What are the top ten taboos for parents to educate their children?

1, avoid corporal punishment. In real life, some parents believe in the creed of "don't beat the abrasive". They don't convince people by reasoning, but beat, scold and punish them. As a result, this not only fails to achieve the educational goal, but also hurts children's self-esteem and often leads to emotional opposition.

2. Don't spoil and pamper. Never leave the "good" mouth, never leave the door, eat whatever you want and wear whatever you want, which will develop a child's wayward character. Parents "love their children-drown their children-mistake their children", which is often a trilogy in which some teenagers go astray in real life.

3. Avoid cheating. Some parents try to be quiet for a while and cheat their children by making up lies. This is so timid that children can easily imitate their parents and develop hypocritical and dishonest characters.

4. Avoid sarcasm. Being cynical about children and thinking that they can "motivate" their progress is counterproductive.

5. Avoid demanding. Parents "hate iron and not produce steel" for their children, and everything should be perfect. A little reprimand will make the children feel at a loss and feel depressed and bound. After a long time, their children may go to the opposite side and go their own way.

6. Avoid letting things drift. If children are not guided and educated, they will let themselves go and do whatever they want, and they will not fulfill their parents' responsibilities, and the consequences will be unpredictable.

7. Avoid protecting and conniving. In daily life, children do something wrong in public, but parents know it is wrong, but they shelter and cover it up for various reasons, which will inevitably make children unable to correctly treat shortcomings and mistakes.

8. Avoid inattention. Let children choose suitable games and sports, cultivate their ability to concentrate and concentrate on a job, train their perseverance and do everything well from beginning to end. Don't repeatedly ask your child to change the content of the activity.

9. Avoid lack of adaptability. Cultivating children's ability to adapt to the environment is very beneficial to their development.

10, to avoid out of control. Children should be trained to control their emotions, including their unreasonable demands and wishes.