Ridge slogan

The cultivation of a person's education depends first on the influence of family style, not the quality of family! If your family is rich and famous, but you don't know the courtesy, justice and shame, then you can only be called a "local tyrant" rather than an educated person; Even if your family is poor, you have no car or house, but you know how to respect others, and you deserve to be called an educated person.

Education has nothing to do with the rich and the poor, and flying first class to Europe is also uncivilized. People in remote rural ridges also know that courtesy is honest and shameful.

1. When eating in the restaurant, there is an obvious slogan: Please put the plates on the plate rack after eating. Sitting at a table, a quiet family of four, after dinner, the children lined up to put plates; In sharp contrast, the family next to him, the little boy, ran around the restaurant with a glass of juice, spilled it on the ground and on his clothes. I finally had a quarrel, and when my ass was lifted, I left, leaving a table full of cups and plates. A staff member came to remind me carefully: please help yourself to put away the dishes after dinner. Several adults look arrogant: we pay for food and have to clean ourselves?

? I forgot where I heard a sentence: Your attitude towards waiters often reflects your education background. The indulgence of children's wayward temper and the lack of self-cultivation have caused the lack of children's education. Children who grow up in such a family don't think it is disrespectful to make a scene in a restaurant when they are young. I'm afraid this kind of deficiency will continue and even become an unchangeable part of their personality.

2. One year when I was flying, the child sitting behind me kept kicking my chair back. Since I got on the plane, I have been noisy and refused to stop. Ask everyone to turn off their mobile phones before taking off, and the children are still playing with their mobile phones. Parents also said: "It doesn't matter, we have already started the flight mode, and it won't affect." The flight attendant explained that the flight mode effect of many mobile phones is not stable. The parents at the back actually said, "Why, I use an Apple phone. Isn't such a good mobile phone necessarily? " Finally, the parent was forced by public anger and turned off his mobile phone. After turning off the mobile phone, the children behind me began to get emotional, crying and kicking my chair back harder. I really can't stand it. I turned my head and said with a smile, "Little friend, can you stop kicking my aunt's stool?" Her parents said a sentence necessary for bad parents in Xiong Haizi all over the world-"She is just a child. What do you care about with your children? " No quality! "

? Family style is an invisible educational force, which comprehensively affects children's learning development and personality shaping through their parents' behaviors, thoughts, interests and moral concepts. Parents are always the best teachers for their children, because they spend more time with their children than any school teacher, and their words and deeds have a profound impact on their children's thoughts and concepts.

Grimmelshausen said: A person's mind without education, knowledge and practice is like a field. Even if this land is naturally fertile, it will not bear fruit without cultivation and sowing. It can be seen that in the education of children, parents must first achieve "integrity." Only when parents do this can families have a healthy family style and educate educated children.

"The heritage of educated people is more valuable than the wealth of ignorant people." This society does not hate the poor and will not accept you and indulge you just because you are rich. No matter in feudal society, capitalist society or socialist society, everyone will like educated and quality people, and hate and spit on those who don't know what education is.

The more you read, the more you find that education does not necessarily depend on your family, but is often related to your family style.