How can a person save himself when he falls?

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If you don't break out in silence, you will perish in silence.

There will always be a time for you in one's life. During that time, you couldn't see hope, just like people all over the world left you. Calm down, you can hear the sound of your heartbeat and feel extremely lonely and unwilling. I want to talk to someone, but I can't find anyone. Can only endure silently until nirvana is reborn.

In the movie "This Killer Is Not Too Cold", the little girl asked her uncle, "Is life always so painful? Or only when I was a child? " Uncle replied, "All the time."

After hearing this sentence, I was instantly moved. It was just a lie of my uncle. Because, life is not static, and it can't be painful forever, so will life always be lonely?

Yes, and no.

People sometimes naturally feel lonely. But there are many beautiful things in life that can be used to relieve loneliness, such as reading, photography, playing the piano and so on. While you are still browsing Taobao in the dormitory to watch movies, others are already reading difficult books in the library. While you are still making out with your boyfriend or girlfriend, others have been working in a part-time place for a long time.

A few years later, people who have a starting point with themselves have already started their own companies and become bosses, but they are still mediocre.

Indeed, there are too many people in life, because they live in loneliness for a long time, their fighting spirit is gradually worn away, and finally they all blame themselves, so they can only live in regret and lead a mediocre life.

Lu Xun said: If you don't perish in silence, you will erupt in silence. In fact, it can also be understood as: some people die in loneliness, while others explode in loneliness.

I remember in the movie "Trainspotting", the protagonist Mark hangs out with several friends all the year round. In order to get unemployment benefits, he deliberately answered the examiner's questions at will during the interview. I've been in a daze, smoking and drinking, looking like a problem of juvenile. Even once, he went to the supermarket to steal something and was arrested by the police station.

After his parents took him home, he began to reflect. He remembered the years he had passed, and how ridiculous it was to be idle because of his inner loneliness. After learning from a painful experience, he decided to turn over a new leaf, chose to work in a real estate company and set foot on a normal life.

It doesn't matter whether you feel lonely or not. The most important thing is that you can recognize what loneliness is and what road you should take now. Many people envy others when they see them bright and beautiful; Seeing others succeed will make them jealous. As we all know, there is no pie in the sky, and opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. Others succeed because they have endured long loneliness, and his success was bought with blood and tears. Confused you, instead of complaining that you are bored and lonely and have accomplished nothing, it is better to put down your hand and work hard for your dream.

In the journey of our life, there are always some feelings that have nowhere to put and some feelings that have nowhere to vent. After experiencing some changes in temperature and some twists and turns, I hope someone can understand the throbbing in my heart.

And life, like a surprise, you never know what you will get. So, from now on, set a goal and work hard.