Jump out and know who you really are.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu has an interesting description: a monkey has to climb a tree before we can see its red ass.

Look at it from another angle: the monkeys under the tree can't see, or they can't see the red bottoms of the monkeys around them, because they are all squatting on the ground.

Actually, so do we. Most of us often feel that the most ignorant person is ourselves.

We must jump out and know who we really are.

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The slogan of Han Han's movie poster "See you later" reads: "I've heard a lot of truth, but I still can't get along."

People's life is full of unknowns, so we must experience it with our hearts, experience setbacks and feel all the encounters.

I have heard a lot of truth, but it is not indestructible. Moreover, not every time you use reason, you can find a way that suits you; Don't even think that you can save your life.

There are too many reasons in this world, and these reasons are even contradictory. Empty talk will only disturb the mind. Moreover, nature is inherently accidental and random, and truth always has its scope of application and material basis. Therefore, some truths may not necessarily apply to yourself.

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Mr. Lu Xun told us that we should always maintain a critical and questioning attitude.

This requires us to take time to study and ponder. And through our own practice, of course, there are joys and sorrows. These truths will eventually become our own flesh and blood, and we will eventually become human beings and eventually realize our existence.

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However, we always think that our world is the whole world. When you are limited by this "generalized" thinking mode, you will make mistakes in various reactions.

Only you have enough self-reflection mechanism. When you encounter problems, try to practice them repeatedly: re-recognize the problems you have recognized many times and consider them according to the situation. We must peel off the surface of the problem and go back to the essence of the problem.

Tao Te Ching says, "One life, two lives, two lives, three lives, three lives". We must jump out of our own world and compare with the world outside ourselves, or compare with the related world outside ourselves.

As long as we often do these deliberate trainings, slowly, we will be there? Unconsciously, natural acquisition chooses to do the right thing with the right values, that is, acquire intelligence. After learning to be smart, we will not generalize things, but we can see what is good and what is beneficial to us when we do things.

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There are two elements of success: the right choice and the ability to solve problems. Among them, the correct choice must be the premise. The key to correct choice is to form correct and effective values, so as to know: what is good, what is better and what is the best. If you think about this clearly, the choice becomes a natural thing.

Choice determines fate, and it is values that determine choice. Therefore, what really determines a person's fate is a person's values.

A Feng told me: When the values are clear, it is really natural to choose.

He said that he finally left the unit where he worked for ten years recently and went out to start a business. This risky and difficult thing for others is as simple as inviting friends to dinner. When the opportunity came to give it a try, he was surprised by his decision.

He told me: the benefits of the old unit are obvious, stable, relaxed and free. Familiarity with my work has also benefited me for many years. But in recent years, through constant exercise, I have consciously compared every choice of life with the yardstick of values. Slowly, my own values are really like a seed. The longer I grow up, the stronger I will be.

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The essence of choice is value orientation. Whether values are positive or negative will determine the different paths you choose, and will also lead to completely different final results and destiny.

Kazuo inamori, the father of Japanese management, has a formula: the result of life = thinking x ability x enthusiasm.

This formula tells us that a person may have high ability or great enthusiasm, but if his way of thinking, that is, his values, is negative or reverse, then the greater his ability and enthusiasm, the lower his final result will be.

On the other hand, even if some people seem to be average in ability and enthusiasm, the coefficient of their way of thinking is very large, so the final result and success in life will be greater than the former.

Therefore, in our work or life, we often struggle: do I choose to focus on improving my professional ability or do a good job in interpersonal relationships with others with very high enthusiasm ... Often, these seemingly choices that one person can't choose another person must be based on our positive values.

It can be seen that establishing correct values is the most important thing in each of our lives, which is not only a problem of getting along with others, but also a decisive factor in our personal life achievements.

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In the final analysis, it is to know yourself correctly. Only by knowing yourself correctly can we know the relationship between ourselves and the surrounding environment, make the right choice and finally succeed.

Therefore, we must: jump out and know who we really are.