In one of these four situations, don't visit the new mother and baby. These people are taboo during confinement.

After giving birth to a child, the lying-in woman began to live in confinement mode, and most of them have the custom of confinement in different parts of China. During this period, many relatives and friends will come to visit the parturient and the newborn to express their concern for the parturient and their blessings to the newborn. However, although the kindness of relatives and friends is understandable, for pregnant women, visiting may increase the physical burden in some cases. In fact, visiting during the month is also taboo.

Xiaowen, who recently gave birth to a child, ran back to her mother's house as soon as she was born, because she was angry at the mention of her grandmother's confinement. On the fifth day after giving birth, Xiaowen was discharged smoothly. I thought living at home would be much more comfortable than living in a hospital, but what she didn't expect was that she was waiting for endless visits from relatives.

Because my husband has many relatives and friends here, since Xiaowen came home, relatives and friends have been in an endless stream. What makes Xiaowen feel very uncomfortable is that sometimes he is breastfeeding his children, and relatives and friends will open the door regardless. Even among them, many men don't shy away even when they see Xiaowen nursing, which makes Xiaowen very unhappy.

At first, Xiaowen was embarrassed to say much because of her feelings, but most pregnant women were more sensitive during confinement. The more she thinks about it, the more wronged she becomes. She gave her husband an ultimatum to "refuse all relatives and friends to visit". But my husband, who has always been very proud, didn't notice this. So when another wave of relatives and friends came to visit and told Xiaowen about the posture of breastfeeding, Xiaowen's long-accumulated emotions broke out. "I need to rest now. Please get out. I don't need your advice during lactation! "

Xiaowen's remarks embarrassed relatives and friends, and then everyone left the room, while Xiaowen's husband lost his temper with his wife because of losing face.

In order to better facilitate breastfeeding mothers, they often wear pajamas or nursing clothes during confinement. Obviously, this kind of casual clothes at home is not suitable for entertaining male relatives and friends. In addition, the baby's appetite is very small, and Ma Bao often breastfeeds. When male relatives and friends visit, they may also encounter Ma Bao breastfeeding, which will inevitably lead to some embarrassment.

During confinement, both mother and baby need rest. If energetic and active children come to visit with adults, it is likely to disturb the mother and baby. If the child secretly makes trouble, it is more likely to increase the mother's troubles and may also hurt the newborn.

During confinement, the maternal body is also delicate and has poor resistance. If visiting relatives and friends have some infectious diseases, such as viral colds, it is likely to lead to maternal infection. In addition, bacteria and viruses from relatives and friends may also threaten the health of newborns.

Although it is understandable that relatives and friends want to visit the parturient, it is best for family members to arrange the visit time after the parturient gives birth, which is safer for adults and children and will not cause too much burden and trouble to the parturient. These things should not be said by the mother, but should be considered more comprehensively by the mother's family.

During confinement, the family must also share the burden of caring for the children as much as possible, so that the parturient can complete confinement in a relatively relaxed physical state. My mother, who is responsible for breastfeeding herself, keeps overdrawing during her sleep. If they have the help of their families, I believe it will give them some opportunities to catch up on their sleep. Only by eliminating physical fatigue and tiredness can the parturient have a chance to recover quickly.

Postpartum women's mood fluctuates greatly. At this time, the maternal family must pay attention to the maternal emotional state and try not to do something that is easy to cause maternal emotional fluctuations. Giving more respect and attention to the parturient, I believe this can help the parturient to get through the dangerous period of postpartum depression and improve the quality of life of the parturient in the second month. Compared with some red tape, the health and spiritual pleasure of mother and baby are more important.

Novice dads, as the families of parturients, should bear some responsibilities. For some pregnant women who are not suitable to come forward, they must act as "spokespersons" in time and try not to let them bear some family chores. During confinement, women are weak and under heavy psychological pressure, so they are often in a helpless state. If novice parents can't be relied on by the parturient, then obviously they are not qualified husbands.