On the wedding day, in order to get an extra 50,000 yuan as a bride price, the bride comes back again and again. Is it wrong for the groom to get angry?

The writer Zweig wrote a sentence in his work "The Beheaded Queen": "She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already been marked in secret. ”

Indeed, when we were young, we didn’t understand this truth. In fact, what we do every day is drawing our own destiny.

How you will live in the future, what heights you will reach, and what kind of gifts you will get from fate, everything starts from how you treat life.

If you treat life with a game attitude, fate will also play games on you; if you conquer life with hard work, fate will also be conquered by you.

There is no free lunch in the world. If you want to get it, you must pay first.

The ancients said: "Don't do evil because it's a small thing, don't do good because it's small."

When people live in the world, they must check their words and deeds.

Although evil is small, it is still evil. If you do it often, you will think that it is not evil. Slowly, evil will no longer be evil in your eyes, but it will become a common thing. There will be no guilt; slowly, you will lose your conscience and feel proud instead of being ashamed.

Similarly, although kindness is small, if done often, it can build up your kind nature.

The same principle applies to relationships and marriage.

If you want to get a long-lasting and sincere relationship, you can't play with it. Figure out what you really want, instead of casually flirting with others without giving your true feelings; or you just want to make a deal with a relationship and profit from it, without giving your true feelings at all.

If you ruin your reputation because of your frivolous behavior, you are likely to be rejected by the marriage when you want to get married.

Since ancient times, women with a bad reputation have had poor marriage outcomes.

If Dongyu understood this truth earlier, she would not have made such a big ugly appearance at her wedding, causing everyone to betray her relatives and become a laughing stock. Those things she did will probably make her unable to get married for the rest of her life. Because today’s “honest people” are no longer stupid.

Dongyu is a beautiful girl. Beauty is capital, and you can use it to "do evil". It is very popular among boys. As long as she goes out to play, Dongyu never pays a penny, there is always a "knight" to pay for her.

Dongyu feels that her beauty pleases the eyes of men and is also her own value. It is only natural that they pay for their beauty, and she accepts gifts from boys with peace of mind.

She has never considered other people's opinions or the feelings of her elders. She felt that this was the life she wanted to live.

She had two serious relationships, both of which ended abruptly when she was about to achieve success.

The parents of the two boys rejected the marriage for almost the same reason. They both said that their children were too stupid and not worthy of Dongyu. In fact, privately, he said that Dong Yu was frivolous and dissolute, not worthy of his innocent family background.

As Dongyu grows older, she gradually restrains her behavior. Of course, there are fewer and fewer boys who are willing to pay for her.

Time is always very harsh on women, and Dongyu cannot afford it. She wants to start a family, and she begins to carefully observe the playmates around her, hoping to find a reliable man.

Cheng Cheng just broke into Dongyu's sight.

Cheng Cheng is a graduate student who has graduated two years ago. He is currently working in a game company and is a dull scientist. He was dragged to the party by his friends.

Coincidentally, Dongyu was playing in a nightclub with some friends that day. There happened to be some acquaintances among the two groups, so they merged into one, and the two groups got together to play.

When introducing each other, Dong Yu suddenly fell in love with the dull and overwhelmed Cheng Cheng. The girlfriends started to boo, making Cheng Cheng blush with shame.

And what about Dongyu? When I have an idea in my mind, I am naturally not as open-minded as I used to be. In Cheng Cheng's eyes, Dongyu is a beautiful and shy girl.

After the party, Dongyu and Cheng Cheng began to contact each other on a single line. For Cheng Cheng's sake, Dongyu stopped being so playful. She acted very sensible and well-behaved, which made Cheng Cheng unable to extricate himself, and naturally he reached the stage of talking about marriage.

After learning about Dongyu’s situation, Cheng Cheng’s parents disagreed with their marriage. But Cheng Cheng insisted and told his parents not to listen to other people's words. Dongyu was a good girl, just a little playful, but she had changed a lot for herself and told her parents not to have prejudices.

Seeing that Cheng Cheng was determined, his parents had no choice but to agree to the marriage and asked Cheng Cheng to give Dongyu a gift of 200,000 yuan as requested by Dongyu.

All preparations before the wedding are in place. Cheng Cheng was excited to marry his beautiful bride, but he didn't expect that on the wedding day, the beautiful bride would reveal her ugly side.

When the wedding convoy arrived at Cheng Cheng’s house, Dongyu was unwilling to get out of the car.

Her reason was that Cheng Cheng deceived her. Although his family was rich, he only gave her a gift of 200,000 yuan, which was not worthy of such a beautiful face like hers, which caused her to be laughed at by her girlfriends.

At first, Cheng Cheng said to her in a good-natured manner: "You want the 200,000 gift for yourself. Besides, when you get married, my salary is all yours. Do you still care about the gift?" "

Dongyu said: "I care. If you transfer another 50,000 yuan to me now, I will get off."

Cheng Cheng is a person who accepts death. It's obvious that 200,000 yuan is worth it. It was Dongyu who proposed it himself. He didn't even think about talking about it. He just sent it to her honestly, but now he still wants it because it's too little.

"Dongyu, you can't be big-mouthed. You can get as much as you say. Since I've already given you what has been decided, you can't ask for it again. Besides, I don't have that much now." It’s money.”

“I don’t care, I won’t get off the car if you don’t give it to me.”

The weather was very hot that day. Dongyu closed the car door and asked the driver to turn on the air conditioner. He tilted his face and pouted, looking at Cheng Cheng standing outside the car.

All the groomsmen, those who saw off the bride, and the helpers were standing in the sun, sweat dripping down, and anger rising.

"Dongyu, get out of the car quickly. All the relatives are watching. Can I give it to you after the wedding?"

Dongyu's father couldn't stand it anymore and pulled away. He grabbed his daughter's arm by the car door, but Dongyu threw it away and locked the car door.

Seeing this scene, Cheng Cheng was really angry: "I don't have money, but I don't want to give it to you even if I have it. Go back to where you came from. This marriage is not over."

Of course the driver listened to Cheng Cheng and immediately turned around and left.

Not even 10 minutes after driving away, the bride’s car drove back again. Dongyu opened the car door and said to Cheng Cheng: "I promise you, but after the wedding, you have to give me 50,000 yuan as soon as possible."

Cheng Cheng laughed angrily: "I I have already said that the wedding is cancelled, you should go back."

Dongyu's father stepped forward and grabbed Dongyu's hand and whispered: "If you don't get married, what will the child in your belly want? What to do? Cheng Cheng, please don’t be angry, Dongyu is pregnant. I will apologize to you after the wedding."

Cheng Cheng was told by Dongyu. His father's words were so shocking that he didn't respond for a long time, with an expression of disbelief on his face: "Are you pregnant? When did you get pregnant?"

This time it was Dongyu's father's turn to be surprised: "Isn't she pregnant? "The strength of his hand became stronger, and Dongyu cried out in pain.

My best friend and bridesmaid wanted to pull Dongyu’s father’s hand away, and said in a panic: “Uncle, Dongyu is not pregnant, she has already been aborted.”

“Ah!? "This time it was two men, and even the relatives nearby shouted. Dongyu's father sternly questioned her, but Dongyu said that she was pregnant by her ex-boyfriend, but she had an affair and had nothing to do with Cheng Cheng. She lied about being pregnant to get her father to agree to the marriage quickly.

Now Cheng Cheng didn’t want to marry anymore. He kept saying sorry to Dongyu’s father.

Dongyu's father was also reasonable and immediately transferred the bride price to Cheng Cheng on his mobile phone: "Cheng Cheng, I didn't agree to this marriage at first because I felt that you were not worthy of my Dongyu. I'm so ashamed. "My Dongyu is not worthy of you."

Cheng Cheng looked at the amount entered by Dongyu's father and said to him: "Uncle, the gift is 200,000."

"Cheng Cheng, don't talk in vain about how much money you have. I only received 100,000 yuan as a gift from your family, not 200,000 yuan——"

Before he finished speaking, Dong Father Yu's eyes widened and he looked at Dongyu: "Is it your fault? Dongyu, Dongyu, do I have less food than you and less clothing than you? Have I ever given you less money? You have to do this. Really? The family is in trouble! You can’t control it anymore. You can take care of the rest yourself.”

Dongyu’s father turned around and left.

It turns out that boys have spent less on Dongyu in recent years, and Dongyu wants to maintain her glamorous, refined and noble appearance. Her money from working as a secretary in the company is far from being able to support her. Her consumption is high, so she often borrows money from others to make ends meet. Of that 100,000 yuan, part of it was used to pay off debts and part of it was spent on new equipment. But there was still a part of the debt that had not been repaid, so Dong Yu made a desperate move and wanted to get another 50,000 yuan. He would pay back whatever he could, otherwise it would be embarrassing if someone came to collect the debt.

But she didn’t expect that Cheng Cheng, who was usually honest and like a loyal dog, would lose his stubborn temper and give up his choice at the suggestion. Not only did he not get the money, but he also publicized his privacy and made a mistake. So big and ugly.

She would not have thought that her ending today had already been laid before when she was having an affair with a boy. Isn't there a saying that goes: "Sooner or later, you will have to pay back the consequences if you go out to fool around."

The frivolousness and dissoluteness in youth laid the foundation for the fate of this moment. I wonder if Dongyu will regret it after this incident?

What kind of cause produces what kind of effect. Whatever kind of life you want, you can only work hard yourself, and you can't let others pay for it. Because no one will pay for you for no reason. They will always have a motive, for your beauty, for your company, and what do you get? A bunch of used items that become junk and a bad reputation.

Girls, you must know how to cherish yourself, don’t exchange your reputation for temporary vanity, don’t let your life become a credit card that is constantly overdrawn, and in the end you can only desperately rebuild the early overdraft. Credit.

But life is short, and once some credit is overdrawn, it will be difficult to make up for it in a lifetime. Just be a down-to-earth person and love people down-to-earth.