Why do many college students dare not "rush" in online dating? Mostly these three reasons, the third one is very heartfelt.

I believe many people will have such a netizen, we can speak freely on the internet and have a good chat with each other. In junior high school and even high school, we have always maintained our feelings for each other and become what the world calls online dating! Junior and senior high school students are still young, even if they have online dating, they dare not think about coming to reality. But when we got to college, we both grew up and had some money and freedom. Why are so many college students afraid to "rush" in online dating? In fact, most of them are these three reasons!

First of all, the online world is virtual.

Many people's online dating is actually more about finding a psychological support for themselves. When they feel lonely and helpless, they can have a companion to accompany them. After all, online time is virtual, and we can play any role in reality at will.

But even if we act seriously and truly, it's just a disguise. If the truth comes out, it will undoubtedly be exposed. So the reason why many people don't show up is that the online world is virtual after all, and it is most important to maintain the beautiful appearance of the other party's imagination. Instead of exposing each other's lies, you may eventually lose someone to talk to!

The second is fear of being cheated.

Now the news that online dating has been cheated can be said to be endless. There are too many things that college students are cheated. Everyone is very alert. They are worried that being cheated will not only be dangerous, but also make them uncomfortable. So many people's online dating object is actually a netizen who can confide in their hearts. Everyone can speak freely online, but the actual meeting is still free. They are not only afraid of being cheated, but also worried that netizens are not as perfect as they think, so they refuse to show up!

Third, the face value is too low to go.

This reason may be the most heartfelt, online dating is sweet, and we will eventually be unable to restrain our feelings and want to be with our partners, but many people are afraid to show up because their conditions are insufficient after all. Many people are perfect on the internet, but there are often various defects in reality. On the internet, we all know about poetry and songs, and our face value is too low, so the photos we usually send are also ps-processed, glamorous and so on. If you really show up, you will not only expose your own shortcomings, but also be afraid of being rejected by the other party, so you still choose to be good friends online.

Editor of this article: Xiao Z.

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