When drinking is a song, the geometry of life is not enjoying life at this time. When will you wait?

Not long ago, I began to be a quiet person, learn to live a quiet life and look at all kinds of phenomena in life calmly. Analyze all the strangeness and injustice in the world with a dialectical attitude. Comfort others, keep a calm mind when you are angry, and try to restrain yourself when you are excited; When you do something for others, don't think about how the other person should repay you, but think more about liking it. Do it, give it, and don't care what the reward is. Self-psychological satisfaction and comfort are greater than everything else. I'm also trying to practice my ideas, so I'm glad to see each other benefit after every effort. Occasionally, a thank you, a compliment or even a trusting look from others will make you feel worthwhile, so you are in a good mood! Good to be very calm, very peaceful, calm a little indifferent, peaceful some lack secular passion, beyond the mortal world.

Because there is demand, there is harvest, and the heart is complacent. Because there is a demand, I can't mention it. I'm cold. Fortunately, I can take it back in time in this situation, constantly admonish myself with my heart, and learn to calm my mind in agitation, so I have a new understanding: if people want nothing, they will not forge ahead, but will be content with the status quo. If you don't strive, you will sink, and the result of sinking may be decadence. Such a life is worthless. Perhaps this is also to give yourself a restless heart and find a beautiful reason and gorgeous steps. Personally, I think the real pursuit of nothing is actually a state of mind, indifferent to fame and fortune, indifferent to the secular, maintaining a peaceful state of mind, quiet and far-reaching "People want nothing but peace of mind" grew up in the secular world, which means to achieve inner peace and reflect the value of life. Come from society, be content with society, adapt to society, and be detached from society.

In fact, every effort of everyone, whether you ask for it or not, will be rewarded, depending on which angle you look at it. In fact, many people value their own efforts, so they have higher requirements for returns. In fact, we are just a tiny grain in the world. It's the same with or without you. The sun and the moon cycle, the four seasons change, flowers bloom and fall, grass grows and grass withers, which is natural and social development remains unchanged. Realize that "I am only a small part, and what happened to me is insignificant!" " The phrase "don't force others to fight", which is often comforted by elders around you, sounds idealistic, but it makes sense to analyze it. In fact, this is the case in reality. There are too many things that can't be met. You can't run, it's not that you can't force it. Still keep a calm attitude towards everything, without arrogance or rashness, without losing grace. Only in this way can we maintain peace of mind and body. Pursue the realm of "people want nothing" and maintain a state of "peace of mind".

The second article

Quiet solitude, cooking a bowl of mellow chicken soup for yourself and adjusting and nourishing your mood in time is a kind of happiness when you are alone!

Be alone, have a quiet space, really enjoy the time alone, completely forget all the troubles and long-term accumulated depression, and be pure, carefree, calm and self-motivated!

A quiet person, living in seclusion in a small study, sitting in front of the computer, greedily enjoying the sensory enjoyment brought by the beautiful scenery around him.

Enjoy the picturesque Lijiang, as if you were there; Experience the coolness of summer and Wutai Mountain, a historic summer resort in Jinyu. Stroll in Zhouzhuang Alley, which is full of Jiangnan charm and picturesque in rainy season; Fascinated by the Meili Snow Mountain in Shangri-La at night, it melts in the dark blue quiet and cool night sky dotted with jewels. ...

Quiet alone, holding a book and a roll, touching the life course of different characters with feelings, and reading the thoughts and feelings of famous teachers.

Experience the sadness and melancholy in Lin Daiyu's funeral poems; Qiao Zhiyong combined the boldness and lofty sentiments of the world with "righteousness, faith and benefit"; Reread the Romance of the Three Kingdoms with Professor Yi Zhongtian, interpret historical figures such as Cao Cao and Zhuge Liang, feel the sensitive and changeable political situation at that time, capture the subtle psychological changes of historical figures at that time, and listen to Professor Yu Dan's interpretation of Confucius' way of life in The Analects of Confucius and the dialectical unity of externalization and internalization. ...

Be quiet and alone, consider patiently, experience beauty and gain insight.

Hold a brush in hand, calm down, be patient, polish the mystery of "writing, writing and receiving" carefully, and experience the line plastic art in calligraphy; Deliberate every word, accurately and comfortably slide your thoughts from the pen tip to the paper; Flowers bloom in the morning, stay alone quietly, give yourself a quiet place to think and nurture carefully, gain your own opinions and cultivate a free mind!

When I am alone, my brow is overcast, my mind is self-motivated, my heart is pure and my emotions are sublimated!

When alone, "a pot of wine from the flowers, I drink alone." "No one is with me," I sang. The moon encourages me and I dance. My shadow is rolling behind. " "Sing a song about wine, life geometry!"

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"The flying flowers will be exhausted, and the monthly flowers will gradually drift away." All changes in nature are natural and seasonal, so when we face all these things, we feel calm and calm inside. And "no shame, just look at the flowers before the court; I didn't mean to stay or stay, it was full of clouds. " It also needs a certain degree of self-cultivation and enough precipitation in the heart.

Regarding life, different people will have different pursuits, and different people hope to reach different realms.

Wang Guowei described three realms of life in Ci on Earth: the first is "Last night, the west wind withered the green trees, and I went up to the tall building alone and looked at the horizon"; It warns us that the present situation is very bad. Only those who can climb tall buildings, be condescending, be far-sighted, see the distance, see the end of the sky, and see places that others can't see can eliminate external interference, not be confused by the temporary smoke, and finally achieve their desired goals. This is the foundation of success. This realm is mainly to determine and determine, and only with this condition will there be a second and a third realm.

The second kind of "the belt is getting wider and wider without regret, which makes people haggard for Iraq"; The second realm summarizes an attitude of perseverance and perseverance. Describes how to make up your mind and work hard for it. Life will inevitably encounter all kinds of difficulties, but we must persist in our struggle, keep moving forward, and do whatever it takes for our cause. There is no smooth road in this world. We should not only dare to innovate, but also be good at waiting. This is a persistent pursuit, and forgetting my struggle is also a test of willpower.

The third kind of "looking for him in the crowd, suddenly looking back, that person is in the dim light." The third realm means that a person will gradually mature after many twists and turns and years of tempering. He can see what others can't see, and he can suddenly understand and understand what others don't understand. At this time, he will make creative and unique contributions to his career. This is a natural achievement. Of course, the harvest is also the flowers watered with sweat and blood, and the buildings cast with lifelong energy.

From Wang Guowei's theory of three realms, later generations boil it down to three realms: knowledge, action and achievement. Many people admire it, and some imitate the division of "three realms": knowledge, goodness and joy; Feng Zhikai believes that "material, spirit and soul" are the three realms of life; Some people think that the three realms of life are nothing more than self, family and society; Others said to know, to be yourself, to be a man; Some people think that ideals, careers and love; Others figuratively compare it as: "Seeing mountains is mountains, and seeing water is water; Seeing mountains is not mountains, and seeing water is not water; See the mountain or see the mountain, see the water or see the water "and so on, there are so many forests and so on. Of course, they all have their own characteristics.

What I like best is the theory about the realm of mountains and rivers. Wise and direct to the heart.

"Seeing mountains is mountains, and seeing water is water." This is a relatively simple realm, just like a child's first understanding of the world, pure and flawless, everything is new and strange, and everything is seen by the eyes. Everything is single and transparent, without any pollution and impurities, which is a kind of innocence and beauty when people first arrive.

"Looking at the mountain is not a mountain, and looking at the water is not water." This realm presents all kinds of complexity and changefulness of life and human thought. This realm is mainly aimed at middle-aged people. With the increase of age and social experience, people's thoughts have become more and more complicated. Especially in a materialistic society, people cheat and distrust each other. Compared with childhood, people's world outlook, outlook on life and values have undergone profound changes. They no longer believe everything in front of them easily, but use their brains to understand the world. At the same time, I will be surprised to find that there are more and more problems in this world, and I feel that the society is not so simple and the reality is not so beautiful. Often right and wrong are upside down, right and wrong are mixed, it is unreasonable to travel all over the world, and it is difficult to move. Good people are not rewarded, and it is harmful to live for thousands of years. At this stage, people are angry, unfair, worried, questioning, alert and complicated. People don't want to believe anything easily. At this time, the mountains people see are no longer mountains in a simple sense, and water is no longer water in a simple sense. It is called sighing at the mountain and sighing at the water, which leads to many stories of satirizing the present by borrowing ancient times, referring to mulberry and cursing, and referring to deer as a horse. Some people stand on this mountain and see that mountain is higher; Looking at this water, I think this water is cleaner, and it is difficult to fill and will never be satisfied. Therefore, this state is also an embarrassing situation for a person's life. If we get through this difficulty smoothly, we can achieve a sense of sobriety and relief.

"Look at the mountain or the mountain, the water or the water." This is a free and easy way for those who have gone through most of their lives or experienced too many events to strive for their pursuit. Having experienced all kinds of events and met all kinds of people or things, I have a feeling that it was once difficult for the sea to touch water, and my thoughts suddenly became clear and my mind returned to nature calmly. Perhaps after too much experience, people's realm is also high, and they will no longer worry about unnecessary things, let alone things that are harmless or impossible to achieve. The world of mortals is rolling, and I am cool and bright. In the face of worldly things, laugh it off. At this time, people look at the mountains and see the mountains. Water is water. They know better, understand better, and look at things with a normal heart. They understand that things might be much simpler if they look at the problem from the perspective of chess watchers and theater goers. As Su Shi said, "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain." Everyone wants to reach the highest realm of life, that is, the third realm. Appreciating other mountains is a dwarf in the world. A sense of victory after overcoming oneself and exceeding the limit. However, in the process of self-refining and self-realization, many excellent qualities are indispensable, and many spirits and traditions worth carrying forward and inheriting cannot be discarded.

The world is bustling, and different people are performing different lives. After all, people are social animals. Without this society, your existence value will inevitably be tortured by society and the surrounding environment. After a long journey, everyone is looking for their own spiritual home, the home where we live.

I think, whether beautiful or ugly, true or false, people always have to find an outlet for their souls. We need a calm heart, a dull mind, no matter where we are, we should take it lightly. This is a realm, the highest realm that people pursue in this noisy world, and the detachment from self-centeredness.

Although the real detachment is not limited by the region, the peace and tranquility of the mind is not disturbed by the outside world. Tao Yuanming, who never stooped, chose to retire, but he could enjoy the transcendental artistic conception of "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and enjoying the sunrise and sunset in the country fields" in the hustle and bustle of horses and chariots. Although Wang Wei lives at the top of the temple, he can keep a peaceful heart and write a wonderful picture of "moonlight in the pine forest and crystal stone in the stream" Cen Can is on the edge of the Ma Tie Glacier. In the grandeur of "the desert is lonely and the long river sets the yen", we carefully observe that "like the spring breeze, at night, the petals of 10,000 pear trees are blown open". Excuse me, how does this need a heart that bears the burden of humiliation?

The definition of humiliation is simple and clear. Explain that you don't care about others' flattery or humiliation, and you are not moved by personal gains and losses. From the poem "Huai County" by Pan Yue in Jin Dynasty: "It is easy to be ashamed, but difficult to think."

Of course, we will not forget that "indifference" is an ancient Taoist thought. Laozi once said, "Calm is the best, victory is not beauty". Later generations have always inherited and appreciated this artistic conception of "peace of mind". For example, Bai Juyi said in the poem "Ask Qiu Guang" that "the body and mind turn to safety, and the smoke scene is indifferent". He shows that the author is free from distractions, absorbed and comfortable, and is not limited to the long-term broad realm of immediate gains and losses. Liu Yuxi's ambition is obvious in the humble room, playing the piano, reading the golden classics and enjoying himself; Many writers use words to build castles in the air, in order to pursue spiritual home and maintain a good mental state in the interweaving of ideals and reality; Ouyang Xiu's "the meaning of drunkenness is not in wine, but in mountains and rivers" is clean and carefree, and Zhuge Liang's "indifferent ambition, quiet and far-reaching".

In my opinion, regardless of indifference or honor or disgrace, one should keep a cool head in a complex social environment. In addition to being able to withstand the temptation of wealth, it is also able to withstand loneliness and deal with reality and pursuit in an orderly manner, which is an extraordinary realm. Only when we have gone through all the storms, reminiscing about the past and looking back suddenly can we understand the profound meaning and mystery.