Should men give up their seats to women in women-first carriages?

Ladies first should be one of the manifestations of the gentleman’s spirit advocated in Western culture. This has also had a great impact on our country’s etiquette. Many people have also regarded it as a manifestation of important etiquette and education. The old and the weak The sick, disabled, pregnant and young are all the recipients of courtesy.

Ladies first is an agreement to show your masculine charm. For women, men with gentlemanly demeanor are more attractive, so ladies first is common in life. What is currently advocated is that ordinary people, especially young people, should actively give up their seats to the elderly, the weak, the sick, pregnant women, children and other people with limited mobility and inconvenience. It does not seem to advocate that men should actively give up their seats to women.

This can be accommodated or compromised on trivial matters, but it cannot be compromised on major matters or issues of principle! As for whether a man should give up his seat to a woman in public, this point should be decided by everyone. No one will blame you if you don't give up. Just giving up your seat depends on the situation. For example, if you are a young man and you come up again If you take the initiative to give up your seat to a beautiful girl, the other person may be grateful to you and may have other ideas.

For example, if there is only one seat in a bus, if you are a boy, you can offer it to a woman; if you are queuing up to buy a ticket, if you are a man, you can offer it to a woman who buys the ticket first, and many other things in life. Ladies can be given priority, but if a lady asks a disabled man to give up her seat, and a lady takes advantage of her because she is a woman, yells, and refuses to let others sit, I think there is no need to be humble in this way!

Although it is said that men and women are equal, it refers to rights. The physical differences between men and women exist objectively, and women are weak.

A civilized and progressive society should promote the principle of giving priority to women and children in public places. This is a sign of civilization and a law of nature.

It is normal to give up your seat. The person must be either a pregnant woman or a woman carrying a child, or an elderly person or the sick or disabled. However, there are some young women who forcefully ask male passengers to give up their seats. This is The quality of the other party is not a big deal, so you can give in. There is no need to make a fuss over such a trivial matter, it is offensive!

Facing such a vulnerable group, we have no reason not to give up our seats. This is also the fine virtue of our nation. However, if you are both healthy adults, there is no need to give up your seat. Life is hard, everyone is struggling for survival, and we are all tired. There is absolutely no need to give up your seat for women. Unless you are in a good mood today and dressed in style. If you don't show your gentlemanly style when facing women, you are really ashamed of today's situation. You might as well be a good person and give up your seat proactively.

To give others is courtesy, to be given is respect, not to be given is power, and to be given is quality! Let those who are given up be respected, and those who are given up should know thanks! Originally, this move should not be so hotly discussed, but many elderly people and pregnant women believe that they have the right to let others give up their seats, and they use forceful words and are arrogant and unreasonable! This is a lack of morality and a loss of culture! Society should reward those who touch others with their small actions! At the same time, we must also punish those who corrupt the atmosphere due to small things and small gains.

So the women-first carriages serve women as a whole, not individual individuals. Ladies should not misunderstand women’s priority carriages and think that the seats in these carriages should be yours; men should not think that women have priority. On the contrary, this kind of carriage pursues equality: don’t think that you are privileged because you are a woman/man. When you are surrounded by women/men, you can only go on a first-come, first-served basis.