I always like online dating, but I don't like reality. What happened?

Have you ever been hurt by love in reality? The other person is not satisfied with your appearance or figure, so you have no confidence. Online dating doesn't need real contact and doesn't think too much about some external conditions, so you think you can enjoy this simple feeling. You should correct your attitude and see if you are really in online dating or just like it for a while. There is a qualitative difference between liking and loving. Like we simply like this person, but love gives special meaning, and there will be certain responsibilities accordingly.

Now more and more people like online dating mainly in the following ways;

1, online dating will reduce the probability of taking responsibility in real life. If two people only have online love without the idea of running, then the daily necessities and many problems in life can be avoided. When it rains, you don't have to pick up your girlfriend, and you don't have to think about making money and getting married. When two people are in platonic love, you can get more spiritual satisfaction without physical contact.

2. Couples in real life are more or less dissatisfied with themselves. They are tall and thin, beautiful and ugly in appearance, lively and lovely in personality, quiet and calm, and beautiful and ugly in voice, so couples in real life need a lot of running-in, and in this running-in process, they may suddenly find it inappropriate and break up. But online lovers, because there is no real contact, will appear mysterious, so they will imagine what the other half doesn't know, and imagine each other as the most perfect look in their minds.

The most important thing of online dating is to fill the emptiness in life. Sometimes I want to talk to someone, but I don't know who to talk to when I open the address book. Some words are not easy to say to friends and family. So the object of online dating is a good object to talk to.

4. Some people may feel inferior because of some objective factors in real life, so they will look for self-confidence on the Internet, build self-confidence for themselves, and face the unknown side, they can be what they want. For example, you are average-looking, but you can show your good side to each other for the first time through your photos. If you are a couple who get along in real life, when you are in face-to-face contact, basically all the actions are not real-time and unprepared, but you can speak online when you are ready, and send the checked ones to each other if you think it is ok, which will reduce the error rate.