There is nothing to be afraid of. What is really terrible is the "rural girl". Will you marry an "idyllic girl"?

I won't marry a country girl because it's really terrible. It is acceptable for me to help my brother. After all, I have a lot of money, and my wife can help her brother if she wants. It doesn't matter to me that my wife buys a car and a house for my brother, but I really can't accept "rural girls".

What is "rural women"? On the surface, it seems that they are deeply influenced by the traditional culture of China, and it is natural for men to strive for their families. Based on these ideas, they need men to have cars, houses and savings, otherwise they can't support their families at all. However, while advocating that men are the masters of the external world and women are the masters of the internal world, they are deeply influenced by "feminism" and believe that women must enjoy the same rights as men in personality and rights.

So if a man asks them to go out and find a job at this time and earn more or less money to support their families, they will feel offended in personality and think that this man's request is the most vicious squeeze on them.

To sum up, you told her that the two sides of family development should work together, and she told you that men are outside and women are inside; You tell her that women can stir up a sky, and she talks to you about independent feminism, rights and freedom. On the surface, they actively strive for equality between men and women. In fact, they just want to get the same rights as men, but they don't want to assume any obligations. This is the so-called "country girl".

With the development of the times, people's thoughts keep pace with the times, and at the same time, they give a lot of negation to traditional old ideas, and even give these strange but real feelings proper names, which perfectly summarize their characteristics. For example, Phoenix Man, Voldemort, China rural girl, etc. It's very popular these years. It is worth mentioning that this rural girl is a wonderful flower in the new marriage and love market, with her own unique theory, bullying and shameless. Now she has been summarized as a terrible type of blindness and will be abandoned when she meets it.

Equality between men and women in marriage means working together, paying together and reaping together.

With the change of the concept of marriage and love, people now begin to pursue the equality between men and women in marriage, but this equality between men and women is definitely not to flaunt women, but to regard marriage as a kind of cooperation that needs to be evenly matched. Women are required to pay something, and they are also required to enjoy the same harvest rights as men. Such equality is the real equality of human rights. Gender equality is two concepts among rural women.

Once the marriage relationship is established, the relationship between two people is no longer completely independent of each other, because at the moment of marriage, they begin to share responsibilities and obligations, not just enjoy it as a group. This selfish and unreasonable theory is the truest portrayal of the theory of rural women. A good marriage must be mutual care, mutual understanding, sharing weal and woe, rather than justly enjoying the hard work of the other half.