My mother-in-law came to congratulate my son when he was one month old. When she saw that my son took my surname, my mother-in-law turned against her. Should my son take his mother’s surname?

My husband and I talked about it ourselves. I met my husband at work. My husband is upright, kind, hard-working and highly motivated. I admire people like my husband very much. I have a good impression of my husband. He often helps me at work and takes care of me. He is a warm-hearted man. Later, I took the initiative to confess my feelings to my husband. My husband told me that his family comes from a rural area and he has an older brother who is already married. The family conditions were not good, so in order to find a wife for his brother, his parents asked him to work without even going to college.

After hearing what my husband said, I felt a little sorry for him. Although my husband is only a high school graduate, he works really hard, starting from the bottom, and he is diligent and willing to learn. He is very valued by the leaders. Now he is a small supervisor, no worse than others. I told my husband, it’s you I like, as long as you like me. My husband stupidly told me that I will be good to you for the rest of my life. Looking at the serious look on my husband's face, I knew that this man was sincere to me, and I was not wrong.

My husband and I are planning to get married after a year of dating. My parents are a little dissatisfied with my marriage. They think that my husband’s family conditions are not good and he cannot give me a happy life and will drag me down. . But I insisted on staying with my husband. My parents couldn't resist me, and finally agreed to our marriage.

When my husband and I got married, let alone the house, my mother-in-law couldn’t even tell her the money as a bride price. He said that our family's conditions were good anyway, so I shouldn't worry about it. I still feel a little uncomfortable in my heart. It's not that there are many gifts, it's just a formality. My mother-in-law didn't even pay a penny. In the end, my husband gave my parents the 20,000 yuan he had saved. My parents were very unhappy about this, but they didn't say anything more for the sake of my husband. After all, I was determined to marry my husband. In the end, my parents couldn't bear to see me suffer, so they mortgaged a house for my husband and me. For this, my husband was very grateful to me and my parents.

I became pregnant not long after my marriage, and I had a huge reaction during pregnancy. My husband wanted my mother-in-law to take care of me, but my mother-in-law said she wanted to take care of my husband's brother's son at home, and she was just pregnant, so she asked me to take care of myself. For this reason, my husband felt very guilty about me and had to take care of me while working. Sometimes I couldn't even sleep well, and I lost a lot of weight in a month. I really couldn't bear it, so I had to ask my mother to take care of me. I know that my husband is really good to me, but my parents-in-law have been partial to my husband's eldest brother since they were young. In order to find a wife for his eldest brother, they even refused to let my husband go to college. My husband was also a little sad, but they were his parents after all, and he couldn't accuse them of being partial.

In a blink of an eye, I gave birth to my son, and we were all very happy. My husband called his parents-in-law, and they were also very happy. My mother-in-law, who was in confinement, told my husband that she wouldn’t come to take care of me since we were so far away, so I could just let my mother take care of me. I was really angry. I told my husband that I gave birth to your mother’s grandson, but your mother didn’t even look at it. In this case, we only have one daughter in our family, so my son should have my last name. Anyway, your parents don't care about you. For so many years, they asked you when they wanted money, and gave it to your brother when they spent money. We have been married for so many years, and my parents have been helping us. My husband did not object to what I said, and my son took my last name and named him Yang Yang.

In the blink of an eye, my son is one month old. That day, my mother-in-law came to congratulate my son on his one-month anniversary. When she saw the slogan about her son's one-month anniversary, her mother-in-law scolded her husband for being unfilial. My husband and I wanted to make it more lively for our son's full moon party, so we held a small party for our son. We wrote some slogans wishing our son healthy growth and his name. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to see it and get angry in front of all the guests.

After listening to what my mother-in-law said, I smiled and said to her, your family didn’t pay a penny when Zhang Ming and I got married, and my parents also provided a house. For so many years, you have always turned to us when you needed money, but you have never thought about us. From the time I was pregnant to the time I was in confinement, you were always thinking about your eldest grandson and never took care of me for a day. Is it wrong for the son I gave birth to to bear my surname? My mother-in-law scolded my husband and I for being unfilial and left angrily.

I also have a headache when I meet such a mother-in-law. Fortunately, my husband is really kind to me. After that, my mother-in-law often called me and asked me to change my son's name. I refused her very firmly, and my mother-in-law also said that she would sever ties with us. You think if I do this, will it embarrass my husband? What should I do?