No phone watch at school.

When the child asks this question,

What do parents and friends say?

A

"Then play for a while."

B

"Shall we go out to play?"

Face the child's request to play mobile phone

Different parents' different reactions

May be interested in children's behavior habits.

Have a completely different impact.

A

"Then play for a while."

Many parents have no time to accompany their children because of their work needs. Without their parents' company, mobile phones have become their spiritual sustenance.

Electronic products such as mobile phones have radiation, and long-term use will cause harm to human body, especially to eyes. Once a child uses a mobile phone for more than an hour every day, it will increase the risk of myopia. Moreover, if children get into the habit of playing mobile phones at home during holidays, it will be difficult for them to concentrate on their studies.

Therefore, in the face of children's requirements to play mobile phones, if parents are soft-hearted, they agree for a while but do not restrain them, which will not only easily lead to children's myopia, but also lead to a decline in children's performance and affect their future.

B

"Shall we go out to play?"

Sometimes children want to play mobile phones because they feel lonely and bored, or watching people around them play will produce a psychology of following the trend. If someone proposes to play with the children at this time, the children will feel concerned and their attention will shift from "wanting to play with the mobile phone" to "being accompanied".

Parents' timely response, keeping children away from mobile phones and taking them out for a walk can not only prevent children from playing mobile phone addiction, but also make them more knowledgeable. Children who grow up in such an environment will have a broader vision.

So what should parents do?

Only in this way can children use their mobile phones reasonably.

In fact, it is impossible to block it blindly.

It is the best policy to turn blocking into dredging.

The following four tricks, parents may wish to try.

1 Add "negative influence" to the mobile phone.

What if cell phones aren't that fun? What if playing mobile phone becomes a kind of homework? When children psychologically think that "playing mobile phone = doing homework", naturally they will not find playing mobile phone interesting.

2 Use with children.

Some studies have pointed out that when using electronic products, parents' high-quality companionship and communication, coupled with appropriate time management, can effectively avoid children's addiction to electronic products. Therefore, parents and friends can play their role and choose games or programs with beautiful picture quality, healthy plot and rich knowledge of life or science for their children. Watch and discuss with children to guide them to divergent thinking.

Three chapters on children's law

Practice has proved that the agreement in advance is more effective and easier to implement than the punishment afterwards. Parents and friends can "make three chapters" with their children: you can play games, but you must agree on the time and rules. Once you violate them, you will be liable for breach of contract. After reaching an agreement, what parents need to do is:

Clearly point out the behavior that children need to improve.

Goals should be specific, clear and easy to measure. For example, "You can't play mobile phone more than 1 hour every day, and you must play mobile phone after finishing your homework". It is necessary to clearly explain what the child can get by completing the agreement and what he will lose if he does not complete the agreement. In this process, you should say "yes" and say "no" less, for example, "If you complete the appointment, you can go to the movies".

The agreement should be written and posted in a conspicuous place at home.

When the child completes the agreement, even if it is a phased agreement, it should be encouraged in time; When the child fails to complete the agreement, the liability for breach of contract must also be absolutely borne. If the liability for breach of contract is not investigated, the agreement is completely non-binding.

Pay attention to the word "about"

In the process of reaching an agreement, we should try our best to absorb children's opinions and never turn the "agreement" into a one-way "order" from parents. At any time, if family education wants to achieve real success, it must be based on unconditional love, respect and trust for children.

4 Enrich children's holiday life

Parents should spend as much time with their children as possible, reading together, playing manual games or going out for sports. Take children to the suburbs to get close to nature on weekends, and replace electronic products with parent-child activities.

If it is not convenient to accompany children during working hours, you can also prepare some toys for children to play in groups and encourage them to invite other children to play together, which can not only dilute children's dependence on electronic products, but also exercise their social skills and cultivate their sense of cooperation.

About the problem of being addicted to mobile phones

A child of 12 years old passed the mind map.

A scheme of "anti-addiction mobile phone" is designed.

Parents and friends can recommend it to their children.

Make a suitable plan with your children.

In fact, in this semester that has ended, in order to actively promote the "double reduction" work, protect students' eyesight, and fully implement the spirit of the "Notice on Strengthening the Management of Mobile Phones for Primary and Secondary School Students" issued by the General Office of the Ministry of Education, many schools have carried out specific publicity and education and electronic product management in light of the actual situation.

No. 10 1 middle school

The dormitory is equipped with a mobile phone storage box and a charging box. At night, the storage box is full of all kinds of mobile phones, while the owner of the mobile phone is studying quietly in the room.

In addition, the boarding teacher has also formulated a "deduction" system. If students talk or play mobile phones during the evening self-study hours, they will be punished by "deducting points".

Primary school affiliated to Beijing Medical University

The school has formulated the "Notes on the Management and Preservation of Electronic Products for Students on Campus", calling on students not to bring electronic products such as mobile phones, telephone watches and tablet computers into the campus. If it is really necessary to bring mobile phones, telephone watches and other electronic products into the campus, parents must agree and apply in writing to explain the situation and keep them in a unified way after entering the school. Strict implementation of electronic products such as students' mobile phones shall not be brought into the classroom.

In order to ensure the implementation of mobile phone management, the school has established a unified storage system for students' mobile phones on campus. In case of emergency, students and parents can get in touch through the telephone of the class teacher or the school office. Two campuses of the school have set up "electronic equipment safe deposit boxes". Students set their own passwords, store them when they enter the school, and unlock them when they leave the school, so as to ensure that no teacher or student can touch or flip electronic products during school and protect students' personal privacy.

Promote the dangers of students' excessive use of electronic products through campus radio and exhibition boards, and publicize the slogan of prohibiting students from bringing mobile phones into school through electronic screens to create a good campus public opinion atmosphere.

North new area experimental school

The school psychology teacher led the students to analyze the psychological needs of relying on mobile phones, their functions, advantages and disadvantages, and the adverse consequences of relying on mobile phones, and sorted out and summarized how to do a good job in mobile phone management.

Relying on mobile phones to meet psychological needs

1. Get a sense of accomplishment and value

2. Get a sense of autonomy and control

Maintain interpersonal relationships

4. Get psychological nutrition

5. Courage to try and defeat

6. Channels for venting emotions

Advantages and disadvantages of mobile phone

Advantages: bring convenience to study and life; Promote social progress and development; Rich information, many access channels and wide coverage; Rich entertainment and leisure life.

Disadvantages: the quality of information covered is uneven; It is easy to make people dependent; Improper use will reduce the quality of study and life and be harmful to physical and mental health.

The adverse consequences of relying on mobile phones

1. Recreation

2. Affect sleep, memory and attention.

3. Delaying learning progress and efficiency

4. Reduce interpersonal skills in real society

5. Affect emotional stability and bring mental stress.

6. Affect health, such as vision and spine.

How to manage mobile phones well

1. Control the time of using entertainment and leisure applications.

2. Determine the information and channels that are suitable for you to obtain.

3. Purify your network interpersonal space.

4. Use mobile phone applications rationally to improve learning efficiency.

5. Improve self-control and restrain your behavior.

6. Seek the supervision of others, such as parents, teachers and friends.

7. Establish a self-monitoring model

I hope this winter vacation

Parents and friends can spend more time with their children.

Help students become the owners of mobile phones.

The benefits of rational use of mobile phones

Establish a self-disciplined behavior model

Don't wear glasses when you start school.

P.S. finally reminds everyone.

Tencent games announced the winter vacation in 2022.

Time limit for minors to play during the Spring Festival holiday

You can play 14 hours at most.

Parents and children should make an appointment.