College students were defrauded of RMB 3.18 million in online dating in one and a half months. How to make sure online dating is not a scam?

Dating is risky, so be cautious when dating online? This slogan is familiar to everyone, but there are always people who cannot see the "Internet person" on the other side and fall into a scam trap. Recently, another "online dating" victim has appeared. A 19-year-old college student developed a relationship with a voice anchor, and exchanged gifts and transferred more than 3 million yuan to each other. What people didn’t expect was that not only the identity, photos and reasons for borrowing the money were false, but the goddess also maintained romantic relationships with several men. Online dating is like a trap full of temptations, which can make people lose 3.18 million in one and a half months. Does that mean that all online dating is untrustworthy? How to determine whether online dating is not a scam?

Love is like a piece of sweet cheese, and online dating seems to add a layer of mystery, expectation, and fantasy to the cheese, making people want to taste it even more. Online dating is often a way for frustrated people in real life to seek solace. Just like the college student who was defrauded of 3.18 million this time, his acquaintance with the "goddess" came from breaking up with his girlfriend. One party longs for companionship, and the other longs for money. The two Started with online game voice acting, and then quickly fell in love.

Probably distance creates beauty. The virtual function of online dating gives both parties more beautiful advantages, and also makes each other seem more "suitable", making the relationship between two strangers true and lasting, but it is not necessary to hide the needle behind the scenes. Please note that the two of them never know the true face of the other party, and the more they don't get it, the more they become commotion. However, turmoil is often accompanied by danger. If you have a friend who is in the online dating stage, it is recommended to try to separate yourself and carefully examine whether your relationship is adulterated.

First of all, online dating scams are often committed in the name of love, but in reality they are scams. Fraud is often inseparable from inquiries about ID cards, bank cards, transfers, urgent need for money, etc. If the other party always reveals information intentionally or unintentionally that his family is in trouble, he has raised support from 7 parties, and he still owes you, this is It's time to be vigilant, there are still so many rumors about online dating, there are either ghosts or thieves. If the other party asks for gifts or purchases on behalf of others, you should choose carefully.

Secondly, although online dating is separated by the Internet and is intangible, videos are still possible. Many online dating scams are eventually revealed to be an old man who is "talking about love", and video meetings are better than each other. The photos sent out are credible.

Thirdly, the process of falling in love will inevitably be interspersed with various vows. A sincere person will not talk about promises all day long. Practical actions are more important. This is true whether it is online love or real love. See clearly.

Finally, if you meet someone not long ago, if you find that the other person is very much in line with the requirements of your fantasy partner, and the other person proposes to meet and expresses love at first sight, you should be rational when facing such netizens, love at first sight often starts with lust, and time It’s a great way to monitor your feelings.

People often say that nine out of ten people who date online are scammers. Although this sentence has a strong prejudice against "online dating", various cases are still in front of us and we still need to be more vigilant when it comes to online dating and chatting. Don't just stop at simple things like good morning, good afternoon, and good night. You need to understand the other party's outlook and way of thinking. If you notice something is wrong, it is crucial to stop the loss in time.