Civilized etiquette accompanies my travels essay

The ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up." In other words, if you don't learn "etiquette", you won't be able to establish yourself in society.

So, what is etiquette? Simply put, etiquette is a code of conduct for self-discipline and respect for others. It is a process and means to show respect and understanding for others.

Civilized etiquette is not only a reflection of personal quality and upbringing, but also a reflection of personal morality and social ethics. It is the face of the city and the country.

So, learning etiquette can not only strengthen personal qualities internally and shape the unit externally (from families, enterprises, institutions, communities, to cities and countries), but also lubricate and improve interpersonal relationships.

As a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years of civilization, being civilized and using etiquette is also an important way to carry forward national culture and display national spirit.

As far as Beijing is concerned, the most realistic thing is to prepare for the 2008 Olympic Games. How to embody the politeness and restraint of Beijingers and Chinese people, and how to embody the civilization and friendship of a land of etiquette has undoubtedly become an important task in the construction of spiritual civilization in Beijing in recent years.

We live in society, and our identities and roles are constantly changing. We hate others one moment, and often become the object of others' dislike the next. These are nothing more than "unruly" behaviors.

When we are tourists, we always follow our own whims, spitting, chewing gum, trampling on the lawn, and scribbling on cultural relics; when we are citizens, it is I deeply hate the phenomenon of spitting and graffiti everywhere.

When we are pedestrians, we often walk wherever we can, regardless of whether there are red lights or sidewalks. We hate those who don’t drive according to the rules; when we drive, He always grabs lanes, gets stuck in traffic jams, and occupies non-motorized lanes. He hates pedestrians who trespass on the road.

When we are consumers, we often vent our personal grievances on the service staff and always say that they have a bad attitude; when we are service staff, we always bring our personal emotions with us. When it comes to work, I always complain that customers are too picky.

When we get along with colleagues, we always complain about their "inconsistency in small details", whether it is talking or borrowing things at work or in life; and we ourselves are often too lazy to take care of those "small details" .

When we take a bus, we are always proud of being able to grab a seat. We never bother to say sorry when we squeeze or step on others; When we arrive, we always resent the other person for not saying sorry or even punching each other; when we are old people, standing on the rickety car, we always long for someone to make way for ourselves who cannot stand. A seat.

When we are children, we are always unwilling to communicate patiently with our parents, we always spend our parents’ hard-earned money generously, and we always loudly send our parents’ questions to the sky. Birthdays, geniuses know; when we, as parents, never calmly communicate spiritually with our children, we are always busy with our own work, and say that we have given them too much care, but they themselves are not living up to expectations.

With the development and progress of society, people’s spiritual needs and self-perceived values ??are getting higher and higher, and they increasingly want to be understood and respected. There is no doubt that under the current situation, etiquette is no longer a need for individual industries and individual social levels, but a need for all people.

The train runs fast because of the headband. At home, if parents can take the lead; in school, if teachers can take the lead; in work, if the leaders can take the lead; in window units, if the window staff can take the lead... By extension, it must be promoted throughout China , popularize civilized etiquette, if the more than 10 million people in the capital can take the lead; if each of us can start from me, start from now on...

There is no doubt that our civilized etiquette promotion will be and popularization work will be easier. Then our spiritual civilization construction will achieve rapid development just like our material civilization construction.

The spiritual outlook of our 1.3 billion people will inevitably take on a new look, and people will live in a friendly, tolerant, caring, and warm social atmosphere!

Civilized etiquette emphasizes "respect first."

If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others.

Those bad habits are just for temporary pleasure, and they lose your own personality and dignity.

If you don’t respect yourself, will others respect you?