A greeting for seven years of marriage

A message of blessing after seven years of marriage Part I: Feeling that seven years of marriage

Seven years is neither too long nor too short in a person's life. But seven years of marriage in a person's life can't be said to be short-lived. In the past seven years, we have been growing up with help, and we have been sad, noisy and angry. When we think about it carefully, we have been happy, happy and moved. Perhaps the following summary is not profound enough, but I want to share it with you.

First, learn to be "modest". Entering the palace of marriage, just like sesame's life, trivial things keep coming, which tests the endurance of both of us. If we endure everything, it will be calm and quiet, but if we all lose our temper, it will be as fierce as the flood. Therefore, to live a life, we must learn humility, and this humility is not just talk, but is confirmed by practical actions. Modesty in marriage is not a sign of weakness, but the most sincere sign of loving each other. You have been humble to me for seven years, and I will encourage you in the following days.

second, learn to respect. Zeng Guofan's family book mentions "cautious independence, respect, benevolence, and hard work", and marriage is the same. Respect is strong, but it is quiet and unified. Marriage is not for one person to adapt or change each other. Marriage is for two independent people to live together with tacit understanding and freedom, and to respect each other and learn from each other's strengths. Only in this way can marriage be managed for a long time. Fortunately, you are not dissatisfied with my appearance, figure and habits, so I just pay lip service to losing weight.

third, learn to "like". Learning to praise can make the relationship between husband and wife particularly harmonious, because people are willing to accept praise psychologically. Please satisfy my little vanity, and sometimes I feel naive. Let's put this down to the little girl's

longing for love. See my subtle changes, observe the detailed changes I have made for you and praise them, and affirm my efforts, so that I will feel that everything is worth it. Of course, we should criticize what is wrong, but don't use the tone of accusation. We should also pay attention to ways and means for good wishes.

These seven years are hard to come by. They are full of hardships all the way, accumulated a feeling of gratitude and flowed with the warmth of a lifetime. Because without you, there would be no marriage and no happy life. Today is the seventh anniversary of our marriage, so I want to say thank you to my lover who has been married for seven years with a grateful heart! Thank you for holding me into the marriage hall and having a home that belongs to us; Thank you, let me have a lovely and sensible daughter-the continuation of our lives, which is the most indispensable thing in the family; Thank you, we helped our peers along the way and tasted the ups and downs of life. You didn't leave me, and I didn't leave you, no matter the hardships; Thank you for sharing weal and woe with me. In these seven years, only I know how much suffering you have suffered for our small family and how much responsibility you should have assumed as a daughter, wife and mother; Only you will not dislike my willfulness, stubbornness, importunate and unreasonable, because you love you and I love me; Thank you, for the happiness of our family, hard work, silent dedication, and no regrets! Thank you ... Seven years of marriage is slowly moving towards simplicity and plainness. As long as we always have the same persistence in our hearts eight years ago, I hope our marriage will be equally happy in the next seven, twenty-seven and thirty-seven years! Chapter two: written in the seventh year of marriage

The eighth day of November of the lunar calendar in 211 is my seventh wedding anniversary.

seven years ago, my husband and I got married in the rain. Today, it also started to rain lightly. God seems to deliberately remind me of this day. Since we got married, our anniversaries have been spent in oblivion. Only this year, I thought, my husband thought, because it was seven years, or because we all had some thoughts in our hearts, perhaps because of providence-so I had an idea to write a paragraph to commemorate our seven years of marriage.

on that day seven years ago, we were in the rain, listening to the blessing of the witness, and our cheeks were full of pure sweetness. We have never thought about the difficulties in the future, whether we will quarrel over trivial matters, whether we have differences in our lives, whether our parents are healthy, how we will get along with our elders, what kind of children we will have in the future and the future of our children, whether we will have a car, whether we will have a decent life ... All we care about is whether we love each other deeply.

seven years later, I want to say: getting married is the real beginning of two people. I don't know when (ha, there is no historical record), they no longer hide anything from each other, and they are used to showing their bad habits to each other without stint, and slowly and quietly taking back their good conduct. What's interesting is that my heart thinks that only in this way can I be worthy of him and my heart. He gradually became my punching bag, the object of my venting, and we began to think that we knew it well. We began to be cynical, and I became a nagging woman, and in an instant I would become an angry tigress (now, think ridiculous).

things are still going on. today, I find that we have all changed again. There seems to be a lot less waste gas in my heart, but there are more real things in it, such as how to educate children, how to make their bodies and minds healthy, how to protect themselves, how to arrange three meals a day, how to make the atmosphere at home harmonious ... We began to trust each other again, give each other a space of our own, improve our homework, and we also began to exchange some views, as if this was a real beginning. Article 3: A man who has been married for seven years sums up 36 articles < P > A man who has been married for seven years sums up 36 articles

1. To gain mutual trust, we must make each other's whereabouts, friends and colleagues transparent and generous. (We all do well)

2. In front of the woman you love, the meaner the happier!

3. After quarreling, you can swap roles and repeat what you quarreled just now, so as to make sure that you are laughing! (I think this one is very useful, haha, try it next time)

4. Always wear your wedding ring on your left ring finger after marriage! Wearing a wedding ring clearly shows your marital status, and also clearly shows your firm attitude of rejecting foreign temptations.

5. When two people go out for dinner together, they can share their favorite dishes with each other if they are embarrassed to share them too many times.

6, often attend the other half's friends' meeting. This can expand the social circle, and also increase many topics of common interest.

7. Always talk about the other half when you are alone.

8. From a long time ago, "we" appeared more often than "I" in conversation.

9. No matter how busy a man is at work, he has to take on some housework, which is a responsibility to his family. Like me, I am responsible for washing dishes, washing clothes, taking out garbage, locking doors and taking newspapers, and there are many temporary tasks, the most temporary task is to find things. Many people hate washing dishes, but I especially like washing dishes. It's a sense of accomplishment to watch a pile of greasy dirty bowls being washed away gradually.

1. Quietly help her change the direction of her slippers when she is taking a shower, and help her squeeze toothpaste and pour mouthwash when brushing her teeth. Although it is a little effort in daily life, it can always make her feel warm and caring.

11. When chatting with colleagues and friends (especially the opposite sex), you should always talk about the other half, and personally experience that it can be insulated from peach blossoms.

12. If you have time, you might as well take part in the other half's work, such as helping to find information on the Internet and sorting things out. On the one hand, two people can cooperate to do something, on the other hand, knowing the other half's work can increase many topics.

13. There is no need for privacy between husband and wife! Our e-mail and Ali Wangwang's password are known to each other. Sometimes it is convenient to send and receive e-mails, and mobile phones are often borrowed from each other. My heart is open, what can't I tell the other party?

14. The co-pilot seat is the wife's exclusive seat. Unless the wife approves, other members of the opposite sex can only sit in the back row.

15. Chatting with friends leads to the conclusion that women like to make many rules at home. For example, what is the responsibility of each towel; Be sure to wipe off the water after taking a shower; Be sure to cover the toilet lid after going to the toilet. . . Once it is not complied with,

will say, "How many times have I told you? ! Why XXX? "

16. As a man, you should have such consciousness. If the arrangement changes, for example, you have to work overtime or have a temporary appointment, you must call to report it.

17. If there are any interesting conversations or things between two people, you might as well record them. Over time, turn them out every six months or one year to watch them together and relive the happy moments. It's fun.

18. I listened to the radio when I was stuck in the north-south elevated road yesterday. The topic was apology. A listener wrote that every time she got angry, her husband pretended to be unwell, which made her ill, and then her husband apologized and her anger subsided. I couldn't help laughing. I've done this kind of thing before, and it worked. But you can't use it more.

19. Women who are still single should not complain about why they can't always find a mature and considerate man. Men should be trained. There may be men who are naturally considerate, responsible and considerate, but that is very rare, and the chances of being found by you are very small. Most men, like me, are short of brains. It was taught by my wife from the time she was in love. Therefore, you may wish to broaden your horizons and find a material that can be made to start training.

2. I have been misled by TV and movies since I was a child. I feel that if the hero fails in his career, it is a very responsible and self-sacrificing performance to break up reluctantly for fear of delaying the outstanding heroine. Wrong! Wrong! Wrong! It is selfish to sacrifice love for your career. Isn't it clearly written in the wedding vows? No matter whether you are rich or poor, whether you are sick or healthy, you must be together, so that your feelings can stand the test. If you really succeed in your career, will the person who likes you love you or your wealth and status?

21. Sometimes when chatting, I did something for her, and she said, "Thank you, dear." I immediately became alert and suspected that my wife's account had been stolen. I immediately asked, "Are you really XX?" The wife suddenly became angry: "Get out!" I'm relieved.

22. Be a woman with a life style. The mood of life is not just dressing up, but lighting incense at home. Is to be able to constantly discover new pleasures in life and share and infect people around you. My wife can always find the pleasures in life, such as new good restaurants and cafes, flower arrangement, decoration, travel, finding good books and meeting new friends. Keep our life fresh all the time.

23. It is a good habit to kiss my wife goodbye before going out to work every day (I used to go out earlier than her, but now she goes out earlier than me).

24. Introduce a small game that two people can play. Just a pen and a piece of paper. Take turns to draw something and let the other person guess what it is, but explain the scope of the guessed thing, whether it is an idiom, a person's name, a place name, or an event. Don't worry about your poor drawing level, which has nothing to do with drawing level, but with associative ability. It's fun to play when you are bored (by train or by plane, or at home at ordinary times)! (we can't play this, our painting level is too poor, hahaha)

25. Men should not think that silence is cool, but it is better for two people to communicate more together. Don't keep it in your stomach if you have any thoughts or opinions about the other party. The other party will know when you say it, and then you will have a chance to improve. A sulking life will only get angrier and angrier, and it will not help to solve the problem to look at the other person's unconscious appearance.

26. Falling in love, including marriage, takes a long time to get used to it. From living habits to temperament and way of doing things, it needs to be adjusted slowly. This running-in process will be accompanied by countless quarrels and tears, but as the process goes on, the distress will become less and less, and the happiness will become stronger and stronger. We have been in love for three years, married for seven years, and the first seven years may be considered as a running-in period. Until now, there is still a little friction occasionally, but the overall feeling is very happy. Therefore, in love and marriage, as long as it's not a big problem of principle, don't break up easily with minor quarrels, you must be patient, and good days are yet to come! Speaking of quarrels before, it was often late at night, because the lights were turned off, and in the dark, the spirit would concentrate on what had just happened. But I'm a person who falls asleep easily when I touch a pillow. It's often when my wife is angry and settling accounts with me that she suddenly hears my sweet snoring coming from the side. That's called anger! She would lean into my ear and shout, "Go to sleep!" (This is very similar to us, hahaha ~ I'm still angry often, and when I wait for him to coax me, I hear people snoring soundly, which is quite depressing)

27. Introduce a way for men to apologize. I made a mistake before, and I only said "I'm sorry", "I was wrong" and "forgive me" repeatedly. My wife is very dissatisfied. Later, she taught me to apologize in three steps: the first step is to state the facts, what mistakes I made today; The second step is to explain why you made this mistake; The third step, corrective measures, what measures will be taken in the future to ensure that the same mistake will not be made again. The experiment has been done many times and the effect is good.

28. I remember seeing a foreign survey before, and one of the most important family responsibilities that a wife wants her husband to undertake is "check the strange sounds coming from home at night". I feel the same way.

29. The most precious thing between husband and wife is trust. It is not an exaggeration to say that trust is a "treasure of the town". Once one party has betrayed, even if the other party forgives and makes up later, the trust will be greatly reduced. Suspicion, anxiety and paranoia will begin to appear between two people. To gain each other's trust, we must not play ambiguous, disappear, and make each other's whereabouts, friends and colleagues transparent. (We are all doing well)

3. Look at things optimistically, and be normal when encountering unlucky things. When my mobile phone was stolen, I thought I just needed to change my mobile phone. If the wallet is stolen, I want to break the money and eliminate the disaster; When I caught a cold, I thought I could rest for two days. When you encounter traffic jams, you can just think about your heart, listen to the radio, and scold the DJ; When the company closed down and was laid off, I thought I could finally start a business and do what I like. If you don't start a business smoothly, you think that the previous 3 years have been too smooth, and the life with a little ups and downs is wonderful. The happiness of children depends on the happiness of parents. For the sake of children, the two should also strive to create a happy family!

31. I like two people to take a short trip by car, because on the road, in a closed space, they won't watch TV and do housework, so they will naturally start chatting. Nothing to talk about? There is a lot to talk about just what you see on the road. Novice drivers on the road, strange license plate numbers,