From then on, the ends of the earth are far away, only bless and cherish.

In the afternoon, I passed the main administrative building of Jiangsu Normal University. In front of the building was a large exhibition board with photos of this year's graduates. Many students were looking for their own photos and taking a group photo.

After many years of graduation, I can feel that kind of graduation mood, which is confused, warm, sad, reluctant, and slightly sad ...

In June, the university campus was full of sadness and melancholy of parting, just like the flying catkins in March, which permeated the whole campus and floated into the hearts of every graduate.

It's graduation season again, and campus life and youth may come to a perfect end here, and then enter another stage of life.

This is a watershed in life. If we used to study in school, then the next stage is the stage of practice in the society, which is also a new starting point for everyone's life and the beginning of re-learning.

You always say that graduation is far away, and then you go your separate ways. You who used to sit at the same table, your brother who slept in my upper bunk, the teenager who used to chase the wind, and the era when white clothes fluttered are gone forever.

Do you still have your great ambitions, lofty aspirations, and those frivolous childishness in your youth?

Give it to my brother who smokes, and play football and drink with my roommates who chase girls. From then on, they will all embark on different life paths.

We naively thought that even if we parted, all our feelings would not change, and we would meet again soon. We thought we could do it, but in fact, no one could understand the meaning of parting at first.

Perhaps no one will notice that graduation photo may be our last and most comprehensive gathering. In this life, we may never have such a complete picture again, but we naively think that there will be a future.

On the night of college entrance examination, I had a video chat with two old classmates whom I haven't contacted for a long time.

Pershing is from Tai 'an. He claims to have the same name as Pershing, the only six-star general in the United States. I always look dismissive.

We had a brief intersection in high school, but the relationship has always been very good. Later, he went to Hohhot in college, and I was in Baotou, and I always kept in touch. I also went to visit him when I was passing through Hohhot.

After graduating from college, we all moved around for many years, and finally he settled in Tai 'an, and I also returned to Shandong.

Tai 'an and Linyi are not far away, and they have always been in contact. I want to have a chance to get together, but the pressure of life and work will not give you a chance to breathe.

I passed by Tai 'an once, but I never wanted to meet him. After all, I was too busy, and he might not have time to go to work.

In this way, sometimes you can't make three or two phone calls a year, and occasionally making a phone call is nothing more than talking about your own situation.

His father was in poor health. When he asked again, he said that the old man died last year, and he is getting married now.

Liangliang is a native of Liaocheng. We are classmates in the same university and in Shandong. Every year, she calls me to play or comes to visit me. Every time, I politely refuse.

I always feel that time is short, and it's boring to stay for a day and a half. But after a long time, I don't have the conditions. I might as well just disappear. Sometimes it's better to miss seeing each other, so what can I talk about when I see them?

He called more before he got married, but when he got married and had children, he had less contact.

let's talk about how long we haven't contacted each other. Let's be clear, it's been a long time, but it's not, that is, we only contacted less last year.

Liang Liang said, "Now I know why I don't have time to meet each other. I didn't get married before, but I always thought I could meet them. Although I work, I have money and time, and the most important thing is freedom. Now I'm married, I'm working hard to support my family, and I'm not in the mood or in the conditions."

I said, just call or video chat occasionally.

Every time I'm talking and complaining about what I'm doing, I ask Liangliang about the situation, and Liangliang says, "Seeing how miserable you are, my heart is much more balanced and comfortable, and there's nothing to talk about, haha!"

Still so frank and humorous, we all laughed.

In fact, we haven't changed, but we all have our own small circle. Sometimes we want to talk to each other, but we don't think it's necessary. Besides, the other party may not understand, and it's meaningless to talk about it. So, slowly, we no longer contact each other.

After graduating from college, we had such a good relationship with the four roommates in the dormitory. We ate, drank and slept together, but now we have no contact. I don't know when they got married and had children, their current circle or whether their work is satisfactory.

don't be surprised. In fact, they don't know me either. We don't need to make phone calls or even text messages on holidays. I think not contacting is the best memory, which is much better than contacting without saying anything, thus avoiding embarrassment.

to get used to a new life, maybe our intersection in this life is those four years. We don't need to say anything, and it is the wonderful time of those four years when we think of each other occasionally.

There are many contact meetings just after graduation. After all, there are many contact methods now, and there are all kinds of classmates. But after a long time, you will find that the classmates are getting quieter and quieter, which makes them a decoration.

After graduation, we have to accept the reality that there is nothing to talk about. Our lives will no longer intersect, and we will widen the gap in three years, five years and ten years.

we never lack contact information, but we never want to contact again. More or less frequent contact has become no contact since then, and there may be loss, but we must accept the reality.

Life is for a four-year reunion, and then a farewell. From then on, there will never be such a complete reunion. Only infinite nostalgia and emotion are the most beautiful memories.

The campus in the graduation season is sad and warm, with banners and slogans everywhere to bid farewell to graduates.

There are garbage collectors everywhere, and the agent of the courier company is taking care of the bags one by one.

The campus is full of pictures to commemorate, and there are also small ornaments with commemorative significance.

farewell dinner, friendship, affection and love, no matter how much regret and disappointment, have become a thing of the past since today, and will disappear with time.

All good things must come to an end. This farewell is like mountains in the south and seas in the north, the ends of the earth and mountains in the water. From then on, there is no future. Only cherish your blessings and look forward to meeting again, drinking new wine and remembering the past with laughter.

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