Reader Qiu Dad Qiu Ma: I know how hard you work!

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When I read the eighth issue of Reader, I became a tearful person many times!

I said that my tear point is very low, and I am prone to tears. However, this time I found the most-topic about children, which easily made my feelings out of control!

What impressed me the most this time were the parents of twin boys: Qiu's father and Qiu's mother.

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If Qiu's parents can read this article, I will say to them: I know how hard you have worked!

I know all parents in the world want their children to be healthy and perfect.

Qiu's father Qiu's mother's child was born in the autumn of 2002.

Twin boys! How enviable this should be!

As you can imagine, their child Qiu Ge Yu Qiu was immersed in endless happiness every day in the first few days after birth!

Because, I am also a father, and my children are also boys. He was born in 20 10. In the first days, we were immersed in such happiness every day.

However, how unpredictable people's fate is!

Qiu's father and Qiu's mother's two babies were diagnosed with autism two years after birth!

And my child, when he was more than two years old, had an accident.

This is a high fever caused by accumulated food and fire. That night, my wife and I took the children to the city children's hospital and hung up the emergency room.

The door of the emergency department is crowded with adults and children waiting in line.

My wife is also in the team with her children in her arms.

The child was very excited and kept twisting in his mother's arms.

Just measured the temperature, close to 39 degrees.

Suddenly the child shouted and fell backwards!

Thinking that the child was naughty, the mother quickly held the child in her arms again, but immediately found that the child's eyes were closed and his whole body twitched!

My wife was frightened at that time, called a doctor and rushed to the clinic with her child in her arms!

The situation was urgent, and the experienced doctor on duty immediately explained to the waiting crowd that the child should be rescued first. Please understand and cooperate, get out of the way and ensure ventilation.

Immediately, the doctor asked my lover to gently lay the child flat on the table in the consulting room and let the child's head lean to one side. At this time, the child has already started foaming at the mouth!

In the process of emergency rescue, my wife and I saw the child's cramp and stiff body slowly softening, and my wife was crying. The doctor told me not to call the child's name and to keep quiet.

After emergency rescue, the child slowly woke up, and the doctor said that it was okay for the time being, so he could take his temperature and observe it for a while.

Soon, I went through the hospitalization formalities overnight.

The result of the later examination was: high fever spasm, which was caused by heredity.

Since then, my husband and wife have never taken it lightly again. They are afraid to prevent their children from getting sick and having a fever every day, because once their children have a high fever, their lives may be in danger!

Therefore, I can especially understand the feeling that Qiu's father said that he was "hit by a sap" after seeing the diagnosis of autism!

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Qiu's father said that on the day of diagnosis, he sat in the flower bed and felt that the sun was dazzling!

Yes! It's true, I've experienced this feeling!

Children are our sunshine. Now there are serious problems in children's health. How can this sunshine not be dazzling? !

Qiu's father said that he wanted to re-plan the rest of his life and learn many things again, such as teaching children to speak and write or not hurting themselves.

For us, how to take care of and care for such special children in the future has become a compulsory course in life.

It took them a long time to repeat it thousands of times before they taught the children to shout: Dad!

Autumn mother said, you never know, what will happen next second!

Children with autism are not deaf, but deaf to sound; They are not blind, but blind to everything around them; They are not dumb, but they don't know how to speak to express themselves!

Qiu's mother said that her children sometimes get angry. They will bump their heads and scratch their mothers' hair. When their mother feels pain, they will not let go!

Father and mother in autumn are very sad, sad and afraid. They are afraid that their children will never know that their parents love them.

The most painful thing for them is that their children have no emotional feedback to them.

Qiu's mother said that it was like a cold wall between them and their children!

Let's think about it. If there is a cold wall between us and our friends, colleagues and customers, what does it feel like?

And Qiu's father and Qiu's mother face flesh and blood relatives!

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People's fate is often not only unpredictable, but also ruthless!

20 1 1, one of Qiu's parents and children was diagnosed with leukemia!

This is the darkest moment in their lives!

Children don't cooperate with the treatment, often unplug blood vessels, and blood will suddenly flow out, making doctors and nurses covered in blood!

It was a day of despair for them.

Qiu's mother said that he thought he was going to lose his child!

I have experienced this despair.

It was the child's first year in kindergarten. Although we told the teacher that if the child's temperature was abnormal, he must contact us immediately, something happened that time.

That day, the teacher called and said that the child had a fever. My husband and wife hurried to the kindergarten, and the child's illness broke out when we arrived!

When he saw the child, he was already in a coma!

My wife asked me to call 120 as soon as I received the doctor's notice to save the child.

However, the ambulance came too slowly, so we decided to take the children to the nearest hospital by electric car!

This time, the child was saved again!

After the child opened his eyes, he finally cried!

The child's mother held the child's little face, and a series of tears fell on the child's chest!

This time, on the way to send my child to the hospital, I felt as desperate as my mother Qiu, feeling that I was going to lose my child!

Qiu's father and Qiu's mother are just like us. Although they experienced thousands of difficulties, they finally got through them!

Their child's leukemia is finally cured!

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Qiu's mother recalled her experience in treating leukemia for her children and mentioned bone marrow puncture.

We have experienced this unimaginable medical treatment!

This is the child's first seizure in the hospital. In order to rule out the possibility of encephalitis, it is necessary to carry out spinal puncture.

The child was sent to the puncture room that day, and the parents refused to let him in, so my husband and wife had to wait anxiously outside the door.

When the child's crying suddenly came from the room, the child's mother shouted the child's nickname on the door and burst into tears. ......

Our child has only had such a puncture, but this time, I feel as if my spine has been pierced!

That's really painful!

However, Qiu's mother's child needs a needle every month!

We have never seen that kind of special puncture needle. From the description of Qiu's mother, it's really creepy!

We play anesthetic, but Qiu's mother's children don't play anesthetic!

Poor Qiu Ge, the child, endured this inhuman physical torture! Autumn mother said that this really surprised her!

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Qiu's mother said that during the treatment of leukemia for his children, he ran between the rental house and the hospital every day, feeling that the moon at night was so bleak. How could God be so unfair to her?

When our children are in hospital, we feel the same way every day!

Like Qiu's mother, we thought of children who are willing to replace us!

Poverty inherits the wind!

Thank god! Thanks to those who have helped us!

Now, we are all alive!

Although it happened several times later, my husband and wife fought against fate again and again and pulled the children back from the brink of life and death again and again!

Now, the child has gone to primary school, and his body resistance is finally stronger!

Qiu's father and Qiu's mother's children are fourteen years old now!

We accompanied our children along the way and won their future and hope with the sense of mission as parents and the courage to fight against fate!

At the scene of the program, Qiu's mother spoke out the voices of parents all over the world.