I am really happy for you to earn money to support yourself. Don't forget to invite me to dinner when you are free. "

Not long after her comments were sent out, the girl sent a WeChat to her friend. My friend's surname is Zhao. The content of the girl's WeChat is like this: "Teacher Zhao, I appreciate your help over the past few years, but I don't want to have any contact with you in the future. As long as I think of you, I will think of the days when I had no dignity. I want to start a new life in the future. "

My friend said, does my comment worry her too much? She even blamed herself for a long time, thinking that it hurt the girl's self-esteem, so she wanted to send a message to the girl to explain. Unexpectedly, she found that she was no longer a good friend of the other party, and the phone was disconnected.

Because of this, my friend was depressed for a long time Later, she said that she didn't ask for anything in return for funding others anyway. No contact, no contact.

My friend thought it was over, too. Unexpectedly, what happened later made her know how ugly human nature is. Not long after, my friend went back to his hometown because of something. She was chatting with relatives and friends, and she accidentally talked about the girl who was sponsored because she was also near their hometown. Unexpectedly, when the girl received her first month's salary and invited her friends to dinner, the sentence she commented on had been circulated in many versions. Now their whole village is talking about her. Generally speaking, my friend subsidizes girls to go to school, but now she has to pay something back. We are all fellow villagers. We really shouldn't do this!

A friend said that she was stunned for a long time when she heard the neighbor in the village say that she would repay the girl. Suddenly, she suddenly realized what it meant to promote rice and beat rice.

Back to the question, what should I do for those ungrateful people who bite the hand that feeds them?

From my friend's later actions, I found that she chose to forgive this girl because she didn't ask for anything in return when she funded this girl. Personally, I think some people bite the hand that feeds them for the following reasons.

One: Poor students, because of poor family background and limited education, have never received gratitude education since childhood, and there is no such thing as gratitude in their concept.

Two: Many poor students feel that accepting other people's financial aid will make them look down, because they don't want to be labeled as financial aid.

After getting the support of others, the first thing a person should know is how to be grateful. If a person can't even do the minimum gratitude, then such a person should stay away from him.

As the saying goes; Revenge is hard to repay, but gratitude is hard to thank. A little kindness should buy a spring. Sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing, and crows have the meaning of feeding back. It is better to be grateful than to be ungrateful. Knowing your gratitude is better than reporting it to an animal. Gratitude is a gentleman, gratitude is not a gentleman. Those who don't repay their servants, but bite back, laugh it off, cut off contacts, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye, turn a blind eye.

Guiguzi: The greatest sin in the world is not ingratitude, but bite the hand that feeds you.

Since ancient times, people who bite the hand that feeds them and are ungrateful have been called "Baiwenhang" and "Zhongshan Wolf", both of which are derogatory terms. Since others have helped you, you can't say that "a drop of water is a kindness, and a spring is a reward", let alone do things that hit people when they are down. Bite the hand that feeds you, and ungrateful people will be spurned.

The person who bites the hand that feeds him turns a deaf ear to his story of "the farmer and the snake". Everyone knows that the farmer finally lost his life. This story warns everyone. Learn from mistakes. If you encounter a snake that is about to freeze to death in the future, don't be soft-hearted and don't be a farmer, so that you won't get hurt or even lose your life.

In this world, there are always some people who are selfish and self-righteous Faced with the help of others, they can accept it with a clear conscience; They can pretend to turn a blind eye to other people's efforts. It seems that others should and naturally treat him well, but they never appreciate it, let alone return it. Gradually, I understand: not everyone deserves your kindness to him, you don't know how to repay him, and it's useless for you to be kind to him; Not everyone deserves your help. Never help an ungrateful person. Your kindness should be left to those who know how to be grateful; Your kindness should be left to those who know how to cherish it. In this realistic society, people are becoming more and more indifferent and insincere. Sometimes, what you pay is not the gratitude of others, but the indifference of others. Your sincerity is not cherished by others, but cheated by others. There are too many baiwenhang in this world, even if you give everything, you can't feed them well. Teachers have taught us to be kind-hearted and helpful since childhood, but after exploring this society for so many years, I found that the reality is not like that. I also know that kindness depends on the occasion and kindness depends on the object. Blind kindness will only bring trouble and even danger to yourself. Blindly being kind will only make others think that you are weak and easy to bully, and then start pushing your luck. In fact, there is nothing wrong with kindness itself. What is wrong is to see who is right. To an ungrateful person, your kindness is ignorance. He might bite the hand that feeds him instead of thanking you. In fact, there is nothing wrong with being kind. What was wrong was to give it to a man with a heart of stone. For those who don't know how to repay, your goodness is cowardice. He won't care, but will laugh at your incompetence. There are all kinds of people in this society, including gentlemen and despicable people. So, don't be too sympathetic. If you are too kind to those mean people, you are helping others. If you are too kind to those ungrateful people, you are not good at it. There is a bottom line in being a man and a principle in helping others. Ungrateful people can't help; Don't help those who don't know how to repay! '

Stay away, absolutely stay away!

Such a man has two sides, and he has three knives. As long as he touches any of his interests, he will retaliate. This kind of person will not remember others' goodness, but will think that others should or should curry favor with him. I have met such a person, once is enough, and I must stay away from him. I miss you if I have something to do, and leave if I have nothing to do. The point is that sometimes they will provoke others in many ways. Such people are terrible.

But I also believe that such people have no good results, and it will hurt people's hearts if they watch it for a long time. After a long time, many people will know what he is like! I believe that God will not forgive every bad person, but he will not treat every good person badly!

I wish you the best of health!

There are three ways to treat such people in the workplace: the first is to reflect on the lessons of being unfriendly and insensitive to people and change the disorderly and kind behavior without a bottom line. Avoid making such a mistake next time.

Secondly, gradually weaken the market-oriented psychology of helping others and expecting returns. Establish the psychology that giving is the normal response of one's conscience. In the spirit of charity, help others as a practice. Without hope, there is no right disappointment.

Finally, we should treat the villains who bite the hand that feeds them differently. The general principle is to resolutely fight back and never tolerate it! The light one can ignore or avoid it, and the heavy one should be a heavy blow!

Just like cats treat mice.

The stories of kind farmers and poisonous snakes have been endless! Never stop!

Good farmers are always there!

Fierce poisonous snakes are also common!

Stories between a kind farmer and a frozen snake often happen!

I think of my middle school classmate Sun Yongquan, whom I have sponsored and helped for a long time. He is selfish, mean, rude, coquetry, violent, without sincere friends and good classmates. In the past, almost all boys and girls in the class stayed at a respectful distance from each other.

Later, his family illegally used a gas tank as a welding blacksmith shop, and an explosion occurred. He was blind and broke his leg, and his father was seriously injured.

His father, in the hospital, heard Sun Yongquan's curse for many days, but he also committed suicide.

Sun Yongquan has not been visited since. He insults his two sisters with obscene and obscene language every day, and often insults and bullies his lonely mother, who has spoiled him all the year round. I was asked many times by others and his family before I let go of my old enmity and gave him sympathy and support. Out of sympathy, I helped and supported him for decades without asking him for gratitude. I just hope he doesn't bite the hand that feeds him.

It never occurred to me that he suddenly cursed the benefactor with a dirty mouth, without warning or reason, in many online groups that he had troubled his classmates to establish.

I am angry and angry, and I want to beat the wicked man and break his stinking mouth.

I looked for him several times, during which I was looking for the waiting time of the wicked. I held back and hit a disabled evil ghost. The evil spirit came out, very happy, but it may hurt the normal life of a good person.

Patience again.

I think, if there is a next time, I won't be generous, forget the past, forgive him, and help him generously!

May the evil spirits go to hell early! May the world stay away from evil spirits!

I'm glad to answer this question:

Treat those ungrateful people who bite the hand that feeds them, and stay away from abandoning them. An ungrateful person can't become a climate!

1, people who don't know how to cherish will not be happy even if they are guarding Jinshan. People who don't understand tolerance will eventually leave no matter how many friends they have. People who don't know how to be grateful can't succeed no matter how good they are. People who don't know how to be satisfied can't be happy no matter how rich they are.

2. A grateful person will appreciate what others have done for him, cherish what he has, and feel that having everything in front of him is both happy and happy.

Light up the people around you with a grateful heart!

This kind of person can only stay away! There is such a typical person around! It's hard work and hard heart! She can say things that ordinary people can't. She can do things that ordinary people can't! The most important thing is to bite the hand that feeds you. Your mouth is particularly poisonous! I can't eat at all! No matter how nice you are to her, it's no use! Always put interests first! However, there is another advantage, that is, I have a pair of powerful eyes. When I see my superiors, I can do anything and treat people, just like I said above! Maybe you think it's derogatory to praise her snobbery, but it's actually a compliment, because in a certain space, because her superiors like to cry, the more you pay, the more sad you will be. But there are very few such people, and many people around me say that they have met one for decades.