Grandparents have ingenious ways to raise children —— Grandparents' family education

As the saying goes, "one generation hurts", which is absolutely true.

A family has a baby, not only mom and dad, but also grandparents. The warmth between grandparents and children seems to be the warmest force in the world.

Often homesick, there is a treasure who loves reading. I am very grateful to my grandfather. My father, since the child can speak, has spent a lot of thoughts to accompany her to study, including the usual food, clothing, housing and transportation, and to accompany her to grow up.

Grandpa Ling Xibao is a native of Hubei. Although he has lived in Shenzhen for a long time (more than 30 years now), his local accent has not changed, and he can also hear a standard "Hubei Mandarin" in the video. My sister's son learned it when he was a child. For example, he often says that my "bucket" (stomach) is uncomfortable and "jio" (foot) hurts. I used to think it was funny, but now I'm in Lingxi Castle. Dad still speaks in that tone, but he feels much warmer.

We Linxi are really a happy baby! I grew up listening to stories. Because the husband and wife are busy at work, the children usually live in their grandmother's house, and they are clamoring to tell stories before going to bed almost every night. At first, my grandfather told stories about children who tended sheep, such as wolves, Mr. Dong Guo, farmers and snakes. Later, it was extended to the Monkey King, where Song Wu killed tigers. My grandmother could tell some stories with a sense of time, such as fighting landlords in the middle of the night (chickens crowed in the middle of the night) and bombing bunkers in Dong Cunrui. At that time, the child was less than two years old, and we wondered why wolves and bad guys could fight these martial arts so young. Later, my mother reported that your child was very interested and listened to it with relish every night. Later, I bought some classic fairy tale picture books, such as Ugly Duckling, Frog Prince, Little Red Riding Hood and Pinocchio, and told them bedtime stories to read. Since then, my hobby of reading has continued to this day.

Mom and dad are really patient and have taught Linxi a lot of knowledge. Every time I take my children out to play and see the signs of various shops outside, I will seriously teach them what words are written on them, where they are, what they do, and the contents of various slogans that can be seen in the buildings in the park. Linxi likes reading, which probably started from this period.

The life of the elders is very regular: they usually take their children for a walk outdoors during the day, like to go to the park for a square dance at night, and sometimes play literacy card games, card games and puzzles at home, all of which give Linxi a certain learning foundation: at the age of two, he can count from one to one hundred, and at the age of three, he can completely distinguish a deck of playing cards, a train that can play cards, add formulas and participate in playing children's monopoly. There are no specific statistics about our cultural level. At present, there are more than 200 picture books and story books, many of which can be read independently. I can sing many children's songs, recite Mulan poems completely, recall the past of Niannujiao Chibi, and enlighten some temperament ... The most important thing is to follow my grandparents' babies and form the habit of regular work and rest. Go to sleep at 9: 30 to 10: 00 every night, and start eating and drinking at around 8: 00 in the morning, which is absolutely healthy and nutritious. Unlike us, because of busy work, it is rare to accompany our baby for two days a week, and we often take takeout. Shame!

These are our parents, who work hard to accompany their children and pay for them. Although we often talk about scientific parenting, as the most direct guardians of children, parents spend the least time with their children, and the time to play with them is numbered. Their love and dedication to their children are wholehearted, and their patience is perfect. Children have developed good reading habits and work and rest habits since childhood, which deserves our study and praise.

The ancients said, "Parents' love for their children is far-reaching." He added: "I don't know what my parents were good at when I was a child, but reading is already my parents' body." "It is a portrayal of the present, and no amount of words can express the kindness of our parents. Thank you, Mom and Dad, for educating our baby so smart and lovely.