Please control your temper, because impulse is the devil!

Earlier, a post on the Internet was very popular: a 9-year-old boy from Wuhan went to Carnegie's "Weakness of Human Nature" to deal with his mother's anger. Every time his mother gets angry, he turns to books to educate her: Is it useful for you to lose your temper?

Then his mother really woke up and was completely conquered. In this regard, netizens have praised and praised the children for their age.

There is no doubt that I got a revelation from this child: when things happen, solve your feelings first, and then solve things.

Losing your temper won't solve anything. Even 9-year-olds know that we adults can't be stubborn.

If you can't control your temper, even if you give the whole world, you will destroy it sooner or later.

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It can be seen that a good temper is the best dress a person can wear in social life. As long as you have a good temper, life is certainly not much worse.

I remember someone saying that 98% of losers come from temper. I don't necessarily agree with this conclusion, but it is often the case in reality.

As the saying goes, be kind to others with less disputes, and be kind to others with more friends.

Whether a person can develop depends on his temper. The bigger his temper, the less likely he is to succeed.

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In a sense, your temper hides your tolerance, cultivation and character.

A few days ago, I came across the former leader walking by the sea, so I went for a ride with him. He said he regretted being so bad-tempered when he was in office. He is always angry with his employees and loves to lose his temper from time to time. Finally, everyone was angry, and so was he. He even regretted that those smelly tempers in the past were actually not bad, lacking the proper mind and tolerance.

To tell the truth, I appreciate the old leader's Tancheng, and I can face up to my past. If it had been so sudden, his career might have gone further, not to mention today's chagrin.

Many times, when we evaluate whether a person is atmospheric, elegant and connotative, it is very important to look at his temper, especially for people with certain power, but this is often the weakness of many people.

In fact, who has no temper? It's just that others are more determined and cultivated than you, and don't haggle with you.

You know, sometimes your bad temper helps some people. You may have done your best for a period of time, but you paid a huge price and even regretted it for life.

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In real life, there are still some people who always give their smiles to others and leave their bad temper to the closest relatives.

Once upon a time, there was a friend. When he is outside, he is always smiling, polite and amiable. Even if he is uncomfortable, he can swallow it. However, as long as I get home, I will be completely different. I have no patience with my parents and relatives. When I feel a little unhappy, I will be willful, accuse and complain, and even drink four. That alone makes me look down on him.

Losing your temper in front of your parents and relatives means that they will tolerate your bad temper because of their love for you. Although, they are quiet, but invisible is a kind of harm.

Whether your temper is good or not depends first on your attitude towards your loved ones, because that is your most authentic character.

Please control your temper, because impulse is the devil, and maybe one day it will make you do irreparable things.

As a woman, please remember Yi Shu's 76 words.

1. A lady with real temperament never shows off everything. She doesn't tell people what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has and what jewelry she has bought, because she has no sense of inferiority. -"Round Dance"

2, it's deep, but it's hard to say. It turns out that if you really love someone and feel sour in your heart, you will be speechless and sweet-talk, and most of you will tell irrelevant people. -"Two or three things about her"

3. The grievances that can be said are not grievances; A lover who can be taken away is not a lover. -"Open the tea"

4, love is not enough, there are many excuses. -"Wei Zi's Wish"

The best revenge is not hatred, but heartfelt indifference. Why hate an irrelevant person-"the first half of my life"

6. No matter how luxurious the wedding is, it doesn't mean that the marriage is happy. Whether two people live in harmony for a lifetime has nothing to do with how many seats and jewelry there are. -Little Bauhinia

7. No matter what you do, remember that it is for yourself, so there is no complaint-"The Last Romance"

8. If you love someone, don't live with him or get married. Keep a wide distance, when you meet, you can pay tribute with admiring eyes, be gentle and sincere, and ask "OK?" Once a year is enough. -"Absolutely a dream"

9. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love is mature, they will get married naturally, but they don't know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married. It's simple. Love ... is quite another matter. -"My First Half Life"

10, the adaptation of two people is an inner feeling, not a vision. Never ignore your inner feelings because you satisfy your vision. -"Flowers are always good, the moon is always round, and people are long."

1 1, as long as you can cry, crying is a symbol of healing. -"Absolutely a dream"

12, my destination is health and talent. A person can be trusted after all, but it is himself who can stand up for him. What destination do I want? I found myself, and I am my destination. -"Rouge"

13, living beautifully requires great patience. One does not complain and the other does not explain. He is definitely a talent. -"Metamorphosis"

14, thinking that others are grateful for everything is bound to be disappointed. -"Land"

15, I also want to make it clear that marriage is such a thing. It will be gone in three or five years. After work, everyone turned on the TV and watched a long series together. Life is like this. -"Single Woman"

16, no matter what, it is always unforgivable for a person to fall under an excuse. The more unloved you are, the more you should love yourself. -"Fragments of Stars"

17. As a woman, you should look like a painting. Don't make clothes. Men tried and tried, but no one bought it. It's worn out and it's difficult to sell it at 50% discount. -"Xibao"

18, if you want to live a happy life, you have to step on the carpet first, or someone will always stand up for you and dissuade you. Instead of waiting for others to start, it is better to punch yourself first. In short, you will slander yourself to be worthless, and others will be angry and not jealous-My First Half Life

19, worrying about other people's feelings is never worth forgiving. Emotion is a luxury, and some people have never been in love in their lives. Love is like a flower in a vase, it can't last forever. -"City Story"

20. Life is like running water. These unpleasant things will eventually pass. It's no use being unhappy if you are destined to live like this all your life. -"Woman Thirty"

2 1, poverty is a state of mind. If you persist in being poor all your life, a lot of money won't save you. -"Music in the next room"

22. Life is never fair. How much you get depends on how hard you work and how hard you live. -"We are not angels"

23. You can't stay when you are gone, and you can't love when you are gone. If you could stay and love, there wouldn't be today. -"Flowers are always good, the moon is always round, and people are long."

24. "You probably misunderstood that a college degree is the key to the world and opens the door to smooth sailing. This is not correct. The purpose of reading is to learn more and broaden your horizons. All the troubles in life will always follow, but knowledge cultivation can make a person analyze and deal with these problems more rationally and calmly. " -"Flowers are always good, the moon is always round, and people are long."

25. Fortunately, pigs, unfortunately, people. I am a lucky unfortunate, at least I sleep like a pig. -"If there is love in heaven"

26. This is a highly competitive society. Those who are not qualified to leave had better not leave, or they will turn back. This position has been occupied. There is no barrier, and it is useless to be idle and angry. -"Once loved"

27. Eat and drink in time and enjoy everything God has given you. Never listen to embarrassing words and never meet ugly people. Or do something difficult and fall in love with someone you shouldn't love. -"Electro-optic Phantom"

28. No matter what mistakes you make in life, it is your own fault, especially the fault of others. Learn from mistakes, keep making progress until you don't make the same mistakes, and never put the blame on others' shoulders, so as not to lose the opportunity to learn. -"Asura"

29. Who will take care of who for life now? What a heavy burden this is. So you must stand on your own two feet. -"It's not easy to live"

30. Real talents are as difficult to collect as flames, and they will always start a prairie fire. -"Once loved"

3 1. What is a friend's obligation to keep his secret? If he doesn't want anyone to know, don't say it. If you don't let him talk, he will itch to death, so friends can borrow their ears to listen to it. Who cares! -"Qin Pi"

32. People must be injured to be silent and focused. Whether it is mental or physical trauma, it is good for growth. -"Flower Xie Yu"

A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer strange people, and everyone has his difficulties. -"We are not angels"

34, lost things, in fact, never really belong to you, there is no need to regret. -"The Story of the Rose"

35. Why do you want to prove something to an unworthy person? Life is better for yourself. -"Suddenly this summer"

36, two people living together, is it an art, is it a hard project of the Great Wall in Wan Li. -"The Story of the Rose"

37. Capable people influence others, while incapable people are influenced by others. -"Xibao"

When trouble comes to you, you must deal with it. If not, let it sleep.

39. I want a lot of love. If there is no love, then there is a lot of money. If there is neither, it is good to have health. -"Xibao"

40, smart people, there is no need to live up to expectations. -"serial"

4 1, be subtle, muddle along, don't haggle over every ounce, there are no fish in the water, no disciples in people, and no one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Just remember something. -"Rose Bubble"

42. If someone throws money at you, kneel down and pick it up one by one, it doesn't matter. It's about your food and clothing, and a little self-esteem is nothing. -"Xibao"

43. In the dark, I took out my cup and drank the wine. There were countless things and so many annoying things. I gnashed my teeth and didn't know which one to choose, so I left it all behind and went to sleep quietly. -"Hu Er this summer"

44. I was carrying a bag and picking it up as I walked. I picked up countless unwanted things along the way. When I met what I really wanted, the bag was full. -"Indian Ink"

45. A person can't leave because he doesn't want to go far; A man stands up because he doesn't want to keep an appointment. All excuses are nonsense, used to cover up his unwillingness to sacrifice. -"One thousand and one magic recipes"

46. All women who can do their best have the symbol of a lady. -"Now everything is wrong."

47. The main reason why people don't explain is that they don't care what the other person thinks. Unimportant people have a little misunderstanding about unimportant things. What does it matter? Believe it or not, it has no influence on the life of the client. Why explain? -"Asura"

48. However, women are women after all. After a long time, they let their feelings germinate, resulting in this sad situation today. Women are wishful thinking, and they will grow up. Whether it's a one-night stand, living together or joining in the fun, they always hope to grow old together. Few women are really handsome. They always want to scrape something from men. -"Rouge"

49. It is not love to love someone who will never be handsome. Leave a step for yourself-Fragments of the Stars is not love either.

50. I like to learn from smart people without knowledge. Their methods are unreasonable, primitive and embarrassing, but they often work. Educated women are polite in everything, even throwing away their only weapon and letting society kill them. -"Jade Pear Soul"

5 1.a It is this indifference that usually attracts men, but men finally marry women who admire him. A woman without talent lives by getting married, and a woman with ability lives by herself-city story.

52, man! When you ask a woman to look like a woman, ask yourself how much you look like a man -"City Story"

53. As beautiful as flowers and jade, the enemy is no match for the fleeting time. -"hyacinthus orientalis"

54. Life is only a few decades. The most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others. -"Brave New World"

55. People often only believe what they want to believe-old love is like a dream.

56. There is no such thing as a free lunch. Either way, you will pay the price. -"Flower Xie Yu"

57. Ten years of cold window, ten years of hard work, plus 10% luck, can you have a career. Don't take things too simple. Most people can only have one job to make a living and work hard all their lives. How many people dare to say that his job is a career? -"Round Dance"

58. It is the stupidest thing to show off your self-esteem in front of money and love. -"My First Half Life"

59. Man is such a complicated animal. It is impossible to know each other. If you don't know, you can't get along. It's better to be single. -"Beautiful Charm"

60. Society only loves people who are healthy, smart and willing to work hard. Whoever is patient with his mother-in-law will turn everything in life into business and use each other. As for the indifference of the world and the indifference of human feelings, it is normal. -"Pupils"

6 1, it's your own business to fail. When you wake up at midnight, you can enjoy yourself, but I want you to pretend that nothing happened. You can do it, we can all do it, and that's how people live. Ponte dei Sospiri

62. I don't know how many times I have to be criticized in my life: I have overreached myself in fighting for the upper reaches, and it has become too calculating to be careful. It's selfish to protect yourself. I just did something wrong and was bullied and retreated to the corner because there was no support. -"Black sheep"

You want to change because you are willing to change yourself. Not for anyone. I'm afraid that person will let you down, and you'll be the same again. -"It's not easy to live"

64. Every generation doesn't work as hard as the next generation. The hardest thing for this generation is to take efforts for granted. -"False Dreams and True Tears"

65. Many people don't love each other, but they can get along for life. Love is easy to get bored. -"Mom"

66. If a person wants to surpass his environment and background, it is not enough to make progress. He must evolve. How can everyone achieve such a great cause? -"The wind casts a shadow in front of it."

67. Life seems too long, but it is too short. 2 1 year has passed, so if you don't do all the things you should or shouldn't do in a hurry before you are 40, you won't do too much afterwards, so everyone doesn't have enough time.

68. Gains and losses are life. Don't be angry. -All the Stars in the Sky

69. Crying needs a person to hide from crying and laughing. The whole world laughs with you-Death of Love

70. Relationships will never graduate. Every day is like soaking in gravel, grinding slowly, and the valuable experience accumulated after breaking the skin is the smoothness of the general population. -"My First Half Life"

7 1, it takes a lot of effort to cheat a person, no matter how willing she is to cheat her, so someone will cheat you severely in the future, so don't expose him. -"Hu Er this summer"

72, a free society, free choice, you have to laugh before you can laugh, otherwise laughing is ugly than crying, and you don't have to be forced. -"A Sunny Day"

73. Maybe a person can only smile when he is really helpless. -"Jia Ming and Rose"

74. Everything should be quiet; Come quietly, go quietly, work quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid making noise. -"Until the seas run dry and the rocks crumble."

75. In fact, it is difficult for people to be truly free. It's often the one who locks people up. Unconsciously, we are either slaves of feelings or servants of career. -"serial"

The cake is delicious and the coffee is sweet. There is no earthquake here. It's good to be alive.

Love is the devil.

Beauty will get old, love will get cold and marriage will get old. Three tragedies in life

If you are weak, you can't live well; If you are strong, you will die of natural causes; Being a celebrity, you can't live your own life; As a civilian, you can't live other people's lives; The life span of a person is very short; Being a woman lacks youth.

The difficulties of life.

The biggest wish after marriage is to live like before marriage.

Romance in plain life

Love is like money, sometimes the more you think about it, the less it is with you.

Plant flowers with heart, but not with heart.

It is a modern way of life to throw rubbish into the corner and then take it back from TV.

Introspection of a white-collar worker

Men live by forgetting, while women live by remembering.

The difference between words tells the mystery of life.

Touch me if you are not afraid of death.

Slogans beside high-voltage power lines

The son can't control it, but the daughter can't control it.

Being a parent is hard.

Don't think about how much you have suffered. The world champion is yours.

Fu Mingxia's coach Yu Fen said.

A diploma, two languages, three rooms and one living room, four seasons famous brand, good facial features, generous, with a monthly salary of 7 thousand, exquisite, nine (alcohol) non-smoking, very honest.

Quotations of Shanghai girls' mate selection

The three most painful things for a man: being caught by his lover to accompany his wife to buy food, being caught by his wife to accompany his lover to go shopping, and being stuck in an alley by his wife and lover at the same time.

The sigh of extramarital lovers in front of their best friends

Love is like playing the piano. At first, there were rules to follow, and then it was completely sincere.

A wonderful metaphor of an experienced person who claims to have experienced many blind dates and finally succeeded in finding the right person.

A kind of person, with a small official position, is particularly capable of doing things; A person who doesn't earn much and can spend money; A kind of people, strangers to each other, are very friendly.

-officials had better not associate with such people.

If you want to have a bad day, treat; If you want to be restless for a year, build a house; If you want to live a quiet life, marry a concubine.

-Liang Shiqiu

If you are near a fool, you will be stupid; if you are near wisdom, you will be wise; if you are near poverty, you will be poor; if you are near wealth, you will be expensive.

-Near Zhu Zhechi, if you are near the ink, you won't be able to finish what you said.

People don't talk about faith, personal views on society, sex and law. Therefore, food and medicine occupy most of China people's daily life.

China people in the eyes of foreigners

For some people, shopping malls are battlefields, love fields are money fields, fate is casinos, and life is playgrounds.

-It's not nonsense

Nowadays, people are scrambling to become figures. At this time, there is less humanity and more physical things.

-One of the characters

Some are fish-to-fish encounters, some are fish-to-hook encounters, and some are hook-to-hook encounters.

-Fate is like fishing

There is hope, something to do and love.

-This is happiness.

Love is the devil. It teaches men to lie and women to be coquettish.

-Gender Quotations

Many great things are often defeated by small people, because people who do great things always tend to ignore small people.

-Details determine success or failure

Just like Jiang Yang would rather be beaten than beaten; I would rather be scolded, never swear, and only be excellent.

-Zhang Zhongxing, a master of Chinese studies, commented on the pros and cons of people.

What makes people lose their minds is the temptation of the outside world; It is often one's own desires that eventually exhaust the mind.

-there are differences inside and outside.

Get enough sleep and sleep if you want; Eat moderately and eat when you are hungry; Exercise every day; Don't worry about yesterday or tomorrow.

Humans should learn from animals.

Forty sentences about online shopping, please spend rationally and don't be impulsive.

Regarding online shopping, please spend rationally and don't be impulsive. 1. Merchants are honest and customers are rational.

2. Improve the credit system and create a rational city.

3. Everyone loves civilized cities, and rational consumption is more exciting.

4. Consumption promotes development and rationality creates harmony.

5. Concentrate on consumption vitality and make the world beautiful and wonderful.

6. Shopping is risky, and inspection should be expert.

7. A small step for rational consumption is a big step for a harmonious city.

8. Honest and trustworthy, rational consumption.

9. Improve the consumption environment and prosper the consumer market.

10. Rational consumption, starting from now, starting from me.

1 1. There are unlimited business opportunities and good faith.

12. Emotion leads to rational consumption, and the heart is connected with the future of the city.

13. Emotion has great inspiring power, so it is an important prerequisite for all moral behaviors. -Kailov

14. People should have a rational consumption orientation, not excessive consumption.

15. Everyone is honest and rational.

16. Rational consumption is hand in hand, and civilized cities are heart to heart.

17. Harmony and beauty are everywhere, and everyone is the image of the city.

18. You operate in good faith and I consume rationally.

19. Integrity wins the world and consumption is the most rational.

20. It's not a loss to shop around. It's high quality and low price, and it's also very user-friendly.

Regarding online shopping, please be rational and don't be impulsive. Although advertisements are tempting, consumption should be calm.

22. Don't do it with small evils, and don't do it with small goodness. Only virtue and virtue can serve others.

23. Living in a new city and a rational consumption city.

24. Harmonious cities are livable and rational consumption is pleasant.

25. Civilized and harmonious new city, rational consumption every day.

No matter how big or small the business is, honesty is the most important thing.

27. It's hard to get married without life, knowing that consumption depends on everyone.

28. Don't shop by advertising, consumption needs rationality.

29. Look at the product logo carefully. Don't be fooled if the logo is unclear.

30. Weigh your character and buy rationality.

3 1. Rational consumption is the choice of smart people.

32. Create rational consumption and build a harmonious city.

33. Sincerely, Xian Yi, young and old, put sincerity first.

34. Don't disrespect the position, but don't disrespect the virtue; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng

Don't be crowded when shopping. First come, then write down.

36. People who think frugality is an unattractive behavior are the most absurd. -(Irish writer) Bernard Shaw

37. Integrity management and rational consumption of cities.

38. As fate would have it, business can't be right.

39. Tufu can be a city wall. -Li Bai

40. Safe consumption benefits millions, while rational consumption benefits you, me and him.