Classic Quote: You can rely on someone, but don’t rely on anyone

Introduction: You will only meet a few people who are truly good to you in your life. Some people will light up the world for you, and some people will clear away the dust in your heart. But an extra inch of distance between people can easily turn into a ridiculous loss of contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people we have. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to Those who are still by your side are better, enduring the dullness and excitement of life.

1. Sometimes you are misunderstood by the people around you, so you should not explain it to him. Since he does not believe you, why should you explain it to him? Even if you win by explaining, you can't win his trust in you.

2. Be a calm person, be a kind person, be a person with a smile on your lips and happiness in your heart.

3. I forget when we started forwarding other people’s Weibo posts. Just because these words seem to be describing my own mood, or writing some stories and experiences about myself.

4. I walk around alone, knowing that I am self-sufficient from beginning to end. I don't know what I'm waiting for, just like I don't know what's waiting for me.

5. Every morning, I remind myself again that life is short and beautiful, and there is no time to worry or care.

6. There is no need to crave understanding and recognition from others in life, because others do not have these obligations. Live your life quietly. If your heart doesn't move, the wind will do nothing. If you are not injured, the years will be fine.

7. Hug yourself when you are tired, and comfort yourself when you cry. It is impossible to have someone by your side to accompany you and pamper you all the time. You must learn to love yourself.

8. All roads, whether active or passive, are your choices. There is only one taste in life at a certain period. No matter how bitter you feel or how envious of others you are, you can only be immersed in this taste and either become numb and sink, or pick yourself up and save yourself. Some people may say that I really have no choice. In fact, there are thousands of roads, and there is not only one road at any time. When it's time to shoulder the responsibility, don't shirk your responsibilities and don't make complaining a habit easily.

9. Sometimes you don’t just meet a person and show your heart to him. In your opinion, he is a friend, but in his opinion, you are a fool who speaks freely. When you help him without hesitation when he needs you, in your view, it is a natural way for friends to help each other. In his view, you are a scapegoat who can help when it is useful and kick when it is not. Not everyone in this world is a friend, only one or two can be friends with each other.

10. Everyone has a very difficult time. After you get through it, you will feel that those things that were about to kill you at the time, and so many situations that you thought were almost unbearable, will slowly get better. stand up. No matter how slow it is, as long as you are willing to wait, it will become a thing of the past. As for those things that you cannot defeat, overcome, tolerate, and tolerate for the time being, just tell yourself that whatever cannot kill you will eventually make you stronger.

11. Be prepared. If you are in a bad mood, listen to less sad songs. When you are hungry, find food by yourself. If you are afraid of the dark, turn on the light. If you want, make your own money to buy it, even if life gives you all kinds of things. There is no need to use pretentiousness to magnify one's difficulties even if there is obstruction. The reality is so cruel, so stop pretending to be innocent. Don't care too much about things you can't change. Try to learn to give up when you can't keep people. Try your best to heal yourself when your heart is hurt. Except for life and death, it's all trivial. Don't embarrass yourself.

12. It is easy to give up, but you will gain nothing in the end; it is difficult to persist, but you will definitely gain something in the end. If you are brave, the world will make way for you; if you are not afraid of fate, it will surrender for you. We can choose to remain stagnant, or we can choose to change ourselves. We can choose to be comfortable and enjoy ourselves, or we can choose to bloom wonderfully in struggle. Who you were in the past and who you are today are not important. What is important is who you will become in the future. It is ourselves who decide our destiny.

13. You can rely on someone, but don’t rely on anyone. When you devote yourself to someone, that person will often betray you. Because you have given it all, and there is no freshness or use value.

People are always like this, they often don't cherish what they get. So, when you are hurt by someone, first think about whether you have given too much and put yourself down. If you want others to love you, you must first love yourself. If you don't love yourself, no one can help you.

14. When you laugh when recalling the past, it means you have grown up; when you cry when recalling the past, it means you have matured; when you are indifferent when recalling the past, it means you have become sophisticated; When you recall the past, you feel emotional, which means you are helpless; when you recall the past, you become calm, it means you are getting old.

15. The greatest reward you can get is not how many people you meet, how beautiful scenery you see, or what kind of adventures you experience, but when you walk and encounter an encounter, you suddenly re- After getting to know myself, I suddenly found that I had changed and became different. Time is the most powerful digestive agent. It can dissolve all unforgettable things into nothing, and finally everything begins to become unimportant.

16. Why do you need to expose someone when you see them clearly? Why do you need to fall out with someone if you hate them? In life, there are always people who can't stand us, just like others can't stand us. Living, it is said to be simple, but it is actually very simple. Only when you laugh at the gains and losses can the sea and the sky be brighter; only when your heart is transparent can the flowers bloom in spring. That's all life is.

17. Don’t be afraid that a certain personality will offend people. You must know that no personality in the world can avoid offending people. Speaking really will offend villains, speaking tactfully will offend hot-tempered people, and good people will offend people. Offending principled people, smooth people will offend smart people. Since you will offend others, just be yourself and be yourself, and you will not be afraid of offending others, because you can bear the consequences.

18. What do you want? Stay together for life. Still a moment of pleasure. I want it. Just a simple but stable life. Love reaches the end of the road and cannot be recovered. The best happiness is the care you give me. He only belongs to me and he will never lie to me again. After a long wait, there is no way back, until the day when your heart is broken, you finally know that you have been lying to yourself.

19. The married life I like is like this: two people have their own passionate careers. After work, they go home and lie on the sofa, accompany the children or watch TV, cook together, clean the room together, and enjoy each other Smile, hug each other to sleep at night, kiss each other goodbye in the morning and go to work, travel together, watch movies together, go shopping together, and say anything to each other first. Simple and clean, like a freshly washed white shirt.

20. In the memory of you, one figure and one look are enough to make people's hearts move. I am afraid of such longing, but I have to run like a river day and night. But the feeling of missing is not like this. No matter how much you forget, it will always linger in your mind. The past has passed, but the future has not yet come. No matter what happens in the future, all we have is this, now.

21. Sometimes, I clearly have a lot to say in my heart, but I don’t know how to express it; sometimes, I have many dreams, but I am unable to achieve them; sometimes, others misunderstand my words that are spoken but not meant. I feel depressed and panicked; sometimes, a feeling of boredom suddenly emerges in my heart, and I feel very tired; sometimes, I find that I have grown up overnight, but I can’t see what my future will look like, and I feel confused and at a loss. .

22. Time is really good. It makes the pain no longer hurt and lets go of the things that can’t be let go. I can see everything clearly. But occasionally I still fall into a daze, think of it, or burst into tears. But I can already accept the fact that you have passed with time.

23. The relationship in which we put the most effort is embracing the person we thought we could be with forever. It turns out that when time passes by youth, one day these magnificence will still be lost, and we still have to endure it helplessly. Say goodbye with tears. Only then do we realize that our love is much deeper than we thought. If you are kind enough, there is no need to feel pain, unless you still have evil in your heart.

24. Living is a happy and difficult thing. Because when God bestows life on a person, he also entrusts people with many heavy responsibilities.

A person, apart from his innocent childhood and his twilight years, spends most of his life running around for family and career. The content of life is not easy for most people. However, since you have chosen to live, you should live your life to the fullest.

25. Sometimes life needs to settle, and you need to have enough time to reflect. Life must be happy, and the foundation of happiness is peace and health. Remember the people who appear in your life with gratitude. There is no next stop for people you miss; there is no next life for things you miss; when you have it, cherish it; when you can do it, take advantage of it.

26. You will only meet a few people who are truly good to you in your life. Someone will light up the world for you, and someone will clear away the dust in your heart. But an extra inch of distance between people can easily turn into a ridiculous loss of contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people we have. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to Those who are still by your side are better, enduring the dullness and excitement of life.

27. Don’t stand on tiptoe to love someone. If your center of gravity is unstable, you won’t be able to hold on for long. To grow old together, both must love each other and be willing to sacrifice for each other. Therefore, when looking for a partner, you need to find someone who is generous. Don't believe someone who won't take any loss, even if he says "I love you" ten thousand times. People who love you will be willing to lose to you. Only when you learn to accommodate and tolerate can you prove that you are deeply in love with me. The person who truly loves you will pamper you in every possible way and give you the love that will last you forever.

28. Daytime is close at hand. When it comes, your burdens will become gifts. The suffering you endure will illuminate your path forward.

30. For a relationship to last, the most important thing may not be love, but gratitude. Thank you for discovering you in the crowd and holding your hand as a treasure until now. Thank you for burning your most precious youth just for him. Everything you do for each other is seen and remembered. So no matter what happens in the future, you can quarrel or get angry, but you will never leave. Thank you for growing old with me. This is the greatest luck in my life.

Editorial: All roads, whether active or passive, are your choices. There is only one taste in life at a certain period. No matter how bitter you feel or how envious of others you are, you can only be immersed in this taste and either become numb and sink, or pick yourself up and save yourself. Some people may say that I really have no choice. In fact, there are thousands of roads, and there is not only one road at any time. When it's time to shoulder the responsibility, don't shirk your responsibilities and don't make complaining a habit easily. Classic quotation: You can see through, but don’t see through.

Life is a process of cultivation. No matter how big a thing is today, it will be a trivial matter tomorrow. In life, we often see some people being optimistic and others pessimistic. Why is this happening? In fact, the world we live in is not that different, it’s just the individual’s inner attitude towards life that is different.

Life is so long and there are so many unknown things. The relationship between people is often mutual. Being good to others is also good to oneself. Make yourself more peaceful, more open-minded, and more tolerant of the mistakes around you. Everyone has their own difficulties, so why force it on others.

In everything you do, you must be careful in your words and careful in your deeds. Talking endlessly in front of others may seem like you are showing off yourself, but in fact you are exposing yourself naked to the eyes of others. It's not about talking too much, it's about the weight. Sometimes silence is a kind of self-protection. If you talk too much, you will lose it. Don't let the privacy in your heart have nowhere to hide. Think twice before doing anything, be tenacious during things, and don’t regret afterwards. Only by looking further ahead and taking firmer steps will your life be more fulfilling and less regretful.

No matter what happened in the past, you have to believe that the best is yet to come. Life is a journey. Along the way, we cannot guess what kind of scenery we will encounter, and there is no warning about where the destination will be. However, we can never stop moving forward, because time does not allow us to stay anywhere, we can only move forward. Learn to choose, learn to experience, and learn to appreciate.

Life is not perfect, and happiness is not 100%. A good life should always have a relaxed and comfortable heart. No matter how the outside world changes, you can have a quiet world.

Peace is not in the bustle and complexity, nor in a heart that wants too much. Let go of your worries and open your mind, and your heart will naturally be peaceful and worry-free.

You can see through, but don’t see through.

Living according to your heart is the best life. Life is not perfect, only regrets show the true nature of life. Life is often full of unsatisfactory things. If you think about it, you will free yourself. If you don't think about it, you will definitely find troubles. You will still be worried about it even when you are old. Why bother!

Life is a difficult thing, and pursuing the life you want is even more so, because you not only have to have the courage to face the doubts of others and the challenges of the world, but you also have to have the courage to face yourself The consequences of possibly accomplishing nothing. If you succeed, no one may applaud you, but if you fail, you may become the laughing stock of others. Respect those who dare to break the rules and have the courage to face the consequences.

Everyone in life has had one or more beautiful first encounters. Human beings are born in this world, which means they will endure pain and suffering, happiness or misfortune. In real life, each of us has to go through a smooth or curved road. Some people crawl in the wind and rain, some sigh in the wind and rain, and some people move forward persistently.

In life, it is better to be bearish than to see through. There are many people and things in life, it’s not that I don’t understand them, it’s just that I feel helpless. For the rest of my life, I just want to be happy. For those people and things that give you a headache if you can’t figure it out, and feel distressed after you figure it out, it’s better to look at them indifferently.

Life is short, why not take it easy. There are no great principles in life. Living life is just a kind of mood. Live with a good mood, and don’t say tired even if you are tired, and don’t say bitter if you are miserable. Happiness may be reflected in "not saying tiredness" and "not saying bitterness". Classic quotation: Who has truly loved themselves?

Introduction: We once naively thought that as long as two people love each other enough, they can fight against the whole world and be together forever. But when you are really in this world, you must abide by the rules of the game in this world. As long as you are alive, there are many things that we cannot get rid of.

1. Loneliness is not something you are born with, but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone.

2. To a person, hatred is not the most cruel behavior, but indifference is the most lethal weapon.

3. People are sad, not because love is over, but because when everything is over, love is still there.

4. Life is a long journey, don’t waste time waiting for those who don’t want to go hand in hand with you.

5. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness. Disappointment occurs because of expectations. Because there is love, there will be expectations, so even if you are disappointed, it is still a kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness is a bit painful.

6. Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

7. When you encounter frustration and pain, tell yourself: It’s just getting back to zero, it’s just starting over. Even if you fall into the bottom of life, as long as you leave where you are, you will rise in any direction.

8. One day everything will be used up. The sun will be used up, the air will be used up, the fuel will be used up, and the energy will be used up. Patience will run out, fighting spirit will run out, why can't love run out?

9. Parting and reunion are constant dramas in life. Once you get used to them, you will no longer feel sad.

10. In the world of marriage, there is nothing wrong with confessing. What is wrong is that you mistakenly believe that confessing can save your own conscience, but ignore the harm to the other party.

11. In real life, whether it is a man or a woman, when faced with one party’s cheating, there are not many choices, there are only two: one is to forgive, and then not to settle old scores; the other is to forgive; It's a breakup, no more entanglement.

12. Give me a tear, and I will see the entire ocean in your heart! If you can't come to me, let me try to come to you.

13. A hundred sentences of "if you love" are not as real as one sentence of "together".

14. There is still a long way to go, and you may cry, but you must keep going and never stop.

15. The more you understand your own personality and needs, the less likely you will be influenced by the outside world.

16. Love comes and goes quickly, only pork rolls are eternal. From now on, I am going to do myself a favor: unburden myself, forget the pain, and heal the trauma.

17. From now on, I will do myself a favor: unload the burden, forget the pain, and heal the trauma.

18. Why is he not on guard? Why can't you be hurt? Why? Is it because he is innocent? He is stupid, why do you want to make him stupid to the end? Life must toughen him up. As a person, if you don't let him know the truth of life, that is deception. What is a great evil? Deception is a great evil.

19. I don’t miss you every day, but in all the beautiful, deep, and enlightened moments, that’s when I miss you.

20. About love: It is better to have met before than never to have met.

21. Baby, the world is not as big as my missing you.

22. The best feeling is that when I look towards you, you are already staring at me.

23. I am neither driven by hope nor swayed by despair. I love you so much that I am moved by it.

24. Falling in love is the same as being a thief. It requires memory, courage, fear, fear of embarrassment, and living in insecurity.

25. We don’t need to envy the happiness that others have. What you think you don’t have may be on the way here; what you think she has may be on the way there.

26. I am afraid of losing you, so I hold you tightly in my arms. If you take a step away, I will burst into tears. I don’t know what magic I can rely on to keep your world’s wealth in my weak arms forever.

27. Please give me a pair of hands to soothe my irritability; give me a hug to rely on when I am tired.

28. The one who can stay by your side is your lover, and the one who can keep it in your heart is love. When a person is too busy to breathe, never touch love, because love is a treasure that needs oxygen to survive.

29. In a maze-like city, people get used to seeing the same scenery, taking the same route, and reaching the same destination; habits make people’s lives no longer change. Habits give people an inexplicable sense of security, but also an inexplicable loneliness. And you never know what your habits will cause you to miss.

30. Memories will warm your body from the inside and at the same time cut your body violently from the inside.

31. A man’s three favorite gifts: a high hat: give him one high hat after another from time to time, praise him, worship him; admiring eyes: even if he does something It's a stupid thing, but you still give him such a look; the comfort of life: let him know that you will share the joys and sorrows with him, and you are the comfort of his soul.

32. Everyone is like a book, with something to behold. It's just that some covers are poorly designed and fail to arouse readers' interest.

33. I looked at her again and again. All my life, with all my heart, I love her the most. I am sure of it, as sure as I am that I will die. She can fade, she can wither, whatever. But I just looked at her, and all kinds of tenderness came to my heart.

34. This is how relationships are, if you hurt someone else, whether intentionally or unintentionally, there will always be someone to hurt you.

35. Emotions can sometimes be like a child, naughty and lost, but their nature is pure and kind. As long as you can wait for its return with the calmness of waiting for a tree to bloom, one day what it owes you will definitely be repaid quietly in a way that you don't know.

36. Love with love, don’t ask for it with non-independent personality factors such as need, possession, and dependence.

37. If you cannot live in a beautiful posture, live healthily, live pliably, and live clumsily and innocently, you will be like fabric that has lost its elasticity. Or a lubricated bottom of the bowl, at least to survive. To wait for the day when that hug appears.

38. The so-called love is that I am in you and you are in me. It turns out that eating alone is not as enjoyable as eating with two people.

39. When I stand in front of you in pain, you can't say that I have nothing, you can't say that I am empty-handed.

40. Love once and hate once. Ever since, life has become less mediocre.

Editor’s note: I found that I didn’t have the courage to leave him at all. I don't want to spend any more time getting used to another person, accepting his good and bad qualities, and then hurting each other again and again. In the end, you will find that you don’t even know who really loves you. Classic Quotation: Whoever you can forgive without a bottom line can hurt you without a bottom line

Introduction: What is sweetness in love? I never get tired of seeing each other. Even if we quarrel or feel wronged, thinking that it is you, we are willing to do it. There must be another me in this world, doing things I dare not do and living the life I want.

1. Being alone does not mean leaving everything behind and hiding, but returning to your purest self.

2. The source of true happiness lies within ourselves; as long as a person is good at pursuing happiness, others cannot make him fall into a truly miserable situation.

3. Please accept who you are now and improve who you are now. Exercise makes you more elegant, reading allows you to see the world you have never seen before, and dressing up makes you look forward to every day. You don’t need to be the person others say, you just want to be among the crowds of people, and you won’t be embarrassed by it. I feel flustered even though I am ordinary, but I feel confident that there will never be another me in this world.

4. There is no need to deliberately meet anyone, nor to be eager to own anyone, nor to forcefully keep anyone. Let everything take its course, and leave the best of yourself to the last person.

5. What is sweetness in love? I never get tired of seeing each other. Even if we quarrel or feel wronged, thinking that it is you, we are willing to do it.

6. You must have a rich heart to get rid of these superficial similarities in life.

7. When I was young, I thought being alone was cool. When I grow up, I feel lonely is a very desolate thing. Now, I feel lonely is not a thing. At least, try not to make it a thing.

8. Every little thing we have experienced together may seem meaningless at the time, but it is destined to become each other’s lifelong secret, because in the days to come, even if we work hard If you want to tell any outsider, you will definitely be unable to restore the scene at that time. Even if you can clearly explain what you saw in your eyes, you cannot explain what passed through your heart.

9. There must be another me in this world, doing things I dare not do and living the life I want.

10. When you are wronged, say okay in front of others. I called my mother and when I heard her voice, I called out to her and burst into tears. Because I know that when people ask what's wrong, it's more to satisfy gossip and curiosity, not necessarily to really worry. Only when my mother asks what's wrong is she really worried. Even if the whole world doesn't care about me, what is certain is that in my mother's heart, I am her whole world.

11. On the train of youth, if you want to get off early, please don’t push me to wake up, so that I can sleep until the end and pretend not to know that you have left.

12. Slowly, you will realize that there are really few things in life that are worthy of our courtesy, education, character and structure.

13. Summer is still in front of us, and in the blink of an eye it is the end of the year. It is a pity not to take seriously the people you accompany and the things you have done. I'm afraid I'll get old before I grow up; I'm afraid I won't have enough fun and I'll say goodbye.

Become more powerful, know how to cherish and stop being lazy, and stop complaining when you get up after falling. Be more awesome, do it when you think of it, stop procrastinating, go to bed when you need to, and stop staying up late. If the person in your memories is no longer around, be kinder to the person who is still around you.

14. People on the mountain should not look down on people at the bottom of the mountain, because one day they will come up the mountain to replace you. People who go up the mountain should not look down on those who go down the mountain, because you are still at the bottom of the mountain when he is enjoying the scenery.

15. As a woman, you must first strive for financial independence, and then you can be qualified to talk about what you should strive for. From the age of fifteen to twenty-five, strive for opportunities to study and travel; from the age of twenty-five to the age of thirty-five, work hard, continue to study, start a family, and start saving; after the age of thirty-five, turn work into a career, redouble your efforts to study, Be sure to have some assets to defend yourself.

16. Bai Yansong comforted me one day: "The best years that people claim are actually the most painful. They are only so happy when they recall them afterwards."

17. I want to continue to be a lunatic and live my life according to my dreams and not the way other people want me to.

18. Don’t care about people who don’t care about you. Don't think about people who don't think about you. Don't worry about people who don't worry about you. Don't spend time with people who won't spend time with you.

19. The older you get, the less willing you are to explain some things. It’s not because you’re afraid of trouble, but because you know that many things cannot be explained. Many people end up parting ways in the end, sometimes feeling it is a pity, sometimes feeling that it is inevitable. There must be people like you in this world, but not many. There is always someone who can hear your cry behind your silence, and I hope someone can understand your hesitation in speaking.

20. Happiness should come by chance, not by chance. It's like drinking a cup of iced wheat tea when you're thirsty, rather than having a full meal when you're full.

21. Say less harsh words and do less impulsive and willful things.

22. My favorite soda when I was a kid, but I finally got it back and drank it, but it didn’t taste right. The world has changed us, and we have mercilessly changed the world in our eyes... There are some beautiful things that are good to keep in our memories.

23. If someone appears in your dream, you should call them when you wake up. Life would be much simpler this way.

24. There is no doubt that good things will come. And when it comes late, it's a surprise.

25. Love is when you lose a front tooth, but you can still smile calmly. Because you know that your friends will not stop loving you just because you are incomplete.

26. Sometimes, we have to be strong, so while pretending to be strong, we really become stronger and stronger.

27. Whoever you can forgive without a bottom line can hurt you without a bottom line.

28. It is better to refuse seriously than to agree casually. Commitments are limited and energy is tight. You can learn two other skills: casually rejecting annoying people and seriously agreeing to your sweetheart.

29. Too much pain and misfortune in life are caused by wanting to live like "others" instead of living "like myself".

30. Most people die in their twenties and thirties, because after this age, they are just shadows of themselves, and they will spend the rest of their lives imitating themselves, day after day. , more mechanical and more pretentious, repeating what they did, thought, loved and hated in their lifetime.

31. People’s fragility and strength are beyond their imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with just one sentence. Sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

32. The kindness of some people is like wine buried in the ground. It will always take a long time before they can be known to others. The remaining drinkers can only drink alone until dawn. The farthest distance is when the person is still there, the love is still there, but the way back is gone.

33. Sometimes you think the sky is falling, but in fact you are standing crookedly.

34. The real life is to do your duty seriously every day. Don’t ask for love and vision that currently have nothing to do with you.

Don’t dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. Don’t be delusional, don’t be self-indulgent in it. No harm, no enmity to yourself or others. Don’t perform and don’t trust other people’s performances.

35. The heart is a house with two bedrooms. One room contains pain and the other room contains joy. People cannot laugh too loudly. Otherwise the laughter will wake up the pain in the next room.

36. Now I feel more and more that it is really a kind of friendship to meet those friends who you can get along with comfortably and chat with, who are frank and don’t care about each other, and who take you into their hearts instead of just showing up. What a blessing. If there is, we should all cherish it.

37. If the people who love you don’t love you the way you want them to, it doesn’t mean they don’t love you wholeheartedly.

38. The most important thing for us is not to care about the true and false, gains and losses, fame and fortune, noble and humble, rich and poor, but how to live happily and discover the meaning of life. poetry.

39. It doesn’t matter if you are alone. As long as you love someone from the bottom of your heart, your life will be saved. Even if you can't live with him.

40. The person I miss most is you, and the person I don’t want to disturb the least is you.

Editor’s Note: Real life means doing your part seriously every day. Don’t ask for love and vision that currently have nothing to do with you. Don’t dwell on unnecessary emotions and judgments. Don’t be delusional, don’t be self-indulgent in it. No harm, no enmity to yourself or others. Don’t perform and don’t trust other people’s performances.