On Love in Ordinary Life (Debate)

I used my spare time to watch 56 episodes of TV series "Ordinary World" for many nights, and I felt a sense of superiority in my heart. This TV series is adapted from Mr. Lu Yao's novel "Ordinary World" of the same name. I was lucky enough to open this novel when I was a student. Because the story was too long, I didn't have the patience to finish it, so I gave up halfway. In fact, I had a strange idea at that time, that is, reading literary novels in the study room of law school is a crime. Therefore, after watching this long TV series, I am particularly happy that I can finally overcome my impatient and pedantic self.

The story is very long. Every time I read a part, I was particularly moved and shocked. Sometimes there is even a bitterness in my heart, but what impresses me more is their extraordinary love in ordinary life.

First of all, I want to mention the love between Wang Manyin and Sun. Many people may find it strange, but their love is ordinary and shocking. When the whole village thought that Wang Manyin was a tramp and fooling around everywhere, Sun endured his father's abuse and decided to marry such a tramp and fool around everywhere. Then he dragged two dolls and ran to that simple and ordinary home, leaving him wandering for several years. As long as he goes home, Sun is still there waiting for him and welcoming him. Even if Wang Manyin made a mistake that others could not forgive, Sun forgave him. Even Wang Manyin brought back a Nanyang woman to hang out with. Sun went to the township cadres with anger and asked them to help drive away Nanyang women. When she was told that they were going to take Nanyang women with Wang Manyin, Sun gave up. She said that she would not sue and chose to commit suicide by taking poison. Because it is her favorite Wang Manyin, it ignited her girlish feelings for the first time. As Wang Manyin himself said, although Wang Manyin is a gangster, he is also a gangster who loves his grandson. Orchid's love for him is true, and so is his love for orchids, but this love can't change his nature as a tramp.

Secondly, I want to talk about the love between Tian Runye and Li Xiangqian. Why not love? Because I think there is a kind of affection between them. They didn't have love before or even after they got married, but they gradually established family ties in their marriage life. Li Xiangqian kept saying that he loved Tian Runye, but as a bystander, I only saw a foolish love from a young man with immature mind. He didn't try to close the distance between him and Tian Runye. Although his family background is better than Tian Runye's, he is just a driver. Even in those days, the driver was a dazzling profession, but he had no spiritual communication with Tian Runye. Later, Li Xiangqian had a car accident and became a person with incomplete limbs. On the contrary, it aroused Tian Runye's sympathy for taking care of him and loving him. After all, she is his lawfully wedded wife. So, she reluctantly left her first love in her heart, and began to slowly accept the fact that she was Li Xiangqian's wife, and began to fulfill her wife's obligations and strive to be a good wife and mother. Finally, she did it. When they took their children back to Shuangshui Village for the Spring Festival, the three seemed to be more harmonious and happy than other normal families. There is no doubt that it is Runye who propped up this family with strong arms, and let Li Xiangqian see the expectation of life. If you don't have the strength and gentleness of Runye, you may lose your life because of a car accident.

Then, I want to mention the love between Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian. Although, for a long time before Sun Shaoan found Xiu-lian He, his heart was full of Tian Runye, just like Run Ye's heart was once his, but Sun Shaoan soon began to assume the role of husband, or, to put himself as the "father" in this big family. Xiulian is busy going back and forth in the fields, fields, brick yards and home for this family. She is industrious, kind, virtuous and knowledgeable, and has forged a warm harbor for Sun Shaoan with the unique gentleness and verve of women in the Loess Plateau. At first, he couldn't bear to carry a big burden on his body alone, and wanted to reduce his burden by separation, but Shao An strongly refused, and she didn't pester him too much. When Shao 'an was in the start-up stage and worried about money, Xiulian went to her hometown in Shanxi to report borrowing money without telling Shao 'an. When the bricks burned in the brick kiln became waste, Xiulian returned to her hometown in Shanxi in a rage. No one expected that she would go back to her hometown to borrow money to solve the difficulties for Shao An. When Shao 'an's brick factory reopened, pregnant Xiulian insisted on helping her to save money and hire fewer helpers. When Sun Shaoan's career improved, He Xiulian was diagnosed with lung cancer. Shao An abandoned all his companions to take care of Xiulian, hoping that moment would last forever. Although the story ends with the whole family getting together for the Spring Festival, we should imagine that Xiulian will die of cancer in the near future. The director deliberately told us to avoid the worst scene and let it stay in our audience's reverie, which may be beyond the reach of the original tragic ending, because China people still like comedy in their bones, even if it is temporary.

Then, there is the love between Tian Xiaoxia and Sun Shaoping. Xiao Xia, a naive girl who grew up in a cadre family, has been living a life of food and clothing. Her personality is frank and straightforward, and she dares to love and hate, which is quite a bit of the courage and responsibility of boys. Shao Ping was born in a poor rural family and has been a farmer for generations. The life of the whole family depends on his father and brother. He has done his best to get him into high school. Although he didn't even have enough to eat at school, poverty made him sensitive, competitive and diligent, and his strong self-esteem always concealed a sense of inferiority, but he still gritted his teeth and finished high school. In this way, two people living in completely different environments still fell in love after experiencing such a special era as the Cultural Revolution. They played different roles in life at that time. One is the daughter of a prefectural party committee secretary and a reporter from a provincial newspaper, and the other is the son of a poor middle peasant and an underground worker in Daya Bay Coal Mine. But it doesn't affect their love at all. She will run all the way from the provincial capital to the coal mine to visit the man with a soot face. Perhaps it is because Mr. Lu Yao deliberately did not set any artificial obstacles for their love, in order to achieve a touching love. As Tian Xiaoxia wrote in his diary: True love should not be selfish, but altruistic; It is a process of being willing to work with your lover and constantly update yourself; It's a * * * struggle of integration, complete integration. Are you determined to make the greatest sacrifice for him? This is the standard to measure whether you really love or not, otherwise you will be deceived by your feelings.

Then, there is the brotherhood between Tian Runsheng and Sun Shaoping. Although they are not brothers, they take care of each other like brothers along the way. When I was at school, Tian Runsheng, the son of the village party secretary, often helped Shao Ping solve the slightly better situation at home, gave him some food stamps occasionally for something good to eat, and asked his classmates to secretly help him export evil spirits when he saw Shao Ping being bullied. After graduation, both of them are idle at home. In the village, they finally got a junior high school class and got a teacher quota. Runsheng was sheltered by his father, and of course he got the quota, but he was worried and sad because Shao Ping didn't have a formal job. Later, in order to give this teacher place to Shao Ping, he chose to be a soldier and was deafened by shells in the war. Runsheng didn't want his family to know that he was deaf, so he asked Shao Ping to help him repeat what he said in his ear. All these tiny drops make people cry. I don't know if you can feel this deep brotherhood, but I was deeply moved by their affection.

Finally, I want to talk about Sun Shaoan and Tian Fujun's love for farmers. Although Shao An, the village leader, and Tian Fujun, the secretary of your prefectural party committee and deputy secretary of the provincial party committee, cannot be compared in social status, they have the same heart of thinking, doing, caring for, helping and protecting the people. They have the same dream, that is, let farmers eat enough, from eating black-flour buns to eating yellow-flour buns and then eating white-flour buns. Mr. Lu Yao deliberately let them meet many times, and even agreed on the production responsibility system ideologically. For the sake of farmers' happiness, Tian Fujun did not hesitate to implement the production responsibility system at the expense of political future, and parted ways with other leaders. Shao An will take the risk of being criticized for the problem of food and clothing for villagers, take the lead in distributing pig feed and implementing the production responsibility system. After the policy was relaxed, Shao An set up a brick factory and took the villagers to work in the brick factory to pay wages. Even if the brick factory doesn't need so much labor, Shao An will promise anything as long as there are helpers in order to give the villagers a mouth to eat. When his business improved, he envisaged spending some money to build a rural school, let the dolls go to school in a good environment, hire good English teachers for the children, and set up scholarships to encourage outstanding children to enter high schools and universities. These two tough men written by Mr. Lu Yao are portrayed step by step as "fathers" in the big family in northern Shaanxi. They would rather be bitter and tired by themselves, so that their people can eat enough and live a better life step by step.

At this point, maybe someone will ask me why I didn't mention the affection between Tian Runye and Sun Shaoan. The reason why I keep silent about this is because I think Mr. Lu Yao deliberately sacrificed their pure first love to achieve the same great feelings between Runye and striker, Xiulian and Shao An. He showed us a kind, intelligent and brave moistening leaf. In the face of a husband who had no love for him at the beginning, a husband with broken limbs, she did not hesitate to shoulder the responsibility of his wife, although Xiao Ange in her heart has not gone far; He also showed us a man who dared to love and hate, took care of the overall situation and let go of it. He can quickly cut off his favorite, play the role of a good husband and father, and lead his wife to make things better at home every day. Although Runye has been buried in his heart, they are not entangled and entangled with each other. Mr. Lu Yao ruined this pure and beautiful first love, but created two greater people and two harmonious and happy families.

Halfway through, a friend of mine told me the outline and ending of the story, because she had read the original work before. I don't even want to look down, not because I already know what the ending is, but because I can't bear to see the ending she said. Because I am an idealist, I still hope that the ending is happy, but I can't accept the beauty of the shortcomings presented to us at the end of the story in the original book.

But in the end, I bravely watched all the plays, and my little heart beat with the flashing of the screen. At first, Wang, a hardworking, kind and brave Daya Bay coal miner, was crushed on the spot by a steel plate to save his apprentice An Zuozi, so that Huiying and her mother lost the sunshine of this family, and the orphans and widows lived together from then on. Fortunately, Wang's apprentice helped take care of it. Then, Tian Xiaoxia, a young man with a very saint plot, was swept away by the flood in order to save his children, leaving Sun Shaoping alone to go to Huangyuan Guta Mountain for an appointment. Then, the unyielding Sun Shaoping was disfigured in a coal mine accident, which made a strong, handsome and self-respecting young man suffer the hardships and blows of life again. Then, hardworking, virtuous and knowledgeable, He Xiulian was found to be seriously ill. A foreign girl with only primary school education married to Shuangshui Village alone and helped her grandson live a good life with a pair of hard-working hands. Before enjoying a good life for a few days, she suffered from lung cancer herself, and suffering once again enveloped this family that had just been immersed in joy. Seeing this, I am particularly afraid to see the scene of He Xiulian leaving, because it is said that she died of illness in the original work. But the director made a small subtotal here. Xiulian was secretly taken home from the hospital by Sun Shaoan, and the family was reunited for the Spring Festival. The story came to an abrupt end, interrupting the tragedy on the screen. In fact, Xiulian was dying at the door, but the screenwriter suddenly woke up and told the audience that she had just fallen asleep, which was a perfect ending for the director to warm the hearts of the audience.

I have always felt that all good things should exist forever, which is a hope and a luxury. Because life is often not like this, life is always so cruel; This is often not the case in stories. The design of the story has always been to let readers have a regret that can never be made up, so that readers can always reminisce about the ending that should not have happened, and design the ending that should be displayed by themselves.

In fact, there are many people and things that can be eulogized in the whole story, such as the hardworking and simple father and grandson, the hardworking and sensible sister and grandson, and the simple and tearful affection between the family. The reason why the story is ordinary and touching is that it embodies the loveliness and respectability of human nature. There are no grand memorabilia, they are trivial and ordinary things, but in these small lives, the affection, love, friendship, hardworking and simple people of that special era and a group of cadres who are full of care and love for the people are displayed.