I finally learned to smile and shake my head to refuse.

I finally learned to smile and shake my head to refuse. Sentence (1) 1. I don't know how to refuse, but most of them are almost stupid intentions. When you are embarrassed to refuse others, think about why they want to embarrass you.

Of course, refusal is also a technical job. Sometimes we need to choose a tactful way to refuse others, not too direct, otherwise it may hurt each other. But sometimes you have to refuse directly and don't give the other person any illusion.

When you learn to refuse, your kindness begins to make sense.

Do I always refuse to grow up? Haven't you learned to pretend to be optimistic? Are you naive enough? *

On the way of growing up, we learned some habits that we must give up, and we also learned to refuse on the way of growing up.

6. He doesn't know, he doesn't know, I learned to smile at everyone. He doesn't know, he doesn't know, and the final result is that I choose to reject all friendships from now on.

7. Rejection is the most difficult art ... It is usually considered as a bad behavior. In fact, rejection is sometimes a virtue. Only those who can refuse something at the right time can live a free and easy life with self-esteem. Learn to refuse, learn to say no

8. If I tell you now: I love you, will you refuse me?

9. In life, we will come into contact with all kinds of people and encounter all kinds of things, some of which we don't want to participate in, and even increase our burden or pressure. At this time, we must learn to refuse, we can't let face drag you down, let alone "embarrassment" hurt you. When it's time to say "no", you must say it. You can hide when you don't have to show up Don't let yourself live in a tangle just because you cater to others.

10. In the book "Be yourself with a strong heart", experts who study the art of rejection emphasize that it is necessary to establish such a consciousness: "You have the right to say no, and you don't have to be embarrassed by refusing others."

1 1. Refuse gifts and money from others, and don't give them to others. At this time, you can live with more dignity.

12. I finally learned to smile and shake my head and refuse what I like.

13. Because you are too accommodating, others will gradually ignore you; Because you are too easy to deal with, you gradually lose your position in others' hearts. Rejecting appropriate benefits will increase your weight and enrich your background.

14. True friendship does not depend on anything. It does not depend on career fortune and status, nor on experience orientation and situation. In essence, it rejects utility, ownership and contract, and it is the mutual echo and confirmation between independent personalities. It makes people lonely but not lonely, and explains the meaning of their own existence. So, the so-called friends are just those who make each other more comfortable.

15. Don't refuse to be busy, because it is a kind of enrichment: the past is like smoke, smile and be safe. Learn to feel life calmly and have a calm and fulfilling life.

16. If you don't like a song, we will cut it: If you don't like someone, maybe we should all learn to refuse.

17. People who don't get along will let go, and things they don't like will be rejected. No one needs to meet everyone's expectations.

18. With you, I learned to refuse, to tolerate, to love and comfort. Why do you abandon me thousands of miles away now?

19. Most of us like to wrap ourselves up and put on thick armor. We will not refuse. We lost the courage to speak, and even lost the ability to speak. We will only remain silent and silent. But sometimes silence hurts more than rejection, so we all learn to hurt each other.

20. In front of the person you like, you don't need to hold back, pull, pull and kiss for three times to see if he will refuse you again.

2 1. I'm not completely sure about my feelings, and I don't want to start a relationship hastily.

22. Refusal may hurt others. Don't refuse to be hurt by yourself!

23. People must have live high's self-esteem and car-scrapping. Sometimes, you should bravely say "no" to dissatisfied or wrong orders given by others! It is because you said "no" that others think you have a lot of backbone, and they will fear, respect and even appreciate you.

24. Now that I have learned to refuse, all I need is you.

I finally learned to smile and shake my head to refuse. In the process of rejecting others, my words are hesitant and awkward, which will make others suspect that you refuse to treat yourself as a friend, relative or lover, so my resentment and grievance are very strong.

26. People who really want to give you something won't ask if you want it. When someone asks you if you want it, you'd better refuse.

27. It's easy for others to take advantage of your ignorance of rejection, and it's you who gets slapped in the face and loses everything. Did anyone else lose?

28. After all, people should learn to shake their heads and refuse what they like.

I have known since I was a child that the best way to avoid being rejected by others is to reject others first.

30. When you learn to refuse others and learn to answer blows with blows, others will respect you and even fear you.

3 1. When they treat you as a consumer, they don't actually respect you.

32. Writer Bi Shumin said: Rejection is the right to live, a test of one's courage and mind, and an art.

I am always afraid of losing, so I always refuse others first. It's not that I'm too indifferent to everything. I just instinctively want to protect myself.

Learn to refuse, do what you can, and never show off your talents if you can't.

I didn't know how to refuse, so things got very bad.

36. I know that I am no longer eager for someone to understand me, and I will refuse the frivolous dreams that some people occasionally impose on me. Because I am enjoying loneliness, holding the pillow of the future, studying, making mistakes on the road and constantly correcting. Do your best before the whole world finds out.

37. Know how to refuse, know how to reduce complicated interpersonal relationships, and don't give up your right to speak because you care about the friendship of others. Sometimes excessive kindness will hurt yourself and make some people who have no bottom line push their luck.

38. Refuse if you don't like it. No one will appreciate your kindness. They will only push their luck. Interpersonal communication, simple and clear is sometimes the most appropriate, and knowing how to refuse can be free and easy.

39. Don't help others, hate yourself, learn to reject others, and respect others' rejection.

40. To bear the selfishness of others, only oneself is affected, which is the root of people who don't know how to refuse.

4 1. It is not easy to refuse other people's demands. Between promise and refusal, it is easy to refuse.

42. Maturity may be a popular currency for exchanging ages, but it makes people rational, calm, know how to refuse and can bear rejection. This is not surprising. The older we grow, the farther away we are.

43. People who don't know how to refuse often hurt others and embarrass themselves.

44. You must learn how to accept rejection and refuse to accept it. You must learn to accept rejection and refuse to accept.

45. People who don't know how to refuse, even if they work hard, will not get real respect from others. Because the other person is used to your obedience.

46. From now on, studying is cruel, because I don't know how to refuse, which breaks my heart.

47. A truly high-level person must know how to be gentle and fierce, and have both the charm of attracting others and the ability to refuse others.

48. Don't hug another person because you are cold, and don't make do because you don't know how to refuse.

Be brave and say 48 phrases.

Be brave. Let's talk about the phrase 1 1. Sober people are always drunk, tangled people are always trying to be brave, and an encounter or a miss is within a millimeter. This subtle measure is called fate.

2. Brave but weak.

This is just a puppet show, even if you want to cry, tears should really flow out.

When I moved my seat after the exam, he said, "Do you want me to help you?" I said, "No, you go away." He said, "Don't try to be brave, I'll do it." Well, I still love you!

5. I am sick. The doctor said to me, "Don't try to be brave. You have a bad cold and a high fever of 39 degrees. "

I didn't mean what I said. I like being brave. I always work for three minutes. I should feel sorry for you. I ...

7. How many times have I pretended to be brave, held back the tears that just came into my eyes, and then raised my mouth slightly to comfort others.

8. In this world of expanding desires, learn to distinguish and give up, and enough is enough. Don't be reluctant, don't try to be brave, and have a strong control over your life.

9. I didn't try to be brave and laugh at your betrayal, but I chose to escape and pretend to be chic.

10. I am in a mess and want to be brave. In this day and age, I have to take an all-important attitude.

1 1. The happiest thing is to share every bit of ordinary life with you every day.

12. Are you really not sad or am I just trying to be brave?

13. I suddenly want to say sorry to myself. It's a pity that I'll never find my original self again.

14. Be strong, come back, be weak, can't help being brave-

15. For me, hehe represents a helpless smile, haha represents a bluff smile, hee hee represents an artificial smile, hehe represents an embarrassed smile, and hehe represents a happy smile.

16. In his heart, he knew my bluff and fragility, which gave me care and comfort that I needed the wind.

17. Try to be brave if you don't get it, or try to be brave if you don't get it.

18. When I try to be brave and say "Go, I don't need you", can you suddenly hug me and say "But I need you"?

19. If you are not me, how can you understand my bravado and fragility?

20. I'm just trying to be brave. I'm just a woman No matter how much you drop, you will be tired.

2 1. Why try to be brave again? If you can't forget, you can't forget You can go on if you want to ta. If you can't let it go, what can you do?

22. We were not sad when we were young, but we just loved being brave.

I don't know how long those brave and strong people can last.

24. Emotional women have the same ending. If they love too much, they will be hurt by him, but their heartache will end. They will try to be brave again and again, and they will burst into tears in one sentence.

Try to be brave and talk about phrase 2 25. Tear off the last ray to say goodbye/tear off the last ray of sunshine to say goodbye.

26. Is love brave and bitter in the storm or calm?

27. Can there be one person? You can see through my bluff. Can protect my vulnerability.

28. Being brave is not being strong. Sadness is just sadness. Cry if you want, don't pretend.

29. Persistence is not stubbornness, not bravado, but light wandering in the dark, which is the persistence depicted in my mind.

Don't try to be brave and pretend to be strong, you will be very tired.

3 1. Actually, we are all the same. We are not as strong as we thought, but scholars try to be brave, so we can only get hurt.

32. Entanglement occupies all my emotions. No matter how hard I try to be brave, there is nothing I can do in the end.

The days we spent together have long been forgotten, leaving only memories.

34. I don't want to be brave when I am tired. Being strong is just empty. How nice it is to be a little woman. It is enough to live a dull life like a naive girl every day.

35. What if you cry? Dry your tears and move on. What if you laugh? Without happiness, life is braver.

36. Growth is only a transition. Without dogs, you should recognize your friends, learn to be brave, learn to pretend, recognize reality and learn to be hypocritical.

You said I was too strong, but I happened to be trying to be brave.

38. I learned to wear a strong mask, even though I was trying to be brave.

39. What I am good at is trying to be brave.

40.don't touch my smile.

4 1. When I try to be brave and say nothing, hold me tight and say you understand, okay?

42. So everyone says I'm strong. Only you advised me not to be brave.

43. I like to be brave too much. I obviously want someone to accompany me, but I still push others away.

44. I hope someone can hold me tight when listening to me and say that I know you are trying to be brave.

45. Whether you are sad or not is your own fault. Whether you are sad or not is a heart. We all like to be brave, and we all like to laugh and say nothing with tears.

46. Why try to be brave when you are sad? Let the tears wet your eyelashes and let the pain flow away.

47. Pretend to be strong and be brave.

48. Listening to your happy talk about the girl you like, I realized that I was the only one wandering around and trying to be brave.

Let's talk about mood phrases 48 sentences.

I am not very happy, but I have been bored for too long. I really like a person, but I can't meet someone's requirements. I think it's just my lack of ability. I drew a sketch of a one-bedroom apartment, thinking about flowers, comfortable sofa, warm color matching, clean kitchen, bright bathroom and comfortable bedroom, and imagining myself with a man. Sometimes noisy, you can grow flowers, read books, catch up with plays, cook and wash dishes, and bask in the sun on the balcony. You'd better get another dog, meet the person you love most in your life, and meet a loyal dog to bring joy. The rest of your life will be romantic.

2. What's the name of this rose? The petals are thick, like satin. The color is beautiful to the extreme!

I have been at home for 20 days, and there is no hurry to cook, mop the floor and raise flowers. The weather is getting warmer these days, and the sun is shining outside the window. No chance to go to Jiangnan, just wait for the flowers to bloom.

But anyone who has such a dream, I hope everyone can have a clear goal and start like our dream. What is important now is to make good money so that you can live comfortably in your later years. Secondly, I need to learn more about flower cultivation in my daily life. If one day I am still a novice in flower cultivation, how embarrassing it will be ~

To be a romantic, start by buying yourself flowers.

6. Growing flowers is a kind of mood, an attitude towards life and a kind of visual enjoyment.

7. Keeping a pot of meat and seeing the plants on the table from time to time will make you feel much better, and the mood of raising plants will be different.

8. The first batch of cherry blossoms are pure and beautiful. The petals are flawless, soft and delicate, and the pale green color of calyx is faintly revealed in the petals, while the flowers that have been in full bloom for a while show a faint light red color. Red oozed from the stamen, soaked the stamen, reflected the petals, and fainted in white. And those that bloom longer, even the calyx is dyed red.

9. Waiting for flowers to bloom is also an option. Perhaps it is a strange thing to come to the first place from the heart, and the smell is refreshing. The person worth waiting for will always stand in front of you.

10. It's hard to return home and cry Wan Shanhong.

1 1.？ Osmanthus fragrans this year. It is particularly lush, with clusters of pale yellow flowers and layers of branches.

12. There is a bunch of flowers that have been smelling for a long time, but they will not be thrown away after withering.

13. This kind of flower is really beautiful in spring and summer.

14. Gardenia blooms overnight, pure and beautiful. It's a long way from planting flowers. After all, the time is still short, but I also know a little about the mentality of flower growers.

15. Beauty, beautiful mood, so-called flower cultivation.

16. Plant flowers, pick flowers, arrange flowers, enjoy flowers and have a good time.

17. Two years ago, I suddenly fell in love with growing flowers. As long as you have some time, take flowers and plants as your partner and enjoy your own good time. Looking at my carefully cultivated flowers and plants, I immediately threw away all my troubles, bathed in sunshine like flowers, and became calm as water. ?

18. The life of grass is more energetic and tenacious than that of some people.

19. Life is a blooming flower, beautiful, stretching and colorful. Life is a beautiful poem, fresh and smooth, with a long meaning; Life is wonderful music, with harmonious melody and melodious melody; Life is a flowing river, running endlessly and rolling forward.

20. The beauty of flower cultivation is as sweet and fresh as Japanese cherry blossoms. I don't know what I did this year. I planted it wantonly and became a pot full of predictable beauty.

2 1.？ Peach blossoms are dotted with love, love is dotted with peach blossoms, flowers bloom and fall, and love moves forward step by step.

22. When you are alive, you always have to take some responsibilities or look for some sustenance, so some people are adopting parents, wives and children, some people have cats, dogs, birds and fish, and some people have flowers and plants. I'm more advanced. I closed my eyes and began to recover.

23.？ Dianthus sticks its head out from the messy weeds. Their pink smiling faces are really beautiful!

24.？ Among many flowers and plants, my favorite flower is jasmine. Although jasmine looks ordinary, it is beautiful to me. A few white petals and a green stem make jasmine look dignified and elegant.

Talk about the mood phrases of taking pictures of flowers and plants. When the breeze blows, the flowers in Wei Zi sway and show their graceful posture. With the wind, they danced and the flowers fell, like fairy scattered flowers and "Wei Ziyu", which made people linger.

26. A breeze blew, and the peach blossoms couldn't wait to dance with the wind. There are some stamens like embroidery needles in the middle of the flowers. Don't underestimate them, they have pollen on them, and bees spread these pollen to female flowers. After the flowers die, they can grow small peaches.

27. People who grow flowers harvest their mentality, and the flowers in each season have more and more significance.

28. In the field, a flaming Chinese milk vetch is like a blazing flame.

Lily has only a few petals, but they are all pure and flawless. Her stamens are obvious, showing from those small white petals. Her fragrance is very fragrant, neither strong nor weak. The fragrance, the blessing of fresh fruit, the gift of earth and the smell of green leaves bring a ray of fragrance like the morning sun to the earth.

30. Some flowers will wither soon, some scenery will fade easily, and some faces will grow old quietly, but the temperature of your palm will remain the same, and so will the love left in your heart.

3 1. Sometimes I really like being alone, painting alone, practicing piano alone and enjoying flowers alone.

32. The beauty of flowers and plants lies in this lush life; The fun of growing flowers lies in this interest and this temperament.

33. I haven't been out for almost a month, but fortunately, my balcony has broadened my horizons, and I can swing and raise flowers. The spinning bike in the living room has also helped me a lot, reading and drawing …

34. The stems of Chinese rose flowers are slender and tall, covered with small thorns, just like sharp knives. Oval leaves are gentle and lovely, always naughty and lovely. Because of its foil, Chinese rose appears more pure and elegant!

35. For the rest of our lives, let's stay away from the world of mortals and grow flowers and vegetables.

36. Making some flowers and raising some plants will really bring you a good mood.

When you don't even have the courage to try, you don't deserve happiness, and you will never get happiness. You won't know how deep it is until you are hurt.

38. Care with your heart, be more patient and tolerant, and time will give you the most beautiful answer-gardening taught me.

39. White petals, layered on top of each other, are covered with finely divided water droplets. Pale yellow stamens, emitting attractive breath.

40. The flowers are visible. So, listen to the gorgeous language. So it must be beautiful to imagine Hanfu fluttering.

4 1. The breeze is blowing gently, and lotus leaves and flowers are swaying gently, as if dancing, attracting several dragonflies to fly over the lotus pond. This is really an elegant and simple landscape painting!

42. It's amazing to photograph a small flower blooming tonight!

43. I planted those flowers and plants. Today, Pepe and I went downstairs with flowerpots to shovel dirt and came back to plant together. It was the first time to grow flowers with flower seeds. I hope they will grow up soon.

44. Raising flowers lies in the mood, not in whether it is precious, but in watering it with love.

45. Cultivate flowers with your heart, and a hundred flowers will smell.

46. The flowerpots are bare all winter. I thought the first attempt to plant flowers was over, but when spring came, so many small creatures appeared, full of cute and inexplicable little touches. ...

47. Look at flowers and plants, but think about life.

48. The heavenly work is exquisite.

48 sentences of classic English proverbs

It doesn't make any sense to teach fish to swim.

There is no point in promising too many people.

He takes precautions.

Take preventive measures.

Life is a span.

Life is just a span.

Man proposes, God disposes.

Man proposes, God disposes.

You learn something every time you open a book.

Opening books is beneficial.

36. Call again next time.

The worse the luck now, the better the next time.

Time tries all things.

Time tries all things.

4 1, use legs and have legs.

With legs, with legs.

Virtue does not grow old.

Virtue does not grow old.

Wall has ears.

Wall has ears.

What has been done cannot be undone.

Water under the bridge.

45, wine into the wine out.

See people in wine.

Genius only means hard-working all one's life.

Genius only means a lifetime of hard work.

The man who has made up his mind to win will never say "impossible".

Whoever has made up his mind to win will never say "impossible".

48. Without great will, there is no great talent.

Without great willpower, there is no great talent.