The issue of giving up your seat has been repeatedly searched. Is it etiquette or ethos to give up your seat?

Giving up your seat is not a matter of morals but a matter of etiquette.

first of all, we should know what ethos is. ethos refers to the long-accumulated tradition. It is true that our country advocates the tradition of respecting the elderly and loving the young, but giving up your seat is not a tradition, but a matter of etiquette.

Like the buses now, there are special seats for the old, the young, the pregnant and the disabled. And everyone needs to follow this rule. This is a special seat for some specific people. Assuming that we are not such a vulnerable group, we'd better not take this seat.

everyone spent money on tickets, so it's not their duty to give up their seats for mutual affection. If this person is willing to give up his seat, everyone will be happy. If this person is unwilling to give up his seat, there is nothing wrong with it.

Giving up one's seat should be a spontaneous civilized behavior, rather than kidnapping the other party to give up his seat from the moral high ground through one party's strong demand. Actually, I personally don't like giving up my seat.

Let's just say that I went out by high-speed train two days ago, and I sat in my seat before my ass got hot. A man came to me and asked me if I could give up my seat. In fact, I was a little reluctant at that time, but everyone else asked. I was not the kind of person who would refuse others.

and his girlfriend is sitting next to me, and he wants to change seats with me so that he can sit with his girlfriend. As a result, I gave him this seat, and they were both happy, so I was in trouble.

they didn't sit at the terminal, so I was driven away by the new bus. Then he returned to his original seat in a despondent manner. Really, I don't want to give up my seat next time, which puts me in an embarrassing position. It's really too difficult to be a man.

it is reasonable to give up your seat, but you can't ask the other party to give up your seat. You can make this request, but even if the other party refuses, you can't complain. If people don't owe you, there is no need to give up your seat for you. They are all paid for tickets, and no one is nobler than anyone else.