How to do comprehensive study in the third grade of junior high school. How to explain various types of questions and how to think about them.

Collection of 2012 High School Entrance Examination Chinese Language Comprehensive Learning Test Questions (including answers)

Third Year Chinese Language Group of Eight Middle Schools

1. Comprehensive Learning (6 points) )

As an important means of modern communication, mobile phones have increasingly entered into the lives of ordinary people, and have gradually become a necessity for people to communicate with each other and exchange information. Mobile phones have also quietly entered campuses and become a favorite among middle school students. According to surveys, 60-70% of middle school students currently wear mobile phones, and more than 80% of middle school students advocate bringing mobile phones. So, whether middle school students should bring mobile phones to campus has become a question that we teenagers should think deeply about. In response to this phenomenon, the third grade (1) class of a certain middle school held a theme class meeting. Please complete the following tasks:

1. In order to give students a clear understanding of whether they can bring mobile phones to campus, please read the following two materials and summarize the information you extracted in one sentence. (2 points)

Materials Survey and statistics on mobile phone usage among 150 middle school students in a certain middle school

Purpose

Playing games

Listening to music

Compare

Send text messages

Chat

Easy to communicate with parents

Ask classmates

Proportion of homework

38%

20%

39%

2%

1%

Material 2

It is understood that a middle school in Beijing once conducted a survey: when students sent and received Among mobile phone text messages, 70% are information that has nothing to do with normal study and life, and more than 10% are pornographic text messages. Some students even regard forwarding "pornographic jokes" to each other as a fashion. Comparison among students is common. Every time after school or after school, some students will gather together to "compete" with each other on the styles and functions of mobile phones. There are more and more mobile phones on campus, and the quality is getting higher and higher, which can easily cause psychological imbalance for students who do not have mobile phones. At this year’s National People’s Congress meeting, Representative Ren Meiqin, a deputy to the National People’s Congress and vice-principal of the Municipal Foreign Languages ??School, suggested that the country should formulate relevant policies and regulations to prohibit students in compulsory education from bringing mobile phones into campus.

The information you extracted:

2. According to statistics, more than 80% of teachers and parents believe that middle school students should not bring mobile phones into campus. In response to this situation, please express your opinion based on reality (within 50 words). (2 points)

What are your opinions:

3. In order to solve the many problems that arise when students bring mobile phones to campus, students have worked out several solutions after discussions. Could you please Find two inappropriate items and fill in the numbers in brackets. (2 points)

① For all students who bring their own mobile phones, parents must sign to prove that it is indeed for special reasons for contact and communication between parents and children.

② Educate students that when they go out to play or encounter danger in other places, they can seek help from their parents, teachers or the police in time without bringing their mobile phones.

③ Guide students to use mobile phones correctly. Mobile phones are not used to show off or show off. Tell students how to use mobile phones.

④ Tell students that there is an alarm clock device inside the mobile phone, which can be used when getting up in the morning.

You find two inappropriate ones:

2. Comprehensive learning (5 points)

In order to guide students to have a deeper understanding of the value of life Thinking and understanding, the school is preparing to carry out comprehensive learning activities with the theme of "Cherishing Life".

4. The students have drafted the following topics. The one you think is not suitable as a topic is ( )

A. Cherishing life and protecting the environment B. Cherishing life and bionics Technology

C Cherish life and stay away from drugs D Cherish life and act bravely

5. If the title of your group's comprehensive study report is "Cherishing life requires wisdom", you will choose the following Which material and why?

[A] Tai Lihua was physically disabled but strong-willed. In order to realize her dream, she and her companions overcame many difficulties. After hard training, she finally dedicated the wonderful "Thousand-Hand Guanyin" to people.

[B] 22-year-old Le Liuhui was trapped in the earthquake ruins and calmly waited for rescue. When she couldn't hear any sound, she would breathe calmly to conserve her strength; when she heard someone passing by, she would shout for help. After being trapped for more than 70 hours, she was finally rescued.

Choose materials: Reason:

3. Comprehensive learning

6. During the Chinese practice activity of "I Love Literature", students went to the library , the reading room selected literary books and periodicals for extensive reading. Now the Chinese teacher asks you to plan a class exchange and evaluation activity on "I Love Literature". What theme do you plan to use for the activity? What activity plan have you prepared?

7. Many students believe that only mathematics, physics and chemistry are important in contemporary society, and it does not matter whether they study Chinese, history or other subjects. In response to this situation, Class 4 of the third grade of junior high school launched a fierce debate. The main debater discussed the argument with the argument that "reason (mathematics, physics and chemistry) can travel all over the world".

① If you are the main arguer of the opposing side, your established point of view should be:

② Please write two reasons for your point of view.

8. Many creative advertisements make clever use of the characteristics of Chinese characters, making them unforgettable and achieving extraordinary publicity effects.

There is an advertisement promoting "stinky tofu": it is notorious and the fragrance spreads thousands of miles.

① Please explain the meaning of the word "stinky" in "notorious".

②Please tell us what is so wonderful about this advertisement?

9. Life is a textbook. Small things in life, such as customs during festivals and eating and dressing habits, all contain rich cultural connotations. Please complete the following interview questions based on your usual observations and thinking.

(1) Summarize the customs and implications of a certain traditional festival in one sentence.

(2) In recent years, foreign festivals such as Christmas, April Fool's Day, and Valentine's Day have become very popular, and their popularity sometimes even exceeds our traditional festivals. What do you think about this? Please briefly explain your views.

10． In modern society, surfing the Internet has become an important part of life. Many people have a novel and unique online name, such as "Dream Chasing Boy", "Happy Piggy", "Poetry Swallow", "Sleeping Lion", "Drunk and Burning the Light to Watch the Sword" and so on. These online names either convey ideals or highlight individuality. They are vivid, easy to understand and easy to remember, making them unforgettable.

Please design a Chinese Internet name for yourself with personal characteristics and positive meaning (no less than four characters), and write the reason for your name below.

My online name:

Reason for naming:

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11. The following text is excerpted from Andersen's fairy tale "The Daughter of the Sea". Please read it and then complete questions (1) to (4).

①At this time, all the servants danced lightly to the beautiful music. ②So, the little mermaid stretched out her white and delicate hands, touched the ground with her toes, and danced softly and gracefully on the floor... ③People were applauding her; cheering for her, and constantly praising her dance.

④ She danced more gracefully than ever before. When her toes touched the floor, it was like stepping on the tip of a sharp knife. She felt no pain.

(1) In sentence ①, the punctuated word "和" is pronounced as: .

(2) In sentence ②, there is a typo, it is: , it should be changed to: .

(3) In sentence ④, fill in the words underlined in the text in order. The most appropriate one is

A. Because therefore B. Although but C． Unless Cai Cai

(4) After reading this beautiful text, you will definitely think of the many Chinese and foreign literary masterpieces you have read. Please choose one from the list of famous books provided below, and follow the requirements Fill out the reading information card.

Bibliography: "Biography of Celebrities", "Gulliver's Travels", "Water Margin", "Stars Spring Water"

Reading Information Card

Works

< p>Author

Main content

Note: The "main content" should be about 30 words.

12. I believe you will gain a lot after studying the two topics "Bird" and "Advertising Prism". Please use relevant knowledge to complete the tasks below.

(1) Fill in the blanks with a Tang poem that fits the context.

If we do not take measures to protect birds, it may lead to "thousands of birds flying out of the mountains"; if we all act as bird guardians, the motherland will "".

(2) Please comment on the following advertisement in concise language.

Although it is a rudimentary skill, it is all about hard work. (Barber shop advertising couplet)

Comments:

(3) Please draft a public service advertisement to promote the protection of birds. (No more than 20 words)

13. Read the following materials and complete the questions that follow.

Material 1: The word "scandal" can often be seen in various media. ① Many people and even some famous radio and television program hosts pronounce "fei" as "fěi". In fact, the word "fei" The correct pronunciation is "fēi"

Material 2: ② Someone conducted a survey on a class of sophomores in a middle school. The results are as follows: There were ***45 people in the class, 39 of whom thought that "scandal" was Six people think "Fei" is pronounced "fěi"; the former also thinks that "Fei" is a polyphonic character, so it should be read "fěi" in "绯文" and "fēi" in "绯红".

Material 3: The survey results also show that ③ students’ knowledge of “scandal” comes from watching entertainment programs on TV, the Internet and radio, while the word “scarlet” is acquired through formal classroom learning of.

Material 4: In some news reports, the word "scandal" is often mistakenly written as "slander". For example, "④ He was sentenced to 3,000 yuan for fabricating slander about his colleagues." (Note: "slander" is pronounced as "fěi", which means to speak ill of others.)

⑴ From the second material, you can get What is the conclusion?

⑵ Based on the above materials, how many reasons do you think there are for mispronunciation of the word "绯"?

⑶What measures do you think should be taken to correct this error?

⑷There are two grammatical errors in the underlined sentences in the above materials. Please point out the error numbers and correct them.

14. Please participate in learning activities related to traditional culture and complete the following questions.

(1) Fill in the corresponding holiday name based on the information provided.

①On the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, there is a custom of respecting the elderly and climbing high.

②On the second Sunday of May in the Gregorian calendar, carnations are used to express gratitude.

(2) Please answer the following questions based on the survey results shown in the table below.

Statistical table of recognition survey results

Project objects

Recognition

Happiness

Result Festival< /p>

Old people

Middle-aged people

Young people

Old people

Middle-aged people

Youth

Spring Festival

High

High

Middle

High

< p>Medium

Low

Christmas

Low

Medium

High

Low

Medium

High

① Please briefly summarize young people’s recognition of traditional Chinese festivals and “foreign” festivals (no more than 25 words). )

②What do you think is the reason for this phenomenon? Please share your opinion.

③ Combined with "related links", put forward your suggestions on how to "defend" traditional festivals.

A youth research institute conducted a survey on "people you respect" among high school students in Japan, the United States and mainland China. The following is a statistical table of the survey results. (The blank space has been deleted)

Ranking of survey subjects

1,303 students from 15 high schools in Japan

1,051 students from 13 high schools in the United States

< p>2201 students from 22 high schools in China

First place

Father

Father

Second place

< p>Mother

Third place

Mother

Tenth place

Mother

Eleventh place

Father

15. Express the above survey and statistical results in words.

(1) Japan:

(2) United States:

(3) China:

16. Statistics from this survey What problems did you find in the table?

17. Please write a suggestion regarding the problems existing in the survey.

18. In order to strengthen the communication between children and parents, the class committee decided to hold two activities.

(1) Invite parents and students to participate in a symposium on "Communication Starts from the Heart". If you are the host, please design an opening statement of no more than 60 words for this symposium.

(2) Create a publication. The publication has designed columns such as "Growth Road" and "Inch of Grass Heart". Please come up with an appropriate title for this publication, and then draft a new title for the publication. Two new columns. (Each column name should not exceed 6 characters,)

(1)

(2)

19. The school held the "Putonghua Promotion Week", The students actively participated in this activity.

(1) Please design an infectious slogan for this event.

(2) Please make a creative suggestion to the class teacher on how to promote Mandarin in school.

(3) Sometimes, teachers use dialects in class. A reporter from the school newspaper asked you to share your views on the promotion of Mandarin in light of this phenomenon. You said:

4. Comprehensive sexual learning.

20. Nowadays, more and more urbanites are taking advantage of weekends and long festival holidays to drive into surrounding villages, live in farmhouses, eat farmhouse meals, enjoy the pastoral scenery, and appreciate folk culture. “Travel is extremely popular. I heard from a friend that he had a great time at the "Farmhouse" during the May Day holiday. I asked him what he had played, and he introduced a few: one was "swinging" on the tree trunk, the other was shooting birds with a slingshot in the forest, and the third was catching frogs in the river. There are also some people who show off their wealth in "farmhouses", litter, gamble and drink alcohol, etc. It can be seen that at present, "farmhouse" tourism still needs to be guided and standardized.

⑴. Please say a decent word to uncivilized tourists.

⑵. In order to protect the environment and enhance civilized exchanges between urban and rural areas, please design a promotional slogan for the "Farmhouse" reception party.

⑶. Please write a recommendation text for the village you are familiar with to attract tourists to come for vacation. The content may include landscapes, rural scenery, folk customs, food culture, or special travel arrangements, etc.

5. Comprehensive learning.

21. Since 2008, the State Council has stipulated that the Tomb-Sweeping Festival, Dragon Boat Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival each have one day off each year. This move has caused great repercussions across the country. Before the regulations were released, a public opinion polling agency conducted a survey on "Do you prefer traditional Chinese programs such as Tomb Sweeping Day, Dragon Boat Festival, and Mid-Autumn Festival, or Western programs such as Valentine's Day, April Fool's Day, and Christmas?" Below are the statistics from the survey.

Survey objects

Survey items

Middle-aged and elderly people

Adolescents

Urban residents

Rural residents

Urban residents

Rural residents

Prefer Chinese festivals

Traditional festivals

73.8%

95.5%

58.3%

70.1%

Prefer Western festivals

Western festivals

26.2%

4.5%

41.7%

29.9%

(1) Draw the conclusion based on the above table: ( 2 points)

(2) What is your attitude and reasons for the measures taken by the State Council: (2 points)

6. Comprehensive learning.

22. A certain class held a comprehensive learning activity of "Entering the World of Literature". The students encountered some problems during the activities. Can you help them solve their problems? Please follow the prompts to complete questions ①-③.

①.During the activity, some students made some mistakes in pronunciation and writing. Please help correct them. (4 points)

(1) A classmate’s opening statement was "To Literature", and he read two words wrong: (2 points)

You (referring to literature) are the vastness The earth of (máo) is the vast sky; you are the mountains, the rivers, seas and lakes (bó). You use colorful words to describe all the wonderful scenes that may exist in the world. ...

"夤" should be pronounced as "褤" should be pronounced as "袁"

(2) A classmate excerpted a famous quote, and he wrote two words wrong: (2 points)

The most precious thing for people is life. Life is only once for everyone. A person's life should be spent like this: when he looks back on the past, he will not regret for wasting his years, nor will he feel ashamed for doing nothing... (from "How Steel Was Tempered")

The word should be changed to the word The word should be changed to the word

②. A classmate was moved by the characters in the classic and wrote a couplet. Please write down the names of the characters involved in the couplet. (2 points)

First couplet: Fighting the storms of fate, giants compose heroic music. (Person's name: )

Second line: Fighting evil demons, the great sage retrieves the Western Scripture. (Name: )

③. A classmate read an ancient poem and was given two exercises. Please complete them.

(4 points)

Fisherman Ao Fan Zhongyan

Autumn comes and the scenery is strange. Hengyang geese leave without paying attention. There are sounds from all directions. Thousands of miles away, long smoke sets and the sun sets. The lonely city is closed. .

A cup of turbid wine can lead to a home thousands of miles away. The swallows have no plan to return before they are reined in, and the Qiang pipes are covered with frost all over the ground. When a man is sleepless, the general's hair turns gray and his husband weeps.

(1) The following understanding of this word is inappropriate: ( )

A. The word "different" in "The scenery in autumn is different under the fortress" indicates that the autumn scenery in the frontier fortress is different from that in the Jiangnan area.

B． The "Qianzhang" in "Qianzhangli" refers to many peaks juxtaposed like barriers.

C． "A cup of turbid wine can lead to a home thousands of miles away" vividly describes the homesickness of the soldiers guarding the border.

D. "The Qiang pipes are long and frosty all over the ground" writes that although the border is cold, there are Qiang pipes playing and life is not difficult.

(2) What kind of feelings do the soldiers express in "When a man is sleepless, the general's hair is white and his husband is in tears"?

7. Comprehensive learning.

23. Research questions (2 points)

Read the following material. What did you discover from it? Write down the results of your inquiry (just write down a little of your inquiry results, no points will be awarded for writing more).

A wolf was full and lay comfortably on the grass to sleep. Another wolf ran panting from a distance. This surprised the lying wolf. It asked: "Are you chasing the antelope?" "No!" "Is someone chasing you?" "No!" "Then why are you running desperately?" said the wolf. : "I heard that the lion is coming."

"The lion is coming?" After hearing this, it felt relieved, "The lion is our friend, what is there to be afraid of? Just run away." Come on, I’m going to sleep.”

Later, the lion really came. Due to its arrival, the antelopes on the entire grassland ran extremely fast. The wolf could no longer get food so easily and soon starved to death. Before he died, he couldn't help feeling resentful, thinking that the lion had ruined his peaceful life.

8. Comprehensive learning.

24. Read the following materials. What did you find out from them? Please write down the results of your inquiry. (2 points)

On a small island, there lived an old fisherman and his wife. One autumn, a group of swans came to the island. They flew from the far north and were preparing to spend the winter in the south. The old couple was very happy to see the group of swans, so they took out chicken feed and fish and shrimps to entertain them. Winter has come, but these swans have not continued flying south at all. When the lake is frozen, the old couple opens the doors of their huts to let them warm themselves in the house and gives them food. This care continues until spring comes and the lake thaws. Day after day, year after year, every winter, this old couple dedicated their love like this. One year, they grew old and left the island, and the swans disappeared. However, instead of flying south, they starved to death when the lake froze the next year.

2012 High School Entrance Examination Chinese Comprehensive Study Questions Collection (Reference Answers)

Third Year Chinese Language Group of Eight Middle Schools

Reference Answers:

< p>1. The inappropriate use of mobile phones by middle school students has attracted social attention, and it is generally believed that middle school students should be prohibited from bringing mobile phones into campus. (As long as you are correct)

2. I agree with the opinions of teachers and parents. After students bring mobile phones to campus, they are not interested in class or are often distracted during class, which will have a negative impact on learning. (As long as the meaning is correct)

3. ②③ 4. (omitted) 5. (omitted)

6. Example: Introduce you to my favorite literary works; the impact of reading excellent literary works on me

①Each group selects 2 to 3 representatives to prepare for class exchange and evaluation activities. ② Under the guidance of the teacher, set up a Chinese theme activity group. Arrange event hosts, stipulate the order of communication, and determine event judges. ③Communication between representatives of each group ④The moderator announces the results based on the judges' opinions. ⑤The Chinese teacher or host will summarize the activity.

7. ① Without "Literature (Chinese, History and other liberal arts subjects) it is difficult to move forward".

(The meaning is correct and concise)

② First, Chinese is a tool. Only by learning Chinese well can you enhance your understanding and lay a solid foundation for learning other subjects; secondly, learn literature and history well and be familiar with ancient and modern times, which will help To clarify the ins and outs of things. (Just have similar meanings and highlight the importance of language)

8. ① "stinky" refers to "stinky tofu". ② Use puns and comparisons to highlight the reputation and smell of "stinky tofu". In addition, it also uses the method of contradiction to attract attention. (As long as the meaning is similar)

9. (1) It is required to point out the name of the festival and the corresponding customs, and tell its meaning. Answer example: Tomb-sweeping during the Qingming Festival expresses condolences for deceased relatives. Eating mooncakes during the Mid-Autumn Festival symbolizes reunion. (2) Just have your own opinions, make sense, and speak fluently.

10． There is no unified answer, as long as the online name and reason for the name meet the requirements of the question. Example 1: Internet name "Konggu Orchid" Reason I particularly like the orchid, which is respected as the "gentleman among flowers". I want to learn from its extraordinary, independent, elegant and pure character, so I named it "Konggu Orchid". Example 2: Internet name Football Boy Reason: I love football. My dream is to become an excellent football player and make my own contribution to the football industry in our country, so I named myself "Football Boy".

11. (1) hé (2) On tiptoe (2 points) (3) B

(4) "Biography of Celebrities" Romain Rolland's book describes the suffering and ups and downs of Beethoven and other artists, and praises them. These heroes with great hearts. "Gulliver's Travels" Swift's book narrates the protagonist Gulliver's experience of living in Lilliput and other places, and satirizes various ugly phenomena in society at that time. "Water Margin" Shi Naian's book describes the process of the peasant uprising led by Song Jiang in the late Northern Song Dynasty, and expresses the theme of "officials forcing the people to rebel". "Stars·Spring Water" Bing Xin's book uses short and rich poems to sing the praises of maternal love, innocence and beautiful nature.

12. (1) I hear birds singing everywhere (other Tang poems that fit the context are also acceptable)

(2) Answer points: semantic puns, "Hao Mo" and "Ding Shang" are cleverly linked to "haircut"; also express The barbers at this shop are very skilled (top, best).

3) Answer example: Protecting birds is to protect humans themselves!

Give birds a forest and nature will be full of vitality.

We should communicate spiritually with the birds and maintain our lives.

13.⑴ Most students pronounce "绯" in "簯" as "fěi" and think that "绯" is a polyphonic word.

⑵① Affected by misunderstandings by most people and the media. ②Affected by the meaning and pronunciation of "defamation".

⑶① Pay attention to the integration of Chinese language learning inside and outside the classroom, and the integration of books and practice. ② Improve the Chinese literacy of media practitioners through various channels.

⑷③Add “listen” after “watch”. ④Add "compensation" or "penalty" after "judgment".

14. (1) Double Ninth Festival and Mother’s Day

(2) ①Answer: “I identify more with ‘foreign’ festivals than traditional Chinese festivals” (or: prefer “ "Foreign" festivals); or "high identification with 'foreign' festivals and low identification with Chinese traditional festivals".

②Answer Examples "Foreign" festivals are more novel, lively and fresh than traditional festivals, and are in line with young people's curiosity and novelty. Or: "foreign" festivals with a high sense of identity have a strong flavor of life and humanistic colors, which are in line with people's emotional needs and spiritual pursuits. (It is enough to be able to express your own opinions, make sense, and use concise and smooth language.)

③Answer examples: Strengthen the publicity of the protection of traditional festivals, raise awareness, and enhance protection awareness. Or: Increase government protection and support, and include some important and influential traditional festivals into the "World Heritage application" process as soon as possible. Or: further strengthen international cultural exchanges and expand the international influence and identity of Chinese traditional festivals. Or: To protect traditional festivals, we must also establish brand awareness, and we can carefully create a number of well-known festivals. Or: We should adhere to the principle of equal emphasis on inheritance, protection, transformation and innovation, and explore the cultural connotation of traditional festivals to make them more life-oriented and humanistic.

(Have your own opinions, make sense, and use concise and smooth language)

15. (1) Japan: Father is first and mother is second; (2) United States: Father is first and mother is third;

(3) China: Mother is tenth and father is eleventh

16. Chinese students respect their parents far less than those in Japan and the United States.

17. (Just answer one of the following) (1) The whole society should strengthen the education of loving parents for students; (2) Parents should pay attention to the methods and methods of educating their children; (3) Students should understand their parents and communicate more with them.

18. (1) Example: Hello everyone! Welcome to today’s symposium. Many times. We blame each other and create distance between parents and children. Today, let us open our hearts and have a spiritual communication. (This title is open-ended, as long as the title is appropriate, has a welcome word, can explain the purpose of the symposium, and is concise and appropriate) (2) Examples of publication titles: "Bridge of the Heart", "Communication", " "Heart Sound"; column examples: "Lickling Love", "My Heart, Your Heart". (This question is open-ended. No points will be awarded for plagiarizing the title of the magazine or column from the examples in the question.)

19. ① For example: Mandarin is our bridge of communication ② Make more use of the influence of radio and television ;Carry out more competition activities;... ③It is not suitable to use dialect teaching in class, otherwise it will not be conducive to the promotion of Mandarin.

20. ⑴. Example: This beautiful and harmonious pure land needs your careful care. (Just be decent)

⑵. Example ①: Leave the urban civilization behind and take away the happiness of the farm family.

Example 2: "Farmhouse music", happy farmhouse. (Requires clear content and clear expression)

⑶. Requirements: The recommended content must be specific and the characteristics must be distinctive; the language expression must be literary.

21. ① In our country, middle-aged and elderly people like to celebrate traditional Chinese festivals more than teenagers.

②In our country, urban teenagers like to celebrate Western festivals more than rural teenagers.

Attitude: Agree

Reasons: ① It is conducive to promoting Chinese traditional culture; ② It is conducive to cultivating family ties;

③ It is conducive to building a harmonious society; ④ It is conducive to Enrich people's lives.

22. ①. (1) "夤" is pronounced as mào and "波" is pronounced as pō) (2) The word "宝" is changed to "宝" and the word "loss" is changed to "kui" (each 1 points, ***4 points) ②. Beethoven and Sun Wukong (1 point each, ***2 points)

③. (1) D (2) Expressing the unrealized aspirations and homesickness of the soldiers Feelings of concern for the country. (It just makes sense)

23. ○1 If you are born in peace and happiness and cannot discover the potential challenges in a seemingly ordinary and comfortable life, you will inevitably be surrounded by dangers. ○2 Be prepared for danger in times of peace and never slack off. You will surely win the competition and become the leader of the times. ○3 Life cannot adapt to people all the time, but people must learn to adapt to life all the time.

24. When faced with other people’s difficulties, don’t rush to offer love, but rather encourage them to bravely accept difficult challenges.