Why have a sibling?

After the second child policy was introduced, many mothers are giving birth to a second child, and many mothers are hesitant to have a second child. Let me talk about my own feelings as a sister with a younger brother from an adult perspective.

You won’t be lonely, you will have one more person to argue with and never really get angry with you

My brother and I are from the north, we are one year apart and we did not grow up together. Now they both live away from home and work in different cities in the same province in the south. We rarely see each other, maybe two or three times a year. In the past, when nothing happened, we would call every now and then to say hello or argue about something. The two of them would mostly bicker. , dislike each other, and sometimes even block each other if they disagree, and they really fall in love and kill each other.

From my personal experience, let me talk about why we should have a second child and why we should have brothers and sisters?

My brother and I

We are twice as happy, with one more person who absolutely sincerely shares our happiness with you

I thought that the relationship between siblings was just average, but when the real thing comes When I was pregnant, the feeling was even more special. During the few days I was hospitalized after the caesarean section, I deeply realized the benefits of having a younger brother.

My brother has been very happy since he learned that I was pregnant with twins. Later, my mother came from my hometown to take care of me. When mother and daughter occasionally had conflicts, it was my younger brother who stepped in to mediate and always told my mother to be considerate of my difficult pregnancy. Later, he made arrangements to buy various things for my two unborn nephews. .

Knowing that I had given birth, I rushed over from another city two days in advance and helped us organize everything since I was hospitalized. After the birth, my brother knew that I had given birth to twins, and he was even happier than my husband. Give good news to relatives and friends.

Support each other, and we will definitely be by your side when you need it most

The babies returned to the ward, and my mother and confinement nanny were both very busy. My brother naturally took care of me, so the manpower arrangement of our family these days is as follows: the confinement sister-in-law and my mother mainly take care of the two children, my brother mainly takes care of me, and my husband is responsible for logistics and travels to the hospital at home.

I have always told my mother that without my brother here, it would be very difficult for me to recover from my caesarean section! How meticulously can my brother take care of me:

From my personal experience, let me talk about why I need to have a second child and why I need brothers and sisters? < /p>

I was worried that I would be cold just after giving birth, so I put on socks. My husband brought me toe socks, and my brother patiently helped me put them on one toe at a time;

It will be ready in six hours. I drank some water, and my brother took the trouble to feed me water and porridge one by one;

I had to take many slings in succession, and the wound hurt. I was almost half asleep and half awake for the past two days. My brother has been sitting next to me to help me keep an eye on the medicine bottle, and has never missed changing the medicine once;

I have never remembered the medicine I need to take and the time to take it. When I ordered it, my brother put the medicine in my hand and watched me finish it;

There was a medicine that was more bitter. The first time I took it, my brother saw my expression. From the second time I took the medicine, Immediately after that, my brother put water to my mouth;

After I was transferred to the confinement center, my brother went back to work. Yesterday, he sent another message saying that he had bought 20 chickens for me to find a place for me. After raising her, she prepared raw eggs for me to eat, and then stewed chicken to replenish my body...

Wait, etc., there are too many things that I may not be able to recall...but indeed everything It all surprised and touched me. Although I was much better later, and occasionally he would deliberately make me laugh and cause my wounds to hurt, I really felt very happy.

Now, I have given birth to two babies. I feel very lucky, because I know that even if one day, mom and dad leave them, they still have a close relative in this world who can always be with them. Accompanying each other and becoming each other's strongest support when they need it most is also their warmest support in the world. #Early1000Days of Life#