Children are rebellious and tired of learning, like playing mobile phones, and always ignore them. How to communicate with rebellious children?

When children enter adolescence, various problems follow. The family atmosphere of loving each other immediately turned into a chicken flying a dog jumping. So what should parents do in the face of post-adolescent rebellion?

1: Treat children's problems calmly with static braking. Parent must control their emotions. You might as well tell the child when he is in a good mood. If he doesn't feel well, he might as well go back to the dormitory to calm down or try to go out for activities instead of staying at home. If you trust us, you can express your inner unhappiness and don't suppress yourself too much.

2. Treat children's problems with an optimistic and cheerful attitude. Bian Xiaojun often communicates with some adolescent boys and girls. From the standpoint of friends, he listened to them very carefully, let them express their unhappiness, and often showed a very understanding and sympathetic attitude. When the children have finished speaking, I will tell them about the similar phenomenon I experienced when I was young, and I will soon be able to have a buzz with each other, making the children feel that this friend really understands people. This has actually won the trust of young people. Then put forward some reasonable suggestions, solicit their opinions and listen to their opinions. This is not forced by parents, but many choices for teenagers. Parents must remember that children like sunny and humorous parents, because it is easier for them to find answers and gain motivation in a space full of laughter.

3. Make rules and stick to them. The root of children's problems lies in the family, whether there are reasonable rules in peacetime, and the principles and bottom line of parenting. Rules are what family members must abide by. If he can't, he will be punished. The rule is not to talk without practice. If nothing is true, over time, children will do many things and give up at will. This lack of organization and integrity is not common among teenagers, and many parents are used to it. So we must stick to it.

4. entertaining and entertaining. Don't take asking children to study hard as the first priority, first become their good friends and partners. It's easy to do this. You don't have to get bored just to watch the children study. As long as you let go of your study and spend more time thinking about how to play with your children, it is not difficult to have a good chat. As long as there is no distance between you and your child's heart, will it be difficult to talk to your child about how to study with goals, plans and efficiency?

5. Clear goals and look forward to the future. Good grades do not mean that children will not have ups and downs in the future. You know, the road of life is complicated and tortuous. If parents don't cultivate their children's independence, they will become the burden of "gnawing at the old" sooner or later. Even some children will go astray in the future. Education should have a broad vision and long-term goals, and the educational process of different age groups should be implemented in a planned way. The content of education should have a strong continuity, and children should not be raised by parents' interest and enthusiasm. Once you lack perseverance and endurance, children will certainly be like you in some behaviors.