Why does the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls exist in our country?

We can see slogans against "sexism" in every corner, but I personally feel that it has become an empty slogan in today's society and cannot completely eliminate the "preferring boys over girls" Thought.

First of all, let me give you an example: One day, I saw a woman in her early twenties, accompanied by three or four little girls, and holding a little boy who had just turned one year old in her arms. I'm thinking to myself that people nowadays are really a "precocious breed", and they have so many children at such a young age. But in less than a while, I finally understood that their family was full of children and grandchildren just to have such a little brother. My sister literally became a kindergarten teacher.

Furthermore, there is the prenatal "gender determination" that we all should know. If a boy wants it, the girl will be cruelly "killed". Are these questions about the professional ethics of doctors that should be investigated? Or should we condemn the obsessiveness of parenthood? We are both parents, and you are also a woman. Why do you do this? If your mother had "killed" you back then, would you still be here now? Of course, our male compatriots are also "to blame". This not only hurts the body of your beloved, but also hurts the energy of both of you. Therefore, I strongly advocate that "boys and girls are born the same"! ! !

Thinking again of the latest “cutting-edge weapon” – in vitro fertilization. Technology is becoming more and more developed day by day. This "cutting-edge weapon" is amazing. It can meet any of your requirements and give you whatever you want. NND! ! ! Now you can also "clone" it. If you just like that child, you can just "clone" it and make it your son. There is no need to talk about marriage, since technology is so advanced now! ! !

Comrades! We must pay attention to quality and good health and education. Even if you give birth to a boy, if you don’t get a good education when you grow up and become the kind of situation where “a rat crosses the street and everyone shouts to beat him”, you might as well give birth to a girl!

I would also like to talk about my personal views on why "the feudal ideology of favoring boys over girls is still spread among the people." I also hope that everyone can share their personal views.

From rural areas to cities, from old people with little education to educated young people with higher education, "preferring boys over girls" is still a common phenomenon. The idea of ??"preferring boys over girls" is very common in many rural areas of China. This is one of the fundamental reasons why our rural areas have always been so poor. Many girls in rural areas have become victims of this old idea. No matter what path they take, it is not what they want, because in fact, they don't want to be like this, and they are not wrong. There is a long way to go to change the face of rural areas...

In addition to the fact that the concept has not changed, I think there are also the following objective reasons.

1. The need for productivity

my country is a large agricultural country, farmers are still the main body of this society, and agricultural mechanization has not been popularized due to various reasons. Most of the farm work, such as plowing the fields, planting the land, and carrying burdens, is heavy physical work. Farmers' families are in urgent need of manual workers who can do heavy work. Due to the different physiological structures of men and women, women's physical strength is obviously not as good as men's. It is better to have a son than a daughter. For farmers who need strong labor force, this is not difficult to understand. But as far as I know, most of the young people in rural areas are looking for career outside the home, and few are willing to do farm work at home.

2. The decadent idea of ??passing on the family line

Jinling Evening News reported: Just three days after she was born, she had no name and could not even see the world clearly. Unfortunately, this baby girl died young. While she was sleeping, she was strangled by her biological father, all because she was a girl and because her father wanted a boy. In only 3 days, she came to this world and left this world. Nowadays, people believe that only men can carry out the family line, which leads to the phenomenon of favoring sons over daughters. I am afraid that no one in my generation will continue to "incense" and will be criticized by others. How long is human life? No one knows when it will be "woe, woe, woe", will you still know it then?

Therefore, if we want to completely eradicate this "cancer", we also need to ask everyone to remember that "having a son and a daughter is the same, and a daughter will also pass on to future generations." This phenomenon has seriously led to an imbalance in the ratio of men to women in our country. If this continues, will there be an increase in the proportion of "polyandry" or "bachelorhood"? These are things we should reflect on. question.

3. Women’s status in society and family is still significantly lower than that of men

Although women and men have achieved equal pay for equal work, women’s status has been continuously improved, and a law on the protection of women’s rights and interests has been enacted. But do women really occupy half the sky as some people say? Today, when equality between men and women is advocated, an undeniable fact is that men are still the masters of this society.

From a political perspective, although the state guarantees that women enjoy equal political rights with men, what percentage of these people in power are women? Men have always been the mainstream and dominated society. Although women also occupy some important positions, their numbers are extremely small and pitifully small. Don’t believe it? If you count on your hands, how many female mayors, female governors, and female leaders of the State Council can you name? Even in today's kindergartens, male teachers have become a brand, and many parents even designate their children to enroll in classes led by male teachers.

The low social status directly determines the low status of the family. In repeated reports of domestic violence, it is often heard that husbands beat their wives until their noses are bruised and swollen, but it is rare to hear of wives punching and kicking their husbands. That’s why there is a Women’s Federation to protect women’s rights, but there is no Men’s Federation to protect men’s rights. The existence of the Women's Federation just shows that women are a vulnerable group that needs protection. And the names of those remote places are even more interesting:

Those who sleep together, those who warm their feet, those who sleep together, those who eat at the same table, those who sleep in the same nest, and those who go to the fields on the same slope Those who died were buried in a pit, those who cooked fish and steamed meat in a pot... What the hell?

In modern life, people simply go to the hospital for B-ultrasound to identify the gender of their fetus. Our relevant departments must severely crack down on this phenomenon and implement the spirit of relevant superiors. We should vigorously educate people about the harm of abortion to women and let them know that abortion is an act of killing life at will, which is contrary to traditional ethics and moral concepts. If we cannot fundamentally improve the status of women and truly realize that women account for half of the society, just saying "having children and giving birth to girls is the same and opposing gender discrimination" can only become an empty slogan and cannot completely eliminate the phenomenon of "preferring boys over girls". Thought.