The origin or story of the famous sayings about politeness and etiquette, more than 300 words

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This is a collection of Confucius's famous sayings about the requirements for the words and deeds of a "gentleman", which should meet your requirements.

. "The Master said: 'A gentleman takes righteousness as a pledge, practices etiquette as a pledge, and as a disciple, he trusts and fulfills it. What a gentleman!'"

. "Confucius said: 'A gentleman has three warnings: when he is young, his blood energy is not stable, and the warning lies in appearance; when he is strong, his blood energy is strong, and he should guard against fighting; when he is old, his blood energy has declined, and the warning lies in gaining.'

< p>. "Confucius said: 'A gentleman has nine thoughts: looking for clarity, listening for intelligence, looking for warmth, looking for respect, speaking for loyalty, acting with respect, doubting and questioning, being angry for difficulty, and seeing for meaning. '"

. The Master said that Zi Chan has four principles of a gentleman: he behaves respectfully towards himself, he is respectful in his conduct, he benefits the people when he nourishes them, and he treats the people righteously.

< p>. "Confucius said: 'A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and has made an appointment with etiquette, so he can live without you! ’”

. “Confucius said: ‘A gentleman has three fears: fear of destiny, fear of great men, and fear of the words of sages. A villain who does not know the destiny and is not afraid of it will insult an adult and insult the words of a saint. ’”

. “Confucius said: ‘Wealth and honor are what people want; if they don’t follow the way to get them, they won’t be able to get them. Poverty and lowliness are what people hate; if you don't get them in the right way, you won't get rid of them. A gentleman abandons benevolence and becomes famous? A gentleman never fails to be benevolent, and he will do what he does if he makes mistakes, and he will do what is wrong. '"

."Confucius said: "The superior man compares himself with others, but the villain does not compare himself with others."

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. "The Master said: 'A gentleman is magnanimous, and a villain is always concerned.'"

. "Sima Niu asked the gentleman: 'A gentleman has no worries or fears. ' Said: 'Doesn't worry or fear, is that what you call a gentleman? ' The Master said: 'If you look inwards and don't feel guilty, why should you worry and fear?'"

"The Master said: But they are different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious. '"

. Confucius said: "It is easy for a gentleman to explain things, but it is difficult to explain them. It is difficult for a villain to do something easy. Although it is not explained in the way, it is also said; it is also a way to make people happy. He asked, "Is it true that a gentleman is poor?" Confucius said, "A gentleman is poor, but a villain is poor."

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. "The Master said: 'A gentleman is chaste but not forgiving.' ’”

. “Zigong said: ‘Can a gentleman also be evil? ’ The Master said: ‘There are evils: those who call others evil, those who live in low places and talk to those above, those who are brave and rude, those who are bold and suffocating. '"

. "The Master said: 'A gentleman does not use his words to lift people up, and he does not use his words to make others useless'"

. "The Master said: 'The gentleman's way is threefold, but I am incompetent; The benevolent do not worry, the wise do not be confused, the brave do not fear. ’ Zigong said, ‘Master, it is your own way. ’”

. “Zilu said: ‘Is a gentleman brave enough? ’ Confucius said: ‘A gentleman puts righteousness first. A gentleman who is brave but without righteousness will lead to chaos. A villain who is brave but without righteousness will become a thief. ’”

. “Confucius said: ‘A gentleman has no weapons. ’”

“Confucius said: ‘A gentleman is sick and incompetent, because if he is not sick, he does not know it. '"

. Confucius said: 'A gentleman has nothing to fight for. He will definitely shoot! He bows and gives way to rise, and to drink from the bottom. It is a gentleman who fights.'"

. "Zeng Zi has Meng Jingzi asked about illness. Zeng Zi said: "When a bird is about to die, its song is mournful; when a man is about to die, his words are also good. The three things that a gentleman values ??more than the Tao are: moving the appearance, being too far away is too slow; right. The color is close to the letter; the anger is far away and the matter is the same. '"

. "Ji Zicheng said: 'The gentleman is pure, how can he be literary?' Zigong said: "Master, the taste of a gentleman is not as good as that of a tongue. The quality of a tiger and a leopard is like the quality of a dog or a sheep." Zigong asked the gentleman: "First do what you say and then follow it." ."The Master said: 'A gentleman is ashamed of his words and goes beyond his actions.'"

. "The Master said: 'A gentleman seeks everything from himself, while a villain seeks everything from others.'"

"Confucius said: 'A gentleman cherishes virtue, while a villain cherishes earth; a gentleman cherishes punishment, but a villain cherishes favor.'"

.Confucius said: 'A gentleman promotes superiority, and a villain promotes inferiority. ’”

. “Zi Lu asked the gentleman. The Master said: ‘Cultivate yourself to respect yourself. ’ He said, ‘Is that all? ’ Said: ‘Cultivation of oneself to bring peace to others. ’ He said, ‘Is that all? ’ Said: ‘Cultivation of oneself to bring peace to the people.

If you cultivate yourself to bring peace to the people, how could Yao and Shun still make you sick? ’”

. “Confucius said: ‘A gentleman is ill and has no reputation. ’”

. “Confucius said: ‘A gentleman seeks the way but not food. Plowing is where discouragement lies; learning is where wealth lies. A gentleman is concerned about morality and not poverty. ’”

. “Zi Xia said: ‘A gentleman trusts and works for his people; if he doesn’t trust, he thinks he is harsh on himself. If you believe it, you will remonstrate; if you don’t believe it, you will think it is slandering yourself. ’”

Confucius said: “People who have no faith do not know what is possible! How can a big cart move without a hook or a small cart without a shaft?