I look at the intimate behavior of college students on campus

2016-10-30 22:52 Intern reporter Zhang Bingbing

PDA is the abbreviation of public display of affection in English, which means public display of affection. This is a universal concept, and here I want to talk about some of my thoughts on this behavior on campus.

As the Level 2 computer exam was approaching, I took my computer and found a quiet classroom to practice the questions in the afternoon. Unexpectedly, a couple came in. After looking around, they chose the seat in front of me. Then, the two of them played music on their mobile phones, ate snacks, whispered, and engaged in unscrupulous intimate behaviors. After that, other students in the classroom left the classroom one after another, and my original review plan was also disrupted.

Regarding the above behavior, I am not reflecting the self-deprecating cultural phenomenon of "single dogs" currently popular on Weibo and other social media, nor am I talking about the popular psychology of "being shown affection". I am just After personal experience, I have a deeper understanding of the uncomfortable impact this behavior has on bystanders.

First of all, this kind of behavior is not recognized by traditional Chinese mainstream culture, and is even considered to be indecent and immoral. Most people who have participated in this survey have made it clear that they are disgusted with this behavior. Behavior. In fact, news about college student couples being intimate on campus has become commonplace, and everyone is used to it. Although it is understandable that couples will have intimate behaviors, the increasing frequency of the behavior means that it can continue to be like this and be ignored. Should it be allowed?

In fact, even on university campuses where this behavior is more easily accepted, being too intimate in public study settings will cause dissatisfaction among classmates. For example, the Huaxia College of Wuhan University of Technology has issued new rules that prohibit student leaders from being intimate with their lovers in public places. Anyone who violates this rule will be removed from their post. Chongqing University of Posts and Telecommunications established a civilized inspection team to discourage "intimacy in public places." It can be seen that intimate behavior in public places among college students is at least not encouraged.

Secondly, about why some people like to behave intimately in public places on campus. In fact, this is related to the character of some students who seek approval from others and do whatever they want. Maybe the person involved did not do it intentionally or to seek the pleasure of being disgusted by everyone, but no matter what the reason, this behavior does exist on our university campus. It's happening around us.

Regarding the two major views on this behavior. Any controversial topic will arouse widespread discussion among everyone. Regarding this kind of behavior, some people think that it is a private matter and others have no right to interfere. As college students, they have the right to decide their own behavior. However, other opposition groups say that in public* ** I feel very uncomfortable seeing these inconsiderate behaviors on other occasions. Of course, there are some people who neither support nor oppose and hold a neutral attitude.

Finally, in my opinion, we certainly don’t live in a feudal era where we strictly abide by the three cardinal principles and five constant principles. It is normal for boys and girls to have moderate interactions, but falling in love in the wrong place or in an overly public and intimate way may make love fall apart. If something goes bad in the eyes of others, you still have to grasp the principle of moderation and leave a comfortable learning space for yourself and others. Respect yourself and respect others. Only by strengthening self-cultivation and receiving correct ideological and moral education is the key to purifying the campus and solving problems.

I hope that inappropriate behavior will gradually fade away and that everything on campus will no longer be embarrassing.