Noble families have gone away, who is elegant and interesting?

Noble families have gone away, who is elegant and interesting?

In Mencius, an aristocratic family refers to the family of Shilu, a noble family handed down from generation to generation.

The upper class in ancient times was also divided into levels: the first level was either rich or expensive, and it was a noble among nobles, with equal emphasis on power and position. At the second level, if you are not rich, you will be expensive. The economy is declining, but the status is still there, and you can still enjoy the due respect in social life. The third level, rich but not expensive. Although rich, but only known as nouveau riche, and because the foundation is not hard, will be looked down upon by the giants.

What can really be called an "aristocratic family" only refers to the first two levels of the upper class. As for the exploiter, even if he has money, it is not an "expensive" word.

This is the aristocratic family, the threshold is very high, it is not easy to be trampled on, and there is a sense of distance from afar.

Scholarly family, etiquette.

Shilu family has a kind of power without anger, which comes from its rich cultural background.

The most famous family in China is not in history textbooks, but in the novel A Dream of Red Mansions.

Strictly speaking, the Jia family at that time was second-class in the upper class. Although expensive, wealth has gradually declined, but the hundred-legged worm died but not stiff. As Mrs. Wang said to Xifeng, "Now your sisters are only better than the maids of those big families. Your sister Lin's mother is the real good daughter. "

This is the contrast between giants.

In the eyes of ordinary people, the mighty mansion and the powerful Jia mansion. That kind of momentum, that kind of voice. Although the original great prosperity is gone forever, and Rongning House has been unable to make ends meet, the piles in life are still aristocratic. In the minds of nobles, money is important, and decent identity is the key to survival.

Therefore, Shi Taijun looked for relatives for Sun Jinbaoyu. The first sentence asks: What is it like? What is the basis?

Many modern readers' understanding of the word "foundation" is limited to the economic level, but it is all wet. The "foundation" in the eyes of the nobility is the popularity accumulated from generation to generation. What noble families value most is not a word "rich", but a word "expensive". "Money" can't replace status and cultural level.

Although Lengjiro Liu Xianglian is helpless and poor, outsiders still call him "Mr. Liu", because this Liu Xianglian is originally a "noble child", and the afterglow of his ancestors is enough to make him shine forever.

Although Fu Shi, Jia Zheng's favorite pupil, has a successful career, he can only be regarded as an upstart at best. Although he calls himself an aristocrat, the real aristocrat despises him. He is determined to find a noble family for his sister Fu, who is as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade, in order to be as rich as an enemy, but the rich family thinks that he has a weak foundation and refuses to give in. One year, a sophomore, young, Miss Fu, 23 years old, still stayed in the boudoir, looking at the "door" and sighing about her youth.

Your real wife, Lin Daiyu, was born in a scholarly family, and her ancestors always ate and drank. This is a rare honor. It can be seen that Daiyu's lofty and picky has her reasons, and she has always had a sense of honor.

Baochai is different. As the daughter of a businessman, she always talks about her ancestors. "Our ancestors were also scholars." She is always afraid that others will misunderstand her poor family. Nothing else, because even if the merchant has money, it can only be counted as an "outbreak." In ancient society, they despised businessmen. They only had money and could buy jewelry, but they could not buy status and honor.

The whole Dream of Red Mansions is really a clan biography of feudal society, with all kinds of clan and non-clan children coming in and out and performing a ukiyo-e painting.

The real "aristocratic family" attitude is actually an introverted attitude towards life. Although it is not ostentatious, no one can avoid its extravagance. Just like a real British aristocrat, he will never wear brand-new brand-name clothes with various LOGO, and he will never change a luxury car for three days. On the contrary, they will always be an old suit jacket with worn elbows and an old dusty car. But the calmness between manners is the best trademark of "nobility". Just as the furnishings in Mrs. Wang's room are half new and not old, the chandelier in Mrs. Jia's room occasionally shakes off the dust. This is the finishing touch, and the word "old" reflects the sense of history.

Real luxury is a kind of self-confidence.

Time is the most precious thing in the world. The historical assets accumulated by "aristocratic families" from generation to generation are the root of the word "expensive", which is culture.

Now the concept of "aristocratic family" is rare. Occasionally, people say that they were born in a "musical family" or a "drama family", and in the eyes of outsiders, there is always a slightly unfamiliar sense of reverence: "family" has become a nostalgic term in modern society.

Perhaps, it is just a gesture of slow life, and it is just this style. In the era of fast food, people have no patience to chew slowly, and the "aristocratic family" is gradually gone, replaced by the rich. People value the amount in the passbook more than the cultural connotation.

"Expensive" is drifting away, and "rich" has become the first standard of social recognition.

Therefore, there will be no more Dream of Red Mansions, and no one cares whether your ancestors were rich or poor for three generations. Modern life is a water margin, and everyone flaunts it as "the origin of the hero Mo Wen". In the age of ignorance, it is refreshing and refreshing, but it is also a kind of psychological weightlessness that you can't find that kind of exquisiteness and elegance.

Noble families have gone away, who is elegant and interesting?

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