Life addition and subtraction

Plus is a growth.

Life needs to know addition, accumulate knowledge and experience, improve ability and increase knowledge, which can be regarded as the addition of life, and the process of addition is the process of life growth.

"My fate is in my own hands. Although I still have nothing, my brain is full, and I believe that one day, life will repay me. " This is what a good friend and brother told me. When he was nine years old, he became a serious disease. His muscles began to atrophy and his eyesight began to decline. The arrival of the disease was a disaster for him and his family. Expensive medical expenses have brought down this ordinary peasant family, and the pain of illness is tormenting him all the time.

God gave him a subtraction problem from the beginning, which made him lose his healthy body, but he didn't give up. He constantly overweight himself and worked hard to grow. From primary school to middle school and then to university, he has been relying on optimistic attitude, tenacious will and indomitable spirit to persist in learning. In fact, he can't enter the classroom by himself. He needs a wheelchair to get in and out. He needs someone to carry him upstairs and downstairs. When he was seriously ill, he couldn't go to school, so he studied in a hospital bed. His grades have always been good. His university head teacher said: He is an excellent and great person.

After graduating from college, he was admitted to a local college. Now he has a stable income and his family life is getting better. Last time I chatted with him, he said that he still had to take the CPA exam and take the part-time postgraduate exam.

He said: "Only by constantly working hard and contributing to my life can I feel alive, and I can get rid of the negative emotions caused by illness. I think living is meaningful. Only in this way can I feel that I am no different from others, and I can have the strength to get out of the black hole of fate and jump out of the railing of fate. "

Life needs to grow through constant addition, and more importantly, it increases the thickness of life through addition, that is, it makes life meaningful.

02

Subtraction makes people mature.

A few days ago, a friend suddenly told me that he didn't want to be an ambitious person. He told me that ambition is a very greedy word, and he was almost overwhelmed by the so-called ambition.

"My wife pushes me step by step with so-called self-motivation. When I earned 5000 yuan a month, she said I was worthless. My next goal is to earn 1 10,000 yuan per month. When I earned 10 thousand yuan a month, she also said that a classmate in my class had earned 20 thousand yuan a month. She said that she only married me because she likes my ambition, but even if she is ambitious, she must have a degree. Shouldn't people be content? "

Self-motivation is the motivation to pursue dreams, the courage to be unwilling to be mediocre, and the ladder to climb the height of life, not a tool to compare. It is important to know how to work hard, but it is more important to know how to be content and never let the so-called self-motivation become a futile struggle. Therefore, we need to reduce the pressure and burden brought by vanity, which can make our life easier.

When life grows to a certain stage, you should know how to do subtraction, reduce the burden of miscellaneous things, pay more attention to your inner feelings, and know how to enjoy yourself and enjoy life.

A few days ago, I read an article in People's Daily with the title "People with this personality will get cancer". This article tells a story, the main idea of which is a woman. Her personality is to take everything to heart. She doesn't want to say anything, but her heart is not big, so she sulks all day. Her husband changed his mobile phone, answered the phone at dinner and bought a pair of unsightly leather shoes. She was very angry. She was not only angry with her husband, but also angry with colleagues whose bonuses were slightly higher and her daughter's grades dropped slightly.

However, at the age of 45, that is, the year of her daughter's college entrance examination, she suffered from breast cancer and died unfortunately. Behind them is a family that is almost bankrupt: the daughter is deeply hit and has no intention of studying. My mother, who was almost eighty years old, was so sad that she became ill, and her husband lost more than half of his hair in one month.

In fact, if she doesn't care so much, knows how to reduce those complicated emotions, and knows how to reduce her own burden, especially the psychological burden, then her life may be different. Life is not only a process of constantly asking for and increasing, but also a process of giving up haggling and not knowing how to release.

At every stage of life, we need to do subtraction for ourselves, subtract negative emotions, subtract excessive pressure, don't haggle over every ounce, live with your heart and feel with your heart, so that we can mature.

03

label

We came into this world with nothing, and everything was "0". With the passage of time, our life began to increase, increasing the light of wisdom, the strength of character, the pursuit of wealth, and the infiltration of family relations, making life more abundant.

When we reach a certain age, we should start to do subtraction, subtract superfluous substances, subtract extravagant desires, subtract the burden of the mind, subtract the interference of the environment, rationally arrange the choices of life, and make life healthier. Struggle is struggle, house is house, and relaxation is the great wisdom of life. Addition is a kind of growth, and subtraction is a kind of maturity.