Pupils are puppy love, what should parents do?

In the face of puppy love, parents and friends must be calm and find the right time to discourage children's behavior. The focus here is dissuasion.

For example, if a child tells me I love you, writes a small note, says I love you loudly in public, or even hugs and imitates the contact between men and women, you must tell the child that these things are not suitable for you, and the child should not learn indiscriminately. Some things are very private and inappropriate in public. They are not suitable for doing these things at this age, which will also have a bad influence on students.

Everyone may be uncomfortable and violate discipline, and then stand from the child's point of view at the same time. You don't want people and teachers to dislike you because of some inappropriate behavior and language, do you? For primary school students, they can still listen to this.

Pupils' puppy love is characterized by:

(1) Pupils puppy love is very imitative.

Children learn everything they say and do from adults, from TV and movies. They may not know what they are saying or doing. Sometimes, their words and deeds may scare teachers and parents, just like young lovers. But if you ask her carefully, you will often find that she is hazy herself, just talking nonsense. For example, a note was sent to a third-grade child.

(2) The second characteristic of puppy love among primary school students is variability.

Pupils' puppy love often has no clear goal. It's good to give this today. Next year, there may be something very small. For example, when we play games together, we don't help him. When we are angry, she may change people again.

(3) The third characteristic of puppy love among primary school students is unsustainability.

Mainly refers to the puppy love of primary school students, rarely thinking about someone all day. It comes and goes. For example, puppy love in the morning may be forgotten at noon. Maybe I remembered it again at night. So in the eyes of adults, it feels like a child is playing, ah, it really seems to be playing.